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B.  What is my purpose in writing these things?

The book of Ezekiel 33:1-6 in God's Word, the Bible:   "The Word of the Lord came to me:  Son of man speak to your people and tell them:  Suppose I bring a sword against the land, and the people of the land select a man from among them, appointing them as their watchman, and he sees the sword coming against the land and blows his trumpet to warn the people.    Then, if anyone hears the sound of the trumpet but ignores the warning, and the sword comes and takes him away, his blood will be on his own head (he is responsible for his own demise).    Since he heard the sound of the trumpet but ignored the warning, his blood is on his own hands (he brought it on himself).    If he had taken warning, he would have saved his life.    However, if the watchman sees the sword coming but doesn't blow the trumpet, so that the people aren't warned, and the sword comes and takes away their lives, then they have been taken away because of their iniquity, but I will hold the watchman accountable for their blood."    (words in parenthesis - mine).   Nobody on this earth has appointed me as one of God's "watchmen" and yet I am honored to serve in this capacity.    As you have read, for me to remain silent is something I cannot honorable do.    I am accountable to God.    My years overseas, my professional background, my aptitudes and interests over the years give me an unusual ability to "connect the dots" of life to show you that we, as a nation, are not going in a direction of our choosing.    We have deadly enemies in our midst, and mortal enemies overseas.    Our military is performing their assigned missions overseas, while we are letting our country fall apart.    This web-site has brought you ample warning of what is happening to our country.    It's up to you to go out and fight to preserve our nation, our culture, our way of life, and the dream of greatness our founding fathers had those many years ago.   

Sincerely, Brother Graham see other articles by GG

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That one email about man having another side really hit home with me.  My husband is two people in one.  It is a package deal when I married him.  I think it's either some kind of food, or something, that changes him completely into another person. It is not only scary, it triggers so much self-doubt and anger and hurt in me.  Is this part of marriage, accepting the other person's other sides?  I  would really like to know.  Is anyone consistent, or is everyone this way?  I know I have various sides too but not as extreme as his.  Marlene B.

Marlene, some people who have never moved far from where they grew up, and never had to modify their behavior to fit new circumstances, have a predominant single side to their personalities.    High School provides one set of circumstances that everyone has to adjust to.    College, on your own, away from home, is another set of circumstances.    A military tour of duty (four years) is yet another set of circumstances that you must adjust to, especially if you spend some time in a war zone.    Your career choice also requires that you fit in under circumstances that you are not accustomed to.    Each of these things may require that you modify your previous behavior in order to succeed under these new circumstances.    As we get older, there are things that can trigger you into a previous mode of behavior that you have long since laid aside.    It will be something similar to what you had to do earlier in life in order to succeed.    Some people revert from alcohol, psychological pressure, or various kinds of stress.    The trick is to be aware of this personality mechanism and to control it.    When you revert at an inappropriate time it can cause all kinds of hurt feelings and confusion.    Discuss this with your husband and see if you can identify what part of his life this negative personality mode originated from.    If it becomes a serious problem between you, then seek some professional help.    Just identifying the problem is taking you half-way to solving it. 

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So what if McCaine has a woman for VP?  What does she say about abortion and homosexuality?  Same old indifference?  Then it is more of the same. We are a perverted culture and I have my doubts a moral revolution will do anything.   How could we teach three generations that everything they have learned is false?  It would be impossible.  Richard Valiera

 Richard, I agree with you completely.

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Hello BG and KK.  This is a wonderful union.  There are lots of things on this page about the government, and frankly I feel too powerless to get into it.  It is frustrating but what the hell can I do about it?  I want to concentrate on the things I can do something about, like disciplining my own kids.  Which is impossible, since the influences in the schools and their chums are perverse.  It is so engrained, what can I do--watch him every moment?  All I can do is say "peace at any price" and give up.  I frankly don't think there is a thing I can do at this point.  Yes he got tattoos and I hated them but rather than argue EVERY MOMENT, I just turn on TV and start eating.  Lil Beansley

Lil, your life is every bit as precious as your son's.    Even if you can't see a way of helping him any more, you should find other activities other than the TV and eating.    When your son is grown and gone, what will you be like, and what do you plan on doing then?    Take good care of yourself today.    Get on Karen's diet and get slim and trim for when you get past this "motherhood gig".    There is life after kids, and it can be a very good one.     That's up to you.   

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I am truly happy for this website, all the pages.  It is wonderful that we have a complete diet (THAT WORKS......), wonderful entertaining and educational books, and now a MORAL REVOLUTION that is hopefully brewing.  You both are a godsend to this nation.  I would like to ask about the latter:  how do we start a moral revolution, and IS IT EVEN POSSIBLE?  I mean think about it--it's been three generations of this perversity spawned on innocent children who then become monsters, raising other monsters they refuse to discipline.  It is chaos.  I worry about the pets and small children in these homes.  Nicole L.

Nicole, I doubt that a moral revolution is possible until, and unless, it becomes an election issue.    If that doesn't happen, then after the election the problems of our children will be swept under the rug again and the "New Tolerance" experiment will continue, and we will keep tottering toward ultimate cultural failure.    The "call to revolution" won't get anywhere if the people don't respond.    We might have more problems shortly.    I read yesterday that "Lehman Brothers Holdings" is in trouble:

"Stocks declined but pulled off their lows Thursday (11Sept.) as investors dumped shares of Lehman Brothers Holdings Inc. and other financial names over worries it is becoming harder for them shore up their balance sheets."

This is another huge financial corporation, like Fannie Mae & Freddie Mac, that is on the verge of failing and is currently dragging the stock market down.    Again, when the stock market takes a dive, precious metals shoot up, and the value of our dollar goes in the toilet.    Then inflation shoots up and everything is more expensive.    Finance 101 (tinker toys).    Wait and see.    People's attention will not be on what is happening to our kids then, and the experiment will continue.  

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Hello Brother Graham.  I appreciate all you are doing.  It is like holding back a tidal wave.  Ok, here goes:  I was raised Christian, Baptist.  I know the difference between right and wrong and I believe in chastity.  Well when the NEW AGE hit thirty years ago in the schools, I slowly changed.  I figured "things have changed due to new trends".  I let it go--when my teens insisted on locking their doors and taking other people into their rooms, I just closed my eyes and ears and tried to think of other things. I told myself a lie.  I was in denial.  Well now I see how wrong I was--I was just lazy and scared of being called a bigot, an intolerant person.  But now what do I do, having let it go this far?  Ruth C,

Ruth, you have read enough on this Q&A list to know what your rights and responsibilities are as a parent..    I would sit your kids down and simply admit to them that you were wrong to look the other way until now.    What they are probably doing is wrong and will no longer be permitted in your home.    They won't like it but life is full of things that you don't like so now it's their turn.    Tell them that the high rate of sexually transmitted diseases scares the heck out of you and you will not allow any further immoral behavior in your own home.    You might be saving their lives with this late but appropriate move on your part.

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Hello Brother.   My son is in a gang and is in prison for murder.  He got in a fight and there was a stabbing.  He says he did not do it, but was in put in the penitentiary for being an "accomplice".  I will never know the truth I guess, but it has left me bereft. My husband fell out of love with me, and out of fear of social disapproval divorced me and moved away.   My own family has turned against me, and shunned me, for being mother to a murderer.  My neighbors want me to move, my friends have turned their backs on me.  I am alone.  When I visit my son, he is filled with prison tattoos, a bald head, a beard, and nasty looks and behavior.  He is not my son, he is spoiled and terrible.  Can you have any suggestions for me?  I believe in God but don't feel I know him.  Hanny G.

Hanny, you have permanently lost your son.    The nice boy he once was will never return to you.    That was his choice, now you must decide what to do with the rest of your life.    Life can still be sweet, but not where you live.    If you are to have any chance of a decent life, sell your home and whatever else and move to a better place.    Surely you know of someplace where you will be welcome and/or can find work to support yourself.    I wouldn't visit the man who used to be your son any more.    He obviously doesn't appreciate your faithfulness to him and he doesn't deserve it.    Time will heal the wounds in your heart.    Turn your back on them all and look after your own welfare.    Like I said, "life can still be sweet", but not where you have so many bitter memories.    With time and distance, you will recover.    Believe in God because He believes in you.    After all you are one of His creations.    God doesn't cause bad things to happen in our lives.    We are free agents with the right to choose our own way.    Some choose Him and some choose evil.    People who avoid God in their lives are easy prey to evil.    In the times to come, you will be better off away from large cities.    Set yourself up for the long-haul.    Don't get a job that depends on a booming economy to function.    Something that is necessary even during hard times.    Close this chapter of your life and look forward to the beginning of your new life.    Life is best when you share it with our God.

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It seems impossible, a moral revolution at this point.  I was dismayed when the "hippies" came along.  I am 85 years young.  I was disgusted when they didn't take baths, was against the military, and were all for "free love".  I raised my kids at that time to go against this trend.  But now that I have grandkids I can see they refused to follow my advice.  They read Dr. Spock and the grandkids are NOT well behaved.  I really tried with my kids, but now when I punish the grandkids my own kids tell me I am being a bigot and intolerant.  Out of fear of being put away, I shut my mouth.  Do you really think I should assert myself, when they could put me away? Hal V.

 Hal, leave them be.    I know that you love them and want only good things for them in their lives, but they are adults and must make their own choices, right or wrong.    Dr. Spock has been thoroughly scientifically discredited.    Dr. Kinsey turned out to be a child-abusing pedophile.    All of this crap about "tolerance" and "preference" is, as you already know, totally wrong and the results of this madness will be the failure of our culture.    Get the books: "The New Tolerance" and "The Marketing of Evil" and get them to read about the path they are taking to nowhere.

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I wish to thank you for these answers.  It is breaking up families, these issues.  My mother and sister haven't spoken for ten years, due to my liberal sister's tirades about my mom's "repressed morality".  My sister had her FOURTH ABORTION, and this last one was at five months pregnancy.  This made my mom so mad and sick, after all she was to be the grandmother.  My sister just said "our generation doesn't think like you about these stupid things". What can I do to bring them together?  Marsha P.

 

1Titus 4:1&2

 "Now the Spirit expressly says that in latter times some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons, speaking lies in hypocrisy, having their own conscience seared with a hot iron, " 

Marsha, your sister's conscience is seared black from her guilt by causing the death of the four children in her womb.    I wouldn't be surprised if, when she decided to have a child, she could no longer get pregnant or her child will be defective in a way that will cause her heartbreak and remorse for many years to come (I do not wish this upon her).    It is my personal opinion that God, who gave women the miracle of creating life within them, will not let this pass unpunished in this life as well as the life to come.    A baby that is prematurely born at five months (21 weeks) has a 50% chance of living.     http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Premature_birth   

Proverbs 30:12 "There is a generation that is pure in its own eyes, Yet is not washed from its filthiness."

Your sister is righteous in her own eyes, but has committed an evil thing.    Unless she has a life-changing encounter with Jesus, there cannot be a reconciliation between your mother and sister.    Your sister has chosen to trust and follow the lies of this generation and has rejected God's Law of the sanctity of life.    To me, further contact with your sister, as if everything were OK between you, is to condone what she has done.    She made her choice, now it's up to you to impose consequences.    There are things that supersede family ties and this is one of them.

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I really agree with you on the morals of this country.  The problem is the fags are rich and fit, looking good.  Except for the "bears" and the dirty old men.  But ordinarily, the gays are becoming a wealthy and sophisticated (perception only) nation.  What can we do about it?  Can you please keep talking about this? Someone's got to.  Tommy V

Tommy, "what can we do about it?"    Some things must run their course toward ultimate failure before change is possible.    We are past the point of no return.    I know that most people want to believe in a "last minute save" but I do not.    We are in the midst of a moral revolution lead by the homosexuals , feminists, and the "equal diversity" crowd and they are winning.    They have won over the "National Council of Churches" denominations.    They control 90% of the press (approx.).    They control all government schools in our nation.    They control most of the court systems.    All government agencies are thoroughly infiltrated and coming under their control, except the military.    To add insult to injury, there is not even a hint of these issues being mentioned during our present election process, and they have successfully suppressed the freedom of speech and freedom of the press, when it comes to "them" (hate crime).    In order for any significant change to occur to correct this historical imbalance in morals and ethics, our country must fail just like all democracies have failed throughout history.    This has been planned for and accelerated by those who hope to rule after this impending failure.    Evidently the preparations for this have not been completed because the government has prevented the failure of Fannie May and Freddie Mac mortgage corporations.   Had they not done this, our financial system would have taken a severe beating from which we might not have recovered.    I project that this will happen after the next large disaster or two.    All of it together will make a Martial Law take-over more plausible to accept by the public majority.    Make no mistake; I do not desire any of this to happen, but I just can't see how it will not happen.    When you gather all the available facts and reach the conclusions that I have about the future of our country, it does not make you a "defeatist", it means that you are facing the impending reality of our world.   

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Hello Brother Graham.  I can really relate to all this stuff on the young.  It's like they are a separate nation, completely unruffled by what we think since the school have them mesmerized through their own raging hormones and sex instincts.  If they wanted to establish the youth under their jurisdiction (like the "Hitler Youth"), sex is surely a better way of doing it than even the bonfires of the Hitler Youth (which were hypnotizing).  This is really food for thought. I really hope your moral revolution makes a big "bang", and takes hold.  I think there are a lot of people who feel the way you do, but who don't have the guts to say it.  I really take my hat off to you for doing this.  Roger Fletcher, New Jersey

Roger, I am normally an incurable optimist but, like a rollercoaster, you must get to the bottom before you start up again.    The schools have nullified the traditional authority of parents and they have to know the effect that it is having on families.    The only escape presently possible is either home schooling or private schools, which is not possible for most folks.    The only chance that parents have of influencing their children is to make it clear to their kids that at home a "different set of rules" will prevail with no compromises.    It is the parents who established their homes.    It is the parents who pay the bills.    The schools have a responsibility for "teaching the kids", but it is the parents that are "responsible for their kids".    As such, it is the parents who are "in authority" over their children.    Given that, it is then obvious that minor children are not equal in status to their parents.    They do not have an equal input as to what is best for them and what kind of activities they are "allowed" to participate in by their parents.    Why many parents don't know these things is a mystery to me.    Don't they remember how it was when they were growing up (generally speaking)?    Also, thanks for the kind words Roger.

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Hello Brother.  When we built our home, my husband decided to give the kids their own bungalows, little casitas apart from the house. He  thought that would give them needed independence.  HAH.  all it has done is allow sex without supervision.  Brother, my kids are in their early teens and they bring kids into their separate residences after school, on weekends or at night.  I am SO ANGRY about this, but my husband (a non-christian) can't see what I am so upset about.  He says "they will do it anyway" but I can't help but think we paved the way by giving them their separate life.  I want to end it all.  What can I do now, with such apathy going on around me?  Sick in Memphis

 2Coninthians 6:14

   "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with lawlessness? And what communion has light with darkness?"

Dear Sick in Memphis, I hate to be a spoil-sport but what you are experiencing are the consequences of the decision you made to marry an unbeliever.    There are huge fundamental differences between us and them.    Obviously, at the time you married him it didn't seem important to you.    He seemed to be, and no doubt was, a very wonderful man for you to marry.    Now comes the issues of morals and ethics and the two of you are on opposite sides of the line.    He is the head of your family and you are obligated to follow his lead even though you know he is wrong.    In such cases, it is always the children who pay the price of our mistakes.    The only hope you have is to lead your husband to a saving knowledge of Jesus the Christ and then perhaps, together, you will have a chance of rescuing the minds and souls of your children from the sickness of this world.

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I was given this website link, and I'm glad I came here.   At last, someone is speaking out against the immorality of the youth, and pinpointing exactly where it is coming from.  Incredibly, it is coming from females who are supposed to guard children against evil.  I hope you speak more about this, and maybe go on You Tube to tell the world about what is really happening behind the scenes.  The new election should INCLUDE the moral revolution, should it not?  Are there any chances of this happening?  Of course not--they'd rather subterfuge.  Of course these kids have orgies after school, along with drug-taking.  And the parents just allow it, stuffing their faces.  This giant website covers everything and I thank you for it.  Lillian C.

Lillian, we're making preparations for presentations on the You Tube.    I know it's not a big deal, but we want to do it right.    The "immorality of youth" is not only being led, encouraged, and implemented by females, but by all on the far left which includes homosexuals, pedophiles, "equal diversity", male supporters of feminists, and others.    The rot goes deep and wide across our society.    The worst is yet to come. 

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I showed my neighbor (ex friend) your web pages against "gays" (which make me "gag").  She became furious (she is a member of a church which condones gay marriage) with me and started yelling.  People who believe in these things go against their consciences and become filled with extreme wrath.  It is because inside, they know they are wrong.  I think your moral revolution will soon force confrontations, for we all have "one of them" in our family, or someone who "knows" one of them.  It is unbeliebable that old fat ugly hairy or bald men are doing it with each other.  They don't need women anymore--they refuse to need or want a woman.  It is their way of getting back at the feminists.  Since they have no morals, why not?  It is sickening.  What should I do when people become so angry over this?  They have been hypnotized by the media et al.  Katherine G. Hoffsteder

Psalms 7:14 

Behold, the wicked brings forth iniquity; Yes, he conceives trouble and brings forth falsehood."

Proverbs 29:27   "An unjust man is an abomination to the righteous, And he who is upright in the way is an abomination to the wicked."

Katherine, people who consider themselves "religious" and therefore "righteous" (and of course, the church they go to cannot possibly be preaching "false doctrine"), will always become furious when anybody shows them in God's Word where they are wrong.    They believe what they are told and make no effort to examine God's Word for themselves in order to make up their own minds.    The sins of the church leaders therefore become the sins of the whole congregation but, each one of us is directly accountable to God.    When you leave this life and have to give an accounting to God, the church leaders are not going to be there to give you moral support.    You're on your own then.    Tell your neighbor that you don't want a dispute and that you would be glad to sit down with her so she can show you in the Bible where the web-site material you showed her is wrong.    If she cannot do that on her own, tell her you would be glad to do the same thing with her pastor or priest present.    If her pastor gets involved what you will hear from him (or her) is that the Bible is only relevant when it comes to "Salvation" but it does not apply to social issues.    In other words; "forget the ten commandments and everything that Jesus taught not directly relating to salvation".    The true issue is that "you can't pick and choose specific scriptures you choose to follow, and ignore the rest".    God's Word is one unified message and all of it leads to Jesus the Christ (promised one).    

Psalms 139:23&24

   "Search me, O God, and know my heart; Try me, and know my anxieties; And see if there is any wicked way in me, And lead me in the way everlasting."

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Hi brother--I want you to know how much I appreciate these words about the schools and the kids.  It is soooooooo disgusting and perverted.  These sleazy, cheesy feminists are actually encouraging this terrible behavior.  Like boys calling themselves "gay" when all they are doing is being dirty nasty boys. I congratulate you on attempting a MORAL REVOLUTION and I would like to help all I can.  I would love to be part of something like this--something good, for a change.   How can I help you?  Mary Anne, Houston

Mary Anne, you and everyone else who believes as we do can help by standing up in defense of right and wrong wherever you are.    Be careful of when and where you speak out on these issues because some of these nutso's  are not wrapped too tight in the brains department.    When something comes up in your local area, write a letter to the editor of your local newspaper and give your point of view.    If you're less than perfect at expressing yourself, feel free to use what I have written on this Q&A list.    Use my words if it expresses what's in your heart and mind.    Be a squeaky wheel.    Support the local church you attend if they stick to God's Word without adding their own "social twist".    Opportunities present themselves to all of us to stand up for what we believe in.    You will be a part of something good if you just do your part in spreading the word about the consequences of this social experiment our government is not protecting us from.    The death of marriage, morals, ethics, standards, honesty, and the authority of parents with their own children.    These are the consequences and they can do no other than to lead to our total ruin as a viable nation.    If you live anywhere close to South Houston, I hear that the First Southern Baptist Church of Pearland is a nice place to go to church.    This is not a denominational recommendation, it's just where my brother-in-law (Don) goes to church.    So anyway, "stand up and be counted". 

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I have read through several of these so I thought I'd write too.  I am having a problem which may not seem like much to you but it's very much to me.  My son has a girlfriend and they are both 15.  After school, when I'm at work, they go into his room and lock the door.   My husband says that when he comes home sometimes (for a break, as he works nearby) they are in there making "sex sounds".  I do NOT LIKE THIS.  I hate this.  I think it is wrong but my son says I have no right to judge him, and that I am "sexually repressed" if I see anything wrong about it.  Please comment  Jackie K. 

Jackie, as long as your your son is under 18 years of age, you are responsible for him, and have authority over him, whether he likes it or not.    You have every right to judge his activities in your own home.    You do not have to tolerate anything that breaks "your" rules in "your" own home.    You, his parents, decide what the rules are, and he, the minor child, will comply with your rules.    That's the law.    Your son is merely repeating the lies taught to him in the government school system when he tells you that you are "sexually repressed if you see anything wrong" with his bedroom sex-breaks.    Your son is being disrespectful to you when he says you are sexually repressed, intolerant, bigoted, or anything else he learns in his school that teaches against morals, ethics, and/or standards.    You do not have to put up with that.    I would not allow him to have anybody in your home for a month because he was disrespectful to you by not complying with your rules and the rude manner he spoke to you.    You are at war with a sick twisted government school system ruled by the NEA for the hearts and minds of your children.    You cannot concede defeat in your own home.    Your home should be an island of sanity in the surrounding ocean of "tolerance, preference, no morals, no ethics, no standards, and absolutely none of God's loving influence.    Do not underestimate the importance of this problem because it is happening all over the United States.    The idea that any minor child has an equal input with his/her parents to decide what they can or cannot do, is wrong, wrong, wrong.    You, the adults, are paying the bills and you call the shots.    The only "tolerance" you should have in your home is what you, the parents, are willing to tolerate.  

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What a miracle I found this website ON THIS DAY.  My friend sent me the link, and it was just what i needed to hear.  When I bring up the lack of discipline at PTA meetings I am rejected by the group.  Everything has changed since we were in school.  I can't tell you how important this information is.  KIDS RULE--THE PARENTS ARE MADE FOOL.  I want to know more.  But I agree--there is nothing I can do at this point, for if I were to take the reigns now my daughter and son wouldn't understand a thing--they would report me to the "school nazis".  I know it's too late, but still--what can we do at this point when we get no support by the school system, which seems to want to churn out criminals, sociopaths and sex addicts?  Ruthie F, Baco Raton FL

Ruthie, you are a wise woman to recognize that "there is nothing you can do at this point".    Many people ask for some input to help with their problems, but what they are telling me are "symptoms" of their previous failure to maintain discipline and control over their children.    However, you should at least try to establish some limits to the behavior of your children.    They think that everything revolves around them, and what benefits them and their personal priorities.     Parents have their own priorities, likes and dislikes and when there is a conflict between their priorities and your priorities, the children should concede to their parents wishes.    Let them clearly understand that name-calling and labels won't work with you.     They can parrot the terms; bigot, tolerance, preference, sexually repressed, homophobic, or anything else they learn from their "mentors" at school, and it shouldn't impress you, the parents, at all.    Your children should respect the fact that you believe in absolute "truth", right and wrong, morals, ethics, and standards.    Cooperation is a two-way street and if they want you to bend in the direction of their priorities, then they should bend in the direction of your priorities.    You should still insist that they follow the rules that are most important to you.    They want you to give in on everything, and that is not a reasonable expectation on their part.    It is reasonable for you to expect that they give in to your decisions, especially when you know it is in their own best interests.    I hope this helps. 

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My daughter is scared of her boyfriend.  Numerous times he has threatened her, he killed her cat (saying it was lost), she squeezed her arms so tight they were bruised, he tries to make her jealous with other girls.  All he wants is total control.  I am afraid he is going to kill her.  He drinks with his boyfriends and they get into fights.  I am really threatened by this boy and I don't know what to do about it because she says she "loves" him.  But he is twice her size and I worry every minute he's going to "go off" again.  Mrs. G. D.

Mrs. G.D., once again, if your daughter is a minor child under the age of 18, you are responsible for her and, as such, are in authority over her.    If you believe her life is in danger, get a "restraining order" against the boyfriend immediately, then he cannot get within 100 yards of her or anyone in your family, if you get that included in the restraining order.    Your daughter's very life has a much greater priority than a teen aged girl's claim of "love".    When you have the restraining order, then carry a camera with you that puts the date & time on the picture.    100 yards is the length of a football field.    If he comes around and you get a picture of him where he is recognizable, take it to law enforcement and off to jail he goes.    There is only one thing that will motivate a bully to stay away, and that is fear.    Bullies are cowards and will only back off from a force greater than what they can bring to bear.    If your misguided daughter believes that her infatuation with this thug is more important than the love of her parents, then I would "ground" her until she turned eighteen (or whatever "you" decide).    The bottom line decision is; do you believe that you know what is best for your daughter, or should you leave that decision up to her.    Keep in mind that she is not a mature adult and is certainly prone to making mistakes.    Whatever you decide, take action and do not delay it.    The welfare of your daughter is at stake.

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I read your thing on "democracy" and republic, and I say what's the use--why even watch the damned elections.  It's all phony.  What do you say about the dollar and the euro--should we be cashing everything in for euros? 

Warren Buffet, Bill Gates, and many other "super-rich people have already gotten all but the necessary short-term operating cash into other assets not based on the dollar.    The dollar is going down.    The financial institution failures that I projected to happen, starting this year, did happen.    The government decided to take over Freddy Mack and Fannie Mae, two private corporations, instead of letting them go bankrupt, which would have started the crash of the dollar.    They are trying their best to stave off the inevitable until the election.    If you have any dollar assets at all, by all means buy Euros and/or silver which is as low now as it will probably get ($12.26 last Friday).    I might know a few things about this and that, but it sure is easy to give bad financial advice.    However, I don't see this as much of a risk because "Buffet & Gates' financial positions are public record and you can listen about Freddy Mack and Fannie Mae on TV.    I didn't lie about the price of silver so most people shouldn't have all that much trouble connecting all those dots to make their own projections.    This is not "Rocket Science".    Most trends are obvious if you know what to look for.    I haven't voted for years because I want to stay out of the government's database.     Anything they know about you will be used against you eventually.    Most people see the government as benign.    I don't.    I know better than to trust them in anything.    If it was trustworthy, our school systems wouldn't be in such a mess;  we wouldn't be inundated with illegal aliens; unemployment is high (6.1%); and our financial system wouldn't be in the hands of private bankers. 

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Hello BG and thanks for writing on obesity for that is my problem.  I am married to a fat cow--she loves her chow.  It really makes me sick because I try to convince her to lose weight but then she calls her feminist friends and they say I am being a bastard for not accepting that "people come in all sizes".  I just don't want her sexually anymore.  Now she feels rejected and is eating more.  It's like she cannot stop.   She cries a lot because she knows I hate what she looks like.  I can't stand being around her.  I just don't like her nor do I love her. Am I wrong?  Why can't a woman stay fit and trim, to please her husband?  Isn't that one of her responsibilities?  Steven regarding Mary

Steven, what you need to know is in Q&A#366.    Mary & friends are trying to lay a "guilt-trip" on you so don't fall for it.    In all areas of life, in order to achieve your goals you must make an effort; you must work for it.    The trite little phrase "people come in all sizes" is your wife telling you "take it or leave it", and that she is not willing to make an effort to save your marriage.    I am not advocating divorce and God's Word makes it clear that God does not approve of divorce, but sometimes there is no other choice.    Q&A#366 spells it out.  

Malachi 2:16 "For the LORD God of Israel says That He hates divorce, - - " 

Your wife Mary seems to have made her choice; she chooses the advice of her feminist acquaintances over that of her husband.    Get her to read this e-mail and Q&A#366, then ask her if she won't change her mind and lose weight with Karen's diet recommendations.     There is no starvation or other physical trauma involved, so she has absolutley nothing to lose.    I've lost 25lbs so far and have 15 to go.    I just can't understand people who refuse to make their lives better when they can easily do so.    After she reads these things and you've talked it over, and she still won't make an effort to help herself, then you have a decision to make.    Choose wisely.

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My son is a member of an LA gang.  He says he had to join or he'd be killed--you must take sides apparently, for the protection alone.  I worry day and night.  He is so different now and he won't tell me anything about his life.  He is "mute" and now he looks just like the others.  Yesterday the shit hit the fan when he came back with his head shaved and tattoos on his head.   He also had a diamond in his ear (where'd he get the money?).  I feel lonely and afraid.  Unhappy in LA

Dear Lonely, Your son made his choice and now it is time for you to make your choice.    I would absolutely not accept your son as a member of your household.    He and his gang "buddies" are obviously into illegal activities, and by providing him a place to live you are aiding and abetting  his criminal activities.    I just would not allow it.    He is endangering you and everyone in your home and you are not obligated to go along with it.    It doesn't matter what he now says about it, it's all about what he has chosen to be.    You have the right to choose to have no part of it.    With time, your son will only get worse as his gang activities burns away any decency and conscience left in him.    You have every right to be afraid because you have lost your son and the punk he now is should be excluded from your life.    If worse comes to worse, pack whatever you can in your car and escape.    If you look back, you will only find heartbreak.    Save yourself and let the freaks tend to their own business.    Reject this from your life completely.    I know that this is a rough recommendation, but if you stay and let him live with you, you will eventually regret it, bitterly.    You have a right to your own happiness.    Choose wisely.

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My sister says I am sexually repressed and sick because I will not allow my daughter (age 16) to bring her boyfriend into her room.  In fact, I refuse to work because I know they will be in there if I leave the house unoccupied.  I am a Christian and I raised her same, but the schools have made that all null and void.  Now she says I must "tolerate" her sex habits with her boyfriend.  I don't like them kissing in front of me either and the whole thing is disrespectful to me.  She used to be such a good girl but this tolerance thing has formed a rift between us.  Mrs. F R

Mrs. F.R., Get the books "The New Tolerance" by J. McDowell & B. Hostetler and "The Marketing of Evil" by D. Kupelian.    What you need is solid knowledge about the problems you face with your daughter.    Your daughter and all of the other kids in her school have been lied to and are not capable of making rational decisions for themselves.    Decisions based on lies are just plain wrong.    Knowledge is power.    Get the books and read them so you can hold your own in any discussion by having good solid facts to base your points of view on.    Also, if you believe your daughter is having sex with her boyfriend, take her to a doctor and get her checked for venereal diseases.    You don't know who else her boyfriend is having sex with.    If he is 18 or over and your daughter is 17 or under, charge him with statutory rape and get a restraining order against him.    You do not have to tolerate anything in your own home.    The non-rules applied to school activities do not lawfully apply to conduct in your own home.    You are responsible for your daughter and therefore you have authority to regulate her activities at home.    You make the rules but that won't do any good if you don't enforce them.    If you don't enforce your authority, you won't have any authority.    Just because some things you have to do in life are hard doesn't mean that they aren't worthwhile.    This rot can easily destroy your daughter's future.

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These pages of Karen Kellock and You have given me courage as a junior high school teacher, HOWEVER I would be in a lot of trouble if I were to implement them.  You cannot believe the chaos, perversion and disrespect I must put up with.  But if I enforce discipline--like boys not masturbating in the back of the class (unbelievable, but true) the principal would really come down on me.  I feel I will lose my job.  The new tolerance has ruined an entire culture.   I would like your help on this.  Joe in SB

Joe, we both know that things cannot continue like this indefinitely.    The system is broken and is past the point of no return.    Even if were somehow possible to turn things around, how would you explain to all these kids that they were lied to and must now become moral and responsible individuals?    For most of them it is too late.    Their heads are so messed up with this rot they cannot ever see an advantage in giving up the freedom (they think) of being immoral and ignoring the instruction of their parents.    The only thing I can recommend is to carefully document everything that goes on, and the actions of your superiors in the school system.    When the day of reckoning comes, the ones in charge now will want to remain in charge, in spite of their past stupidity of supporting insane policies that any responsible adult with any brains at all should know, and should be taken down - fired.    Be careful because nobody wants to be "documented" or held accountable for past stupidities.    I also acknowledge that your e-mail could be a "fishing expedition" from the crowd that supports "tolerance & preference" in the schools and that's OK.    Whichever side of the line you are on, you would have to be blind, deaf, and dumb to not realize that the government school system is breeding disaster for this generation of children.    Who in the world would hire them for what kind of a job without these young men and women knowing the first thing about right and wrong, discretion, integrity, courtesy, and many other fundamental, basic things that young people need to start their lives as adults?    They won't be able to function as adults.    But, no problem, there are millions of Hispanics around to take the jobs that these kids won't be able to keep.    This is all according to "the plan".    Good luck.     

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Hi Bros.  I have a problem, although it isn't as bad  as the others on this page.  My husband has two sides--one very very sweet and nice, the other is distant cold irritable even mean.  I never know when the bad side will rear up, but when it does I have learned to just stay silent.  I am afraid he will hit me if I don't.  It is very threatening this other side.  I get tired of the flip flops.  How do I handle it.  Susan V,

Susan, this is not as uncommon as you may think.    Many people have personalities that have two or more aspects and it comes from very normal and understandable beginnings.    I have two distinct "sides" to my personality.    I spent five and a half years in the US Army and twenty and a half years in the US Air force, then eight and a half years in the Civil Service as a GS-12 Technical Support specialist for the federal agents in NCIS installing video surveillance equipment, body wires and the other things necessary to catching bad guys in the Navy and Marine Corps.    I consider myself a retired career soldier.    The "soldier persona" that I acquired in order to succeed in my chosen profession served me very well for about thirty-five years.    When I left that kind of life it was necessary for me to change to a different persona;  A kinder, softer, more acceptable image that would serve me better in my new life as a civilian, far away from any military influence.    It hasn't always been easy.    I had to consciously stop myself from seeing all problems as nails and reaching for a hammer to solve them with.    "WHAM", problem solved.    I call my military persona "the soldier".    Under stress, out he comes, cold as ice and perfectly logical to deal with the problem.    I'm getting to dislike regressing into the soldier because it scared Karen when she saw him for the first time.    That was not the man she married.    Fortunately Karen has a PhD. in Psychology and after I explained myself somewhat, she easily understood what was going on inside of me.    It still causes her some apprehension and I do make an effort to "watch my step".    Your husband is periodically regressing back to previously successful behavior, probably from before you met him.    It can be triggered by stress, alcohol, perceived disrespect to him from anything and anybody, and many other things.    Your husband needs to read this e-mail and perhaps read a book or two that explains this phenomena so he can understand himself.    With understanding comes control, and a more sensitive awareness of the needs of those around you, how he is affecting those around him.    If you had met your husband in his "mean persona",  you would probably never have married him.    He should definitely make an effort to "get a grip" on himself and be the person that you need him to be; strong, stable, and loving.    

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My two sons are 13 and 15.  Both are gay.  I have always been told that I am supposed to accept this--they take boys into their rooms and lock the doors after school.  I hear "groaning" and "moaning" and it really grits my nerves.  There is nothing I can do about it because the schools say I am a bigot if I object.  I don't want these dirty boys here.  The other day there were four in the room.  I hate this.  It wasn't until I read your site that I came to understand that I have a RIGHT to feel this way.  I was raised Baptist but I have fallen long from my roots, because I could never discipline my boys.  Is it too late?  I am afraid of what will happen if I put my foot down.  Kathy Masterson

Kathy, you either raise your children or they will "raise" you.    Either you are in authority in your own home or the school system is.    It's your choice to make.    What do you want?    Boys have a much higher sex drive than girls.    That is an anatomical fact.    The fact is that it is more stimulating for them to "diddle" each other than to masturbate or go looking for a dumb girl who will cooperate with their needs.    So how convenient it is for them to "claim" they are homosexuals so they can satisfy their lusts on each other.    In their warped school society it is accepted and applauded and you, as their parent, are expected to comply with the party line even though you know with great certainty that what they are doing is wrong.    Your two boys and their friends are just nasty little jerks busily destroying their lives because the school system encourages them to live out their perverted fantasies and call it "tolerance" and "preference".    You are allowing this to happen in your own home and evidently don't know that if you are responsible for your boys, you are also in authority over them and their activities.    If they were both ten years older and just tenants instead of being your sons, would you put up with this?     What difference does it make?    Wrong is wrong and evil is evil and should not be "tolerated" under any circumstances.     If I were you, I wouldn't allow them to have anybody in your home until they are either 18 years old or otherwise gone from your home.    They have violated your trust in them and brought a great evil into your home.    What is next?    Orgy-time when you're gone from home for any reason.    Your boys are about as "gay" as Karen's four male dogs.    Tell them to give up this nonsense or go to the child welfare agency and report you as an unfit intolerant mother and that they want to be put in a foster home.    The government will probably jump at the chance to break up another home.    I'm not kidding Kathy.    At their ages, only an ultimatum has any chance of working.    Either they must mend their ways, move out, or you must be subservient to them and they will give their orders to you.    What do you think is worth fighting for?

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That is disgusting that our republic has actually become a mobocracy, since most are non-white and we are smothered with immigrants.  They really don't care as long as they get their new cars and credit cards.  I am thoroughly disgusted and refuse to vote in this election.  Why haven't we been told these things in our schools?  It's all a bunch of crap---Rick your friend (You have answered two other emails from me)

Rick, I'm glad the you've been able to tolerate my vague ramblings on this list.    In a Republic (rule by law) it wouldn't matter what the religious, racial and/or ethnic mix of our country is.    In our wonderful Democracy (mob rule) Christianity is becoming a dirty word and parental authority is totally discounted in the public schools.    I personally have nothing against any minorities and/or immigrants.    They are all doing the best they can to make a decent life for themselves, just like we are.    They are not the enemy...    The federal government set all of this up as part of "the plan" (read Martial Law).    So long as "we" are fighting and blaming each other, the government doesn't have to act responsibly.    So ease up on the illegal immigrants.    If the government didn't want them to be here, they wouldn't be here.    The other day I told someone that it would be a good idea to invest in "silver" because it was at a very low $14.-     Today it went down to $12.26    It is being artificially suppressed and can't stay that low much longer.    When gold and silver are cheaper on the commodities market, it gives the appearance of the dollar being strong.    How very odd that the DOW is way down (demonstrating a weak economy) and precious metals are also down.    That is in conflict with reality and it can't last much longer.    We shall see what we shall see.    In answer to your question about getting info in schools, the answer to that is: you would get honest info if we still had public schools, but not from the government schools that we presently have.

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Where did this all start with the lack of discipline of children?  I am a grandmother and on "grandkids day" which my daughter set up (every Monday) I hate it.  I hate it when they come.  They are so filled with chaos, empty chattering, bad language, disrespect, and TV-addiction I can't stand "grandkids day".  I actually get nervous on Fridays.  I can't even repeat the filthy language I have heard.  They watch MTV which is geared to making kids disgusting.  I don't know what to do--my daughter uses me as a baby sitter for these brats and they are beyond my disciplining.  One time I  tried, and there was so much havoc my daughter refused to talk to me for two months.  I was relaxed from their absence--but I need my daughter because I am getting older and don't want to be put in a rest home.  Alice G.

Alice, I suggest that you get your daughter to read this Q&A list for about twenty minutes.    Write down the Q&A numbers that you know she will benefit from reading.    The message will be coming from "ME", not "YOU" so she can hardly be offended.    There is lots of material that applies to the problems you're having.

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Hello Brother Graham--you are a WEALTH of knowledge.  I can't believe the breadth of this page.  Every time I go to the grocery store there is a mother (Mexican, or not) with undisciplined kids running around, taking things off shelves and creating general chaos.  The mothers do nothing.  This is so common these days.  I worry about the small animals in these chaotic homes.  How can the schools go on like this?  Aren't they teaching the kids anything?  Why have we no knowledge of what is going on, except on your page?   Suzanne L.

Suzanne, I hope you are doing your best to check out what I write about on this list.    Do not take my word or anybody else's opinion as "gospel" without trying to verify what you are reading.    If the government has been lying to you all these years then anybody else can be lying to you also.    Be skeptical of everything.    One thing that I projected will happen was the beginning of financial institution failures this year.    Two "private corporations" called Fannie Mae and Freddy Mac (mortgage lenders) have just been taken over by the federal government to stave off the eventual collapse of our financial system.    The government has no other choice but to try and hold things together until at least after the election.    But even the federal government can't buy up all of the other financial institutions that are failing.    Unruly children are a problem but, there are worse things to fear these days.    I am not the only one telling the truth these days.    There are others if you look for them.    I'm probably the only one that offers weird music (just kidding Karen.) to listen to while you're reading my conservative propaganda.    (Also, I'm not really a die-hard conservative.    I just have a thing about "TRUTH".

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I can't believe some of the things I am reading  here.  You mean our American Constitution is basically a bunch of bull?  Why haven't we been told anything?  And WHY--OH WHY--have the schools said to not discipline, and to allow this bull crap?   My kids go to school--not to read and write but to watch DVDs which the frightened teachers put on, just to get through the day.  All they do is talk on their cell phones, in muffled language so I can't hear.  Then they disappear.  They don't care what us oldsters have to say about a thing.  They are part of gangs--if I dare to discipline I'd be killed by a gang member.  This is serious business. Rodney S.  San Carlos

 Rodney, when you tell a really big lie, you wind up telling a lot of other lies to cover up that first big one.    When subsequent Presidents are elected and they see they will have a lot more actual power when they leave things as they are, instead of trying to reclaim our Republic under the Constitution.    Especially if the wise citizens of our land truly believe that we are still under Constitutional law.    After all, doesn't the "Pledge of Allegiance" mention something about a Republic even though the politicians are always babbling about our "Great Democracy"?    It's a "shell game" where we all think we know which shell the ball is under, when actually there is no ball under any of them.    After 140 years of lies, this generation has to deal with the consequences.    As for retaliation by gangs over what happens in your home; let them come on ahead and do their worst.    You have a right to defend yourself.    I suggest you do so by any means available to you.    All gangs operate by intimidation and bluff.    They are bullies.    Bullies are basically cowards and if you stand up to them with equal force, they will back off.    However, like cowards, they will shoot you in the back, so watch your back.    This is not a laughing matter, and I'm not kidding.     Peace at any price does not work.    Any time you give in you will be required to give more and more and more.    If you don't stand up and defend yourself, nobody is going to do it for you.    I don't care what the specific issue is, giving in is giving up.    

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My daughter is giving me so much trouble.  She is only in junior high and emulates people like Britney Spears, dressing that way--very whorish and seductively, with false eyelashes and tattoo on her upper arms.  She looks like a whore.  I am afraid for her.  The boys keep calling her on her cell phone.  Brother Graham I am a Christian and tried to raise her right.  She doesn't see anything wrong and calls me a bigot--what can I do at this point?  I fear she is  having sex because her underwear is all dirty as if it's been removed.  I don't like what is happening and she has "That look" in her eye as if she is having sex.  Linda F.

Linda, when I get e-mails from parents that are having problems like yours, I don't understand the underlying feeling that you are treating your daughter like she is your equal, and you are trying to deal with your problems with her as if it were an adult-to-adult misunderstanding.    She is the minor child if she's on the low side of 18 years of age.    You are the older adult, her parent, who is responsible for her.    If you are responsible for her, you are in authority over her.    To look at it any other way is plain madness and goes against what has worked very well throughout all of history.    To make your point with your daughter, take her to a gynecologist, whether she likes it or not, to get her checked for any diseases or other conditions that can be sexually transmitted.    If she does anything else you don't think is right, tell her she must come home immediately after school and stay in the house for at least a week (in other words; she's grounded).    "If you don't exercise your authority as a parent, you will have no authority."    Children will test this, and you, to the limit to see what they can get away with, and they will keep pushing those limits.    If you don't set any limits, your daughter will grow up to be a total mess like the rest of the herd that buys into this "tolerance" crap.    If you love your daughter, you will set limits and force her to abide by them.

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BG it is all so discouraging when you look at the younger generation.  They are losers--all copying the hip hop they see on MTV, all wearing their stereotyped "outfits" that look so stupid.  My son's pants are so low you can see his crack.  It is all so insane, and his wild music and his pornography collection.  I love my son, don't get me wrong, but I really can't stand it.  Now he is getting tattooed, with a ring hanging off his face.  When I criticize his tattoos he gets wild with anger, saying I'm judging him.  Please advise.  Mrs. F.

 Proverbs 1:8

"My son, hear the instruction of your father, And do not forsake the law of your mother."

Matthew 7:1&2

"Judge not, that you be not judged.   

Mrs. F., we have here three scriptures here that have to do with "instruction, law, and judgment".    When a father instructs his children, surely he is teaching them right from wrong, as well as many other things they need to know.    The "law of (the) mother" is also surely based upon some kind of standards, ethics, and/or morals.    Laws are basically rules that society accepts as reasonable behavior for living with your neighbors successfully, and help us live a normal life.    Judging is deciding when someone is not complying with what society accepts as reasonable behavior.    When and where do you think that children should start to learn proper instruction, about standards & laws, and how to correctly learn how to decide when someone is making a mistake or not?     Who could possibly believe that these are not good things for a child to learn?    Karen and I just added three tiny kittens to our family of five big dogs (Kittens inside, dogs outside).    After the first few nights one of the kittens came to the foot of our bed and "squeaked" for attention, so Karen pick it up and put it on the bed with us.    I suggested to her that it was not a good thing to do because beds are for people and the kitties have there own little kitty tower to spend the night in.    When she asked why not, I told her that if you give permission to be on the bed when they are small, they will "demand" to sleep on the bed with us when they become large well fed cats.  

Proverbs 22:6 "Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it."

This applies to Cats & Kids.    If you delay this process, it becomes more and more difficult to guide your children in a direction that is wholesome and beneficial to them.    Then you get into the area of "tough love", which is normally tougher on the parents than the kids.    Kids are more flexible than parents.    So, Mrs. F., here you are in a situation where your son is dictating to "you" what he is going to do and how he is going to live his life, whether you like it or not.    You are the one going to work every day to afford having a home for him.    You pay all of the bills and supply him with everything he needs to have a comfortable life, and "he" jumps down your throat when you disagree with him about his looking like a freak?    What's wrong with this picture?    Who is in authority in your home, you or your son?    Who has the last word when you disagree on anything, you or your son?    If your son gets in trouble and destroys someone's property (hypothetically), you are the one that has to come up with the cash to pay for his mistakes.    If you are the responsible adult in your family and he is the minor child, don't you think that he owes you obedience and loyalty in your own home?    You must demand obedience, not "ask or beg" for it.   If your son's school is teaching anything contrary to the rules you decide to apply to his behavior in your home, they are flat wrong and are going contrary to what has been considered acceptable behavior for a children in the home for thousands of years.    Your son is not the expert in this area but "you" should be.    You do not have to tolerate any of the crap they mislead the children in school into believing.     "Tolerance" has no place in your own home.    You are the judge and jury of what is acceptable or not in your own home.    I would seriously suggest that you tell your son that if he won't live and abide by your rules, he should go to "Child Welfare" and tell them you are an "intolerant, unfit mother", and that he would like to be placed in a foster home.    It "has to be" either your way or no way in your house.    Give him an ultimatum and let him decide.    Either he abides by your rules, or out he goes.    I don't know what the laws are concerning tattoos on minor children, but doing such a thing without the express permission of the parents should be against the law, and I wouldn't let your son into the house with him wearing a pig's snout ring in his nose.    You do not have to tolerate what you know to be wrong in your own home.    One last thing:    Your son obviously has no problem being rude and accusatory to your face and saying that you are judging (which is your right as his parent) or perhaps that you are bigoted, biased, or "intolerant".    By the same token, you are not obligated to be in any way "nice" or "polite" to your son in return.    When it comes to raising children, turning the other cheek does not apply in the least bit.    You must back him down and assert your authority as his parent or he will grow up to collect his own kids eventually and ruin them totally as human beings.    You know what is best for your child (period).    If you let him call the shots he will turn out to be the same as the other immoral, undisciplined monsters that the school systems are turning out these days.    You dare not "tolerate" evil

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My son is in prison for manslaughter. He was with a bunch of boys and they had knives and were fighting.  Many were quite big.  Everyone got slashed.  Well one of the boys was killed, and since my son was there, he got put in prison for 12 years for manslaughter.  I am sick about this--he such a great kid.  What is happening to our society?  I feel sick and sad all the time, and  quite frightened that this could happen in my own family.  Celina Hash, Montana

Pro 22:24

Make no friendship with an angry man, And with a furious man do not go,

Pro 29:22 An angry man stirs up strife, And a furious man abounds in transgression.  

Celina, your son made the very bad choice of associating with others who carried knives and obviously weren't hesitant to use them.    These are angry people who went looking for trouble and found it.    That your son went along with their violence with each other, tells me that your son chose to be a "bad kid", not a good kid, as you believe him to be.    Next time you go to visit your son in prison, tell him to resist getting a bunch of "do-it-yourself" tattoos.    If he comes out of prison looking like a freak, his chances of getting a good job and leading a good life are slim to none.    He will then resent the fact that most people won't want anything to do with him, he will do something stupid, and back to prison he goes.    Violence breeds violence.    Hostility breeds hostility.    Using force to settle your problems seldom has a happy ending, as your son has discovered.    When he gets out of prison, he will be around 30?    Life can still be pretty good at thirty, especially when you're coming out of prison.    If he falls for the prison mentality of "becoming a hard-bad guy" to survive, when he gets out he will naturally look to be around others like that which will just lead to more trouble, and more jail time.    He will have to play along with some of it, but he dare not commit his heart and mind to it.    I hope this helps. 

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wow--what a day I had, reading all these bizarre questions.  Are these people for real?  I know things are bad, but that bad?   This whole culture is about to crash in on itself.  Where can we go and how can we escape this crap?  Why is the white man suddenly the outsider, the despised, the mistrusted, the bad guy?  How did this all happen?  Why do we feel guilty towards these illegals who are pouring in our country?  Is it really 60,000 illegals a day?  SHIT.  Murv V. Bonita CA

Murv, I'm going to give you a much bigger answer than you apparently asked for.    But first, the answer to your question; "How did all this happen?"    The answer is that the 40th Congress changed our form of government from a de jure Republic into a de facto Democracy.    With that I will quote the following:

democracy:  is the direct rule of the people by the people; places the will of the majority over the rule of law and the rights of the private Citizen;  and has been repeatedly tried without success.    A democracy is in direct opposition to a republic.

Note 1:   The founding fathers of the United States of America defined a representative republican form of government; they made a clear distinction between a republic and a democracy; they birthed a republic, not a democracy.

Note 2:  democracy is a government of the masses.    Authority is derived through mass meeting or any other form of "direct" expression (voting).    It results in mobocracy.    Attitude toward property is communistic - negating property rights.    Attitude toward law is that the will of the majority shall regulate, whether it be based upon deliberation or governed by passion, prejudice, and impulse, without restraint or regard to consequences.    Results in demigogism, license, agitation, discontent,and anarchy.    Democracy is the direct rule of the people and has been repeatedly tried without success.   (From the Citizenship Training Manual #2000-25, 156 pages, issued by the U.S.War Department, November 30, 1928, prepared under direction of the Chief of Staff [A.G014.33 {4-28-28}] By order of the Secretary of War: Official: Lutzwall, Major General, The Adjutant General, C>P>Summerall, Chief of Staff, U>S>Government Printing Office) 

Note 3:   Democracies have ever been the spectacles of turbulence and contention; have ever been found incompatible with personal security or the rights of property; and have in general been as short in their lives as they have been violent in their deaths.  (See:Federalist Papers # 10, also see The Law Frederick Bastiat, Code of Professional Responsibility, Preamble).

Note 4:  A Democracy cannot exist as a permanent form of Government.    It can only exist until the voters discover they can vote themselves largess out of the public treasury.    From that moment on the majority always votes for the candidate promising the most benefits from the public treasury with the result that Democracy always collapses over a loose fiscal policy, always to be followed by a Dictatorship. (Written by Professor Alexander Fraser Tytler, while the original thirteen states were still colonies of Great Britain; at the time he was writing about the decline and fall of the "Athenians". {fini}

    Murv, the United States has only survived this time period of the last 140 years since the 40th Congress after the Civil War, because every succeeding administration has kept up the facade that our government is still ruled by law under the Constitution.    Nothing could be further from the truth.    The world would have been a much better place today if our beautiful Republic had survived.    Rule by law is sustainable.   Mob rule in our Democracy is not.    Look around at our country and see that what you said is right:   "OUR WHOLE CULTURE IS ABOUT TO CRASH".    We have all been duped, we're suckers.

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i LOVED what KK said about Alcoholics Anonymous this morning:  That "They will NOT let you rest happily in your pink cloud, having just gotten sober.  They want you to pay: go to their boring meetings, do their program, feel guilty and air your dirty laundry to everybody." That was soooooo true.   I also like this part:  "The point is to realize that the MERE ATOM of alcohol, whether in cough medicine, nyquil or a shot of brandy will EVOKE A RELAPSE in those allergic to alcohol.  Allergy and addiction are the same:  what you are allergic to will FLARE UP THE SYSTEM with desire:  allergy brings craving.   Just realize that:  if you stay away from the stuff that pink cloud can ENDURE.  Just stay home--from those dirty story-tellers, stay away: Just talk to Jesus Christ today."

This exact situation happened to me recently.  I took a sip of someone's wine, and soon I was drinking all day long.  My life became ruined without me even knowing it.  I suddenly stopped drinking, and everything cured practically overnight.  I will NOT let AA meetings turn off that light.  Kathy L.  L.A.

So true.  All it takes is love of your family AND knowledge that one atom--ONE ATOM--is all it takes in an alcohol-allergic person, and they're a gonner.  If you stay away from ONE ATOM, the pink cloud will remain.    Even if you take that tiny bit of wine during Communion at church, it's enough to set you off.  As leader of my family (Karen) alcohol will NOT be a part of our lives in any way, and her communions will be taken with grape juice only.  If she ever  gets sick there will NO cough medicine in our household. This is the old-fashioned way of doing things before AA:  a loving husband is all it takes.  Karen is always happy when there is no alcohol, and miserable when alcohol is present in the bloodstream.

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This is truly a fascinating website.  I've been on it for five days day and night, there is so much great inspiring information.  I would call it a life-saver for millions and the music is a DEFINITE DRAW.  I admire your courage: attracting people through the sensual, then attacking with the intellectual-spiritual.  I am a Christian who is also quite dubious of preachers whether TV or local.  Your style of the secular combined with TRUE CHRISTIAN DOCTRINE, not false dogma of the masses, is truly glorious.  Hail hail to the KK Glory Church.  Marsha and Steve F., Green Bay

Marsha & Steve, We Christians are firmly stuck in this secular world whether we like it or not.    Also, I don't think of myself as "attacking" people, rather I like to think I am exposing them to the truth.    Of course, the opposition believes that "truth" is synonymous with "opinion".    We've made some changes to the web-site that you might like (old and new Q&A's).    Eventually I'll go through them and delete some of the "chaff".    A lot of the information is timeless wisdom from God's Word.    A lot of the things that I come up with must be considered fantasy and speculation by the majority of people but, since when have the majority of people been right about anything?    Things are going to unfold very soon and it's going to be very sad if my projections prove to be right on most things.    It's all in God's Hands.    Thanks for your support.

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I was very much in love with my wife when we were first married.  We had a incredible sex life and I thought we'd be happy forever.  After five years, however, she began to gain weight.  As she gained, she ate more.  I just didn't have the same attraction to her, and felt a certain disgust at her lack of self-discipline.   She seemed like a swine to me, and I couldn't get it up.  I got into viagra but that was just using her, since I had to have it--had I been attracted there would be no need.  Well then I got into the Karen Kellock diet of fauna, fruit and daily fasting.  I was wild with excitement introducing it to my wife, who turned her nose up at it.  She said "I can't eat fat and fruit gives me diarrhea".  She refused to read the books or listen to me--just stick her fat head into the frig again.  I just don't love her Then--her feminist friends said I was a BASTARD to turn on her just because she was fat.  Is this true?  Am I being a jerk here, or what?  I just don't love her anymore.    John

John, if you have children at home, you would be a "bastard" if you left them.    All children need both parents to love and nurture them, even if the parents are having a rough time.    I had similar problems with my first wife (died during our marriage) but hung in there because I loved my boys.    They were more important to me than a continuously thrilling sex-life.    It's a matter of having good priorities.    As for your wife's response to the diet; diarrhea is many times the first sign that the diet is working.    It slows down to a normal rate after a while.    How does she think her body is going to rid itself of the extra weight; drool from her armpits?  DUH.    In Old Testament times, God referred to Israel being an adulterous nation because she went after foreign gods and heathen customs.    This can apply to individuals.    You became the head of your household when you entered into the covenant of marriage with your wife.    You made your vows/promises to each other at that time and they are binding on you both until death.    The two biblical justifications for divorce is adultery, and if a woman somehow becomes repugnant to her husband (Deuteronomy 24:1 "If a man marries a woman, but she become displeasing to him because he finds something improper about her, he may write her a divorce certificate, hand it to her, and send her away from his house").    It seems to me that your wife has totally rejected your leadership and has chosen to follow her feminist "friends" who worship false gods, namely - themselves.    She has no covenant or contract with them and owes them no allegiance like she does to you.    I have made it very clear that I utterly reject the concept that the God-appointed leadership of the husband in his family is not a license to be a domineering jerk.    It was never intended to be a master/slave relationship.    It should be an equal partnership with the husband as the final tie-breaker, when necessary.    Any man that does not solicit his wife's full cooperation and expertise on all important things in their lives is a very foolish man.    John, I'm assuming that you're one of the good guys here.    Of course we don't live in biblical times and things are done differently in our society.    This scripture that I've quoted here has a lot of room for abuse; like who decides what is "improper" and/or "displeasing".    Some very shallow men would of course decide that something utterly trivial is a good enough excuse to declare the wife he wants to dump as "improper" and "displeasing".    The only check and balance here is that our Lord God is watching everything we do so we all should do our best to do the right and moral things in our lives.    The bottom line here for you John, is that you made an honest attempt over a good period of time to help your wife with this sickness of obesity and she has rejected your help in favor of these other godless women who don't love her or really care that much about her.    They just want to spout their lying propaganda to alienate yet another wife from her husband.    Misery likes company.    I would let her read this e-mail and appeal to her one more time.    If she rejects your help one more time then it is "my opinion" that you are justified in divorcing her.    This is not my moral permission.    That is not mine to give.    The morality of this is between you and your God.    I have only shown you what God's Word says on this subject.   Both feminists and liberal judges say a man is bad to withdraw affections from his obese wife.    This is not the case.     A Christian woman must not be a glutton, and must have self-control; These are the fruit of the spirit.  

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Thank you for your recent exposition on the phony false dogma of TBN PREACHERS.  I agree with this--is this not why they are so BORING to listen to?  I used to hang on every word of these guys, thinking it was a way of not having to go to church.  But they are so boring now, these "starlit personalities" that I refuse to turn them on.  But where to find a church that tells the truth?  Most preachers are as bad.  Please advise. 

The only advice I can give you is that there are many churches out there that still follow God's Word very closely.    Most of the ones who do not are members of the National Council of Churches.    I would stay away from them.    Some times I have had to go to the nearest church that, while not exactly on track, was the only option I had locally.    I really had some good times debating with them the things I found in the Bible that opposed their beliefs.    They were usually glad to see me move on eventually.    I personally need to attend God's house every week even though I might disagree with some of the people there.   For me, it's always about my God, not the people.    I like to think that I have helped the people somewhat for a while.

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Thank you for your excellent choice of music.  WE have it on all day in our deli and it has increased our business three-fold.  Previously we have TV on all day--my wife hated it but I thought all that is what people wanted.  But now, people are flowing in from the streets to hear Karen's music and they just want to hang out, drinking coffee:  Which we don't particularly like because it's standing room only.  We're thinking of  ways of enlarging our business now to take advantage of our new "image".  Thanks from the bottom of our hearts.  The Rutherfords, Phoenix

 Dear Sire and Madam Rutherford, I hope to be in the  Phoenix area in the next couple of months and would like to drop by  to see the results of HOTMIX on the public.    I hope you're in the phone book. 

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I agree with what Karen said about alcohol and starches.  A couple cannot be happy eating starches or drinking alcohol.  They may THINK they are, but they will miss the higher realms of what Karen calls "cornacopic living".  I myself have experienced this  glorious switch to the higher by dropping these two things.  Beer really does taste like "cow piss"--good choice of words.   Along with this I surely have new friends--the starch eater is "bready" in his thoughts, appearance and deeds. What I want to know is, do I force this new creed on the kids, or is this too strict a regimen to force on unwilling family members?   George Liston, Utah

George, If your kids are overweight in relationship to their height, absolutely put them on this diet.    The danger is when people (and kids) get accustomed to being overweight and hang out with other heavies to reinforce the idea that it's OK to be fat when, in fact, it is probably the most unhealthy thing you can be.    Good healthy eating habits is almost as important as having a good set of morals.    As far as unwilling goes, you are the head of your household, you pay the mortgage, and you call the shots.    If "you" are convinced that this is best for them, I can't see that they have any choice.     Who would know what is the best thing for them; You or them?    One of the reasons that a lot of people drink is the same reason that too many people smoke.    In their lives they don't have enough long and short term goals in their lives.    They go to work and come home to watch TV and they really haven't set any tasks for themselves to accomplish.    Something worthwhile that would improve their homes, education, constructive hobbies, or anything else.    So what do they do with all the "in between time" in their lives.    They drink while watching TV or out with their buddies and smoke.    They don't miss accomplishing anything else because they live in a boring foggy routine.    Their only purpose in life is to "go to work", "watch TV" and drink & smoke".    I guess that watching sports gets their blood going as they live vicariously through the athletes, and all the commercials are about drinking beer.   "Starch-eaters DON'T rule. 

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I am so angry about "why johnny can't read"----teaching hyroglyphics like "word-say" rather than consonant blends.  I used to be a third grade teacher (I am now 76) so I know how you teach reading.  But today?  It is impossible for them to learn from this method.  I know no one under 35 who can even spell, unless they've been to graduate or law school.  This is truly disgusting--we are not only immoral we are illiterate as a nation.  Martha Guesch, teacher from the old days.

Martha, not too long ago we all saw the commercials on TV that promoted a program called "HOOKED ON PHONICS".    I haven't seen or heard about it now for several years because it actually worked very well and I assume that the NEA probably arranged to have it bought out or otherwise discredited them or something else to keep it from the public.    On Wikipedia it says that it was taken private and is now called "Smarterville, Inc."    Like I said, they don't advertise anymore.    It was an embarrassment to the "hieroglyphics" crowd.

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These damned liberals have ruined our nation.   WHITE GUILT---arrogant non-whites expecting reparations.  Any the dam-rats and  dumb-brats are back of all of it.  I can't go anywhere in Southern California without feeling like a minority lost in a sea of brown fat in new cars--from the credit card companies happily and greedily sending all these outsiders--these non-Americans--new credit cards with $15,000 spending limit.  And what happens to the rest of us true Americans?  we get nothing--zilch.   What good does it to get angry about this?  Nothing--these beanos KNOW they got us licked.  What should I do, just get drunk all day like I've been doing?  NO--I want the pink cloud Karen speaks of, of going to a higher plane.  But my anger keeps me down in the deep brown.  What to do, Graham?  John pissed from Irvine Ca

John, I'm afraid I have to disagree with you on a few things.    Since the end of the World War one, we have been getting periodic influxes of immigrants from other nations all over the world.    Granted, there has never been this many people from one single nation before, but illegals are not new and have been condoned for a very long time.    After WWII we got a very large influx of Italians and they mostly came through Ellis Island (Statue of Liberty).    Many of them had no paperwork but the government issued them entry visas anyway.    On their applications that they filled out there, they stamped: "With Out Papers", and the tag of "WOP" has stuck with the Italians ever since.    The Mexicans are only doing what the Mexican government makes easy for them.    With about twelve million Mexicans (not counting our hispanic American citizens) in our country, millions of dollars are sent south to Mexico from which the Mexican government gets it's share of taxes.    On our side, the government is finally seeing a way to break the backs of all the American unions which does help drive down wages for everybody and move even more manufacturing overseas.    The Mexicans are doing exactly what we also do: look after our own best interests and try to build a better life for our families.    They can't be blamed or vilified for that.    As for the credit card companies giving them a free ride on credit, the first of the large financial institutions is scheduled to start a series of failures this year (of Enron proportions) and lasting well into next year.    The government encourages this with their crappy fiscal policies and they will all pay the price for this stupidity very soon.    We will all pay that price.    When banking debt starts to collapse, private debt is seriously affected and will also collapse, and the government can't print enough paper money fast enough to even slow things down very much.    Then the value of the dollar will start to plunge because the world will no longer have faith in the American government, and our whole house of cards will come tumbling down.    Add in a disaster or two and Martial Law is assured eventually.    What to do?    What to do?    Well, the price of silver is less than $14 an ounce today (Wednesday the 3d).    If a couple of banks fail before the end of the year, silver could easily double in price.    When the value of the dollar goes down, it sure would be nice to acquire more of them to make up for the coming universal rise in the prices of everything.   (Do have a nice day?)  

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High Brother and thanks so much for your answers.  I am really angry because yesterday I went to the doctor and my appointment was at 2 p.m.  As I sat an waited the normal time (one hour), TWO HISPANICS walked in WITHOUT AN APPOINTMENT and were put in front of me.  I did not get into see my doctor until 4 pm--and still he kept leaving me when other Hispanics were walk-in appointments.  What the hell is happening--are BOTH the  government (including police) AND the AMA caving into this shit?  Apt necessary for me but not "them"?  K.H.

K.H., all I can figure out is that everything revolves around money.    I don't know the answer to this but the doctors must be getting paid more money through some government program than what he will make from your appointment.    The same thing happened to Karen a month ago and we didn't like it either.    If someone out there works in a medical facility and knows the answer to this question send us an e-mail.

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Life is getting to be impossible.  I can't stand leaving home anymore.  Only in my own home do I feel like I'm in heaven, with God.  I can't tell you how much reading your website has helped me--particularly the article CHASTITY on "magical home life".  This has taught me to spend all extra monies on my HOME--that's all.  Not clothes, because I won't be "seen" by the public very much.    I just pray no hurricane hits my home, nor earthquake--it will be my "loving fortress in a cruel world" from here on out.  I used to love to go out alot, but no more.  I just want my HOTMIX MUSIC, and my dog and cat, and my spiritual environment.  What happens if I have to go out with these people, like in a shelter? I'd rather die.  Lucille G.

Lucille, trust in God but be practical.    I try to time my shopping trips into town when everybody else is at work.    Karen and I aren't exactly "hermits" but we do minimize our contact with the outside world.    That's pretty easy to do in the desert with the closest WalMart (or equivalent) is 60 miles away.    Karen has her five large dogs and we just got three tiny kittens - two brothers and their sister,    We are fully occupied during the day and can definitely "tolerate" each others company during the evenings.    Life throws us a few "bumps in the road" from time to time, but, in general, life is sweet with Karen around.

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Are these answers for real?  Have things really gone this far?  I know we've been invaded by TACO HELL, but the government folding in on itself too?  Come on--tell me you are kidding.  Is it even worth it to watch the conventions and the election coverage?  What difference does it make?  T. G. SF

T.G., It is my firm belief that if Obama is elected and the liberals initiate even more of their social experiments, the coming collapse is very near.    If McCain is elected, we might have another year, two at the most, before the collapse.    Neither party can stop the avalanche that has been gaining force for many, many years.    Read the E-mail answer I wrote to Murv.(Q369)    Whatever you can do to prepare for the coming times won't be wasted even if it turns out to be not as grim as I have projected.    I use the word "projected", not "predicted" because I estimate what is going to be, based upon every relevant thing that has happened up to this point in time.    As the Dominoes slowly fall, it's not that hard to see which domino will fall next.    It's just another way to connect the dots.    I try to give enough information where people can also check some of the facts.    Here's some more facts you can check on:    The AMA is listed on "Dunn & Bradstreet" as a private corporation.    It has a board of directors and stockholders.    It is a private business that rules the practice of medicine in the U. S. A.    All of our nations court systems are also listed on "Dunn & Bradstreet" as private corporations.    They are all in the business of making money.    Law and order is a side benefit, a service provided in order to make money.    Our whole economy is based on the UCC, the Universal Commercial Code.    Every single thing you have to do with any government function is a commercial transaction.    If a cop pulls you over and gives you a ticket for speeding, the "ticket" is a debt instrument.    When you sign it, you have accepted a contract to pay the government an amount based on their private rules.    There is no law involved.    Technically, the cop is breaking the law because there are other laws/rules that state "you must have a license to create a debt instrument" (like a stock broker).    If you've watched the movie "The Matrix"  you can get the idea that the world we see every day is far from the reality of the world we actually live in.    Nobody knows the rules but the "insiders" and they're the ones making all the money from our ignorance.    Meanwhile, football season is coming up and it sure will be nice to get something interesting back into our lives. 

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Hello.  I've been reading the karen kellock website for years.  You are now contradicting everything we've been taught by the schools.  Everyone thinks we have no right to judge a thing--that everything is as normal.  But it is obvious it is NOT normal, for everywhere you look are ugly, fat, evil people and I'm not kidding. The women in my family say this is a "terrible thing to say", that nothing has changed and that everyone has a right to their own size and shape.  Why is it so bad  to judge this?  Don't people have any self-control anymore?  They just keep charging their credit card--soon the whole country will collapse. These people seem so arrogant and value-less.  All they care for is their own bellies.  A disgusting race we have all become--the only people who LOOK normal are the homos, the worst of the human race.  Southern Baptist from Antonio

Dear Southern Baptist, I was raised a Southern Baptist but now do not claim any theological affiliation with any denomination.    The best church to join for anyone is the one that closely adheres to the teachings of God's Word.    If it's a So. Baptist church for you, that's a good thing.    I am not contradicting anything that is taught in God's Word.    God, as the author and creator of all things is the embodiment of truth.    I once wrote that the one that creates the game gets to make all the rules.    God created this game called life and His rules are the absolute truth.    In God's Word are the Ten Commandments, the wisdom found in the books of Psalms and Proverbs, as well as all the teachings of Jesus and His disciples when they were on this earth.    From these things Christians everywhere take their rules of conduct to form their personal ethics, morals, and standards.    Basically, these things help you determine what you know to be right from wrong in your life.    You are not judging the conduct of others when you see that someone is doing what you believe to be wrong, you are merely applying what God has determined to be right or wrong in His Word, the Bible.    You do not have to judge anything.   God has already done that and makes it quite clear in His Word.    The people in your school claim that nobody has a right to judge others, but God has every right to judge their sinful conduct, and has already done so.    All you have to do is find it in His Word.    As far a credit card debt and our collapsing country is concerned, it is my belief that we will see the collapse of some major financial institutions very soon and peoples personal debt problems will not be far behind.    There is a point of not return and we are way past that point.    The financial institutions are running out of band aid solutions and their fantasy derivative house of cards will soon come tumbling down around their ears.    The price of gold and silver will soar and the value of the dollar will plummet to new lows.    Everything will cost more and more until they replace the dollar with the North 

American "Amero", which they will try to make it the equivalent of the European "euro".    The transition period will be a real bummer.    Millions of privately held dollars will be lost in the process.    As for obese people are concerned, do a google search on - "obese health effects"  and see what it says about what is going to happen to all of these fatties.    Anybody that wants these things to happen to them is just plain stupid.    There is nothing bad about having your own set of standards and ethics and sticking with them.    The people in your schools are just plain wrong.    I consider murder to be wrong, does my personal "preference" have anything to do with it?    Am I personally wrong to judge that murder is wrong?    In all of the other aspects of your life you have the right to make the determination whether it is right or wrong for you personally.    Those are your set of ethics.    You draw the line for yourself and say "on that side of the line is wrong for me, and on this side of the line I am remaining true to myself.    Don't believe anything else.    Stick to God's Word and you won't go wrong.

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I am getting so sick of the phony preachers I see on TV.  They all have their own brand of religion and fancy talk.  The trouble is the local preachers ain't any better.   They copy the TV preachers and the whole Christian-dumb pack of lies goes on.  Why don't people just read the bible rather than listen and support all this crap?  Benjamin O.

 Benjamin,  I'm in the process of writing the pastor of the church I am presently attending to conform him on a heresy that he teaches every Sunday.    I doubt that he will change his tune because he is just brainlessly repeating his churches dogma that he learned in seminary.    I suggest that you do the same thing.    Read in God's Word what is says exactly and challenge these guys to a debate.    See if they can't defend their wierd ideas in public.    It would be worth a try.

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My mother has become what you would call a "super obese" woman weighing 487 pounds.  She now wants to have her stomach completely tied off so no food can get through. Do you  think this is safe?  If you would see her you'd be amazed--but it all happened after my dad left our family.  She started eating sweets and baked goods and spends a fortune on food.  I am ashamed to call her my mother.  David F,

David, Her craving for sweets is a psychological compensation for having lost her husband.    She can lose all of that weight without surgery is she goes on Karen's diet.    It is dieting without hunger - no starving.    There is a rough three day transition period when switching  for massive intakes of starches to no starches , but once she gets past that the pounds will drop of without must in the way of exercise.    The starches create the hunger pain feelings but when she changes to smaller portions, more often, the diet is fairly painless.    The only surgery she might require afterwards is to do something with all of the excess skin hanging off of her.    Karen's diet is safer and works very fast.    Get her on the Walker diet 'shakes, any kind of meat and/or dairy products, fruit, and to a lesser extent, vegetables.    No pasta, mashed potatoes, pizzas, peanuts (mixed nuts are OK for a snack), or anything made from wheat, corn, rice, etc.    Good luck.

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I agree with you about "word and faith preachers" which we see on TBN.  Most of them have this false doctrine--of the "descension" into hell of Jesus Christ.  It is a most absurd doctrine and I have no idea how it all got started but they all tout the party line.  How could the Crouches be so prejudicial to only hire these creeps?  What has happened to true doctrine, and WHY--OH WHY--would this descension thing be so important for them to say?  I have read all about Joyce Meyers being the worst of the party-liners.  Millie, ARIZ

Millie, the "descension" theory comes from a rather obscure verse in the book of 1Peter 3:19&20 "- - through whom also he went and preached to the spirits in prison who disobeyed long ago when God waited patiently in the days of Noah - - "    This supposedly took place during the three days that Jesus was buried in the tomb after His Crucifixion and death on the cross.    The book of First Peter was written approximately 64 years AD (after Jesus' death).    The words of Jesus Himself when He spoke to the thief on the cross beside Him was; "I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise." (Luke 23:43)    Does that indicate that Jesus was about to descend into hell for three days?    I do know that the Bible does not contradict itself in any manner.    Whatever the meaning of the verses in First Peter, we have the very words of Jesus about where He went to be with that thief and it wasn't three days in hell.    Light and dark cannot coexist, neither can that which is holy coexist with the profane, and by all I have learned in God's Word, hell is not a proper place for the promised Messiah, Jesus, not even for three days.    Jesus paid for our sins with his blood on the cross, not with three days in hell.    Jesus' death is described in Luke 23:46 "And Jesus called out with a loud voice, 'Father, into Your hands I entrust my spirit.'    Saying this, He breathed His last."    Can any serious theologian profess to believe that at this point God thrust Jesus into hell?    Jesus was the perfect lamb of God that was sacrificed for our sins and when the sacrifice is dead, IT IS OVER.    The sacrifice is completed.    The heretics that believe that wasn't enough and that Jesus had to continue to suffer for three days in hell after His sacrifice was completed are just demonstrating their ignorance and lack of knowledge of all the other relevant biblical scriptures.    You can't just pluck one scripture verse out and proclaim that it means something other than what is supported in all of God's Word.    To requote the words of Mahatma Gandhi;  "An error does not become truth by reason of multiplied propagation, nor does truth become error because nobody will see it."     It is important for all thinking Christians to reject this heresy.   

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Hello brother.  My son and my daughter are disgustingly fat.  I have tried to get them on Karen's diet but they refuse.  They are addicted to bakery goods and fast foods.  Now I am starting to notice signs that they view pornography--of fat people having sex.  Is this not reinforcing their obesity?  I read what you said about how orgasm fixates to the object--and then rewards that same behavior.  I am really worried and would like them to move out but they are still just teens.  When I complain about their behavior they call me "judgmental" and "bigoted".  I cannot live this way anymore--I am fit and trim, and a good housekeeper and I have strong morals.  I feel like I'm living in Sodom and Gomorrah somehow, and it literally makes me bilious.  Stormy, L.A.

Stormy, the diet requires about a three day transition period and it can be rough.    The starches they eat is what creates hunger pains.    Some who have tried to start the diet stopped eating the starches but kept eating the same amount of good food, which defeats the diet.    There "force of habit" gorging didn't allow them to lose weight immediately so they got discouraged and quit.    Had they continued, they would have lost weight anyway.    The trick is, when you start the diet, eat smaller portions but more often, then gradually reduce the number of meals.    I eat one good meal a day and snack the rest of the time with lots of liquids.    The pornography is reinforcing the idea that what and how they are (obese), is acceptable and praised by weirdoes. 

Go to google - obese health effects, and you will get this and many other web-sites that show that obese in not a happy condition to be in.    Also, pornography is just plain evil and not what children of any age should be viewing.    Stormy, you do NOT have to be tolerant of anything in your home.    If you pay the bills, you call the shots.    Don't ask them to do anything, tell them what they can and can't do.    You are in authority in your home and your kids cannot dismiss you by telling you you're judgmental and bigoted.    You, as their parent, are the judge and jury of what is right and proper for them in your home.    You DON'T have to put up with their crap.    If they don't like it, tell them to go to social services and ask to be removed to a foster home.    What I am suggesting here will not be easy because tough love is tougher on the parents than the kids.    If you want them to grow up to be close to normal human beings, you must "crack the whip" on them (figuratively speaking).

Good Luck.

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BG:  I really enjoyed what you said about TBN.  I have always thought the same thing but never felt it quite put in those words.  The turds.  Raking in hundreds of millions a year, and getting boob jobs to do it?  That is so despicable, so ridiculous and so hellish.  Can you elaborate a little more about these false preachers on  TV--and their stupid "revelations"?  I would appreciate a little more on that subject from you.  Roger O.

Roger, read what I wrote about the "descension theory" I wrote to Millie in Arizona.   

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BGraham, would like to ask about alcoholism.  My husband drinks beer all day long and I really think beer is a major problem in this country.  He gets drunk by mid-day then takes his motorcycle out, speeding across highways.  He stops at various bars along the way.  He gets rowdy and drunk and then comes back to me at night filled with fight.  He rides a Harley-Davidson, is fat, and has a black beard.  He really thinks he's "cool" but I see him as ONE BIG FOOL.  I am so embarrassed because when we married he was slim and trim.  Now he is a big fat slob, drunkard, and supposed "jock".   He thinks he is so tough, cranking his way through life and looking like a biker.  He goes to bar-b-ques with other "bikers" and they act so tough.  I cannot deal with this anymore.   He is disgusting, and lives on welfare, refusing to work.  I have to go to work to support the home. Sheron L.

Sheron, is there somewhere you could go to and stay for a couple of months?    I'm not suggesting that you break up your marriage but, your husband needs a good shock to realize how good he has it with you.    Fat guys die early, beard or no beard.    Drinking and driving, especially on a motorcycle, is exceptionally stupid.    He could lose it all in a couple of seconds.    I have a few "Harley-friends" too and know how it goes.    How bad does he want to keep you as his wife?    He probably never thinks about that because he assumes you will always be there because you have always been there for him.    Make him change his mind about that.    Stop being so dependable and reliable for him.    Make him think that if he doesn't at least make some compromises with you, he could risk losing you.    You are in a really difficult position and his reaction could even make things worse for you both.    You're in the driver's seat and only you can decide how to handle this to save you both. 

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Well if this doesn't hit the nail on the head.   Our whole neighborhood has changed, with messy unkempt houses.  People drinking out of paper bags while walking down the street, then at night we hear gun shots and don't dare go out on the streets.  Just down the road hookers walk on both sides of the street, and now there is even "massage parlors".  Now I see Mexican and black families moving in--not that I am prejudiced, but it is filled with gang activity.  The whole neighborhood has changed and our property values have dropped.  There is trash buildup everywhere you look. There are loud cars (usually NEW cars--where the hell are these people getting their money to buy new cars?  Young kids with loud rap music playing).  I also see people buying drugs, or people going into liquor stores and drinking all day.  It was just ten years ago that this was a very nice neighborhood, now it smells.  hell's bells.   And yet I have to stay here, unable to sell and get the hell out.  Andy, Houston

Andy,  Yes you're stuck where you are.    Your priorities should be self-preservation.    Secure door locks and dead-bolts are a must.    No glass doors on the outside of the house.    It would be good to somehow make your windows more secure too.    If you can't manage that, buy a .22 automatic pistol and load it with birdshot.    You don't want to kill anyone.    Make sure that it is well hidden when you leave the house and never take it with you.    It's too tempting to get into trouble if you carry it around.    Birdshot is enough to scare off intruders and try to shoot them after they're in the house and have caused some damage to get in.    If you actually do this be very careful about it.    It seems that many times law enforcement comes down harder on a home owner that defends himself than the thief breaking into your house.    In law, the punishment must fit the crime.    Breaking and entering to steal is bad but it doesn't warrant death.    You can't kill the creeps unless your own life is in danger, and that is hard to prove many times.    I wish I could offer you more suggestions but this will have to do for now. 

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Hello Dr. Graham--I just read this morning about the  gang member that made his girlfriend do his home boys.  It made me sick but I can imagine this sort of thing happens all the time.  If people have no morals, why not?  But I feel so sorry for the girl.  There is so much sexual perversion all around that is just taken for granted, and that is that.   My husband was unfaithful to me with his secretary two years ago, and it scared and hurt me so much I was in tears for 18 months.  I never felt so betrayed, as she was twenty years younger than me.  I am hobbling along, but will never be the same.  Men can be such bastards.  Mary Jane J. Boise

Mary Jane, I'm not a doctor or a pastor and have never pretended to be such.    I used to be a Southern Baptist but now have no close theological affiliation with any denomination.    I have to admit, looking back over my life, there were times when I was an insensitive jerk to my wife.    Like I've written before:   "Wisdom comes from experience, and experience comes from making mistakes."    Hopefully, your husband learned to be a little wiser from his mistake.    As for your part, I have no idea of what you look like, nor is it any of my business.    But to all of you ladies out there, with Karen's diet, there is no excuse for any of you to look overweight and unattractive to your husbands.    I'm on it and it works great with no starvation, just a little discipline.    Be attractive to your sweetheart for life and look better, feel better, and become more active and healthy.    We make no money from this.    All of the diet info is free.    There are enough problems in life and being overweight doesn't have to be one of them.

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To the KK Glory Church: The gay pornography is exploding all over the internet and you are one of the few discussing this terrible perversion. I agree that one reason it is spreading so fast is the schools are encouraging it--actually encouraging it.    What can we do as parents at this point?  I am ashamed to say that my wife is a frigging liberal, encouraging this perversion--although she would never call it "perversion" but rather "inclusion and diversity".  Like as if there are no more morals about anything--everything goes.  The kinds of things that are happening are beyond any imaginations--and yet she STILL SAYS IT'S ALL "GOOD" and who am I to judge?  I actually hate my wife for her liberalism.  Kenneth L, Long Beach

Kenneth,    If you really want to know what is going on in our American part of the world, read "The Marketing of EVIL" by David Kupelian.    While you're at it, since you asked the question "who am I to judge", read "Who are You to Judge?" by Erwin Lutzer.    In this last book, it writes about "Integrity"    It says:  "to have integrity requires 3 steps; A) Discerning what is right and wrong.    B) Acting on what you have discerned, even at personal cost.    C) Saying openly that you are acting on your understanding of right from wrong.    Your wife and the rest of the liberals in the universe do not acknowledge that there is a "right & wrong" (absolute morality, NOT relativism).    They cannot discern right from wrong because their consciences are seared black/dysfunctional.    Your wife (& friends) possesses no personal integrity at all.    You are obviously paying a "personal cost" for what you believe in.    Disharmony in your home is not a happy thing.    Your wife will not accept your authority as the head of your household.    Your children are going to pay a heavy price for your wife's attitude.    Where there are no morals, ethics, and/or standards, perversions will multiply.     People who can't, or won't, tell the difference between right from wrong are doomed to ultimate failure    

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Hello Brother Graham.  I feel that people have been tremendously desensitized by TV shows about murder, and weird criminology cases.  I feel also that Nat-Geo channel reports tortuous and awful things happening across the world--further blunting people's emotions.  They get so used to torture of people and animals no one cares anymore.  All they want is their next fix.  It makes me isolated, alone, untrusting.  I also have tried to join local churches without any success, for I sense the contamination with New Age bull shit, even "feminism" which is really just witchcraft.  Do you suggest we just stay alone, or what?  Alone in Utah (a Mormon state yet extremely wicked--almost as bad as New Orleans).

Dear Alone,   Sometimes we all forget that the whole purpose of everything we see on TV is to: make someone a profit, promote a cause or ideal, and glorify individuals.    The actual material put on TV is the result of careful evaluation of what works, what sells, and the current experiments on what works and/or what sells.    Because a large part of our society (including the owner/operators of the liberal media outlets) no longer believes in standards, the best marketing tools are used which happens to appeal to peoples lower nature.    The media gets the feedback that it is working well so that gives them the go-ahead to dip even lower.    It is a self-reinforcing cycle that went from things that were "in poor taste" to things that are downright "nasty".    Too many of the church denominations are meeting the secular world more that half-way.    If there is a distinction between the two, it's hard to see.    Churches are becoming liberal "social clubs" instead of of places where you are fed spiritual food from God's Word, the Bible.    I do not recommend any denominations that are members of the "National Council of Church's/USA".    Their Social Creed for the twenty-first century reads like the communist manifesto, pure socialism.    It goes on and on about social issues with very little about Jesus the Christ.    Surely you can find just a few people who believe as you do and associate with them.    It is not good to always be alone.    Over the years I've found that it helped me to write "letters to the editor" of various newspapers to express my thoughts and opinions.    Once I even got a reply from a California Congressman wanting to know if I would be interested in working for him.    I declined.    I must remain true to myself.    Working in, and for, the government requires a lot of personal compromises.    Many policemen know that in the normal performance of their duties they are violating Constitutional law.    Many, many laws, ordinances, and policies are in direct opposition to the provisions of our Constitution and too many government employees just don't care.    So what is the solution to all of this?    I can't see one other than to quietly prepare for the end of our culture and society as we know it today.    If you were to draw a graph on paper to show the decline of American morality it would look like this:    On the bottom of the graph, from left to right, write in the passing of time starting from 1950 (the Kinsey Report) to 2020 in five year increments (lines half inch apart).    On the left side of the graph, starting at the bottom, going straight up, write in the numbers indicating a percentage of zero to 100% in increments of 5% (lines quarter inch apart).    Then starting at about 90% (morality in 1950) draw a straight line directly towards the year 2020 (zero morality).    It should look roughly like a 30/60 triangle.    This is of course highly hypothetical.    It's purpose is to show there is a trend from high national morality (maybe 90% in 1950) to possibly no morality at all in our nation by the year 2020 ( if we last that long as a democratic nation).    On the graph it shows that our present morality as a nation is around 14% in 2008.    I believe that the point of no return occurred about 1995 (30%).    The media was firmly in liberal control by that time and the NEA had consolidated their control over our school systems which converted all public schools into government schools.    Again, this graph is in no way accurate.    It just shows you a different way to look at what has happened and what is happening in our country.    It introduces the idea that there was a "point of no return" and that our national morality is presently very low and descending further.    In reality the graph does not occur in a linear descent (in a straight line) from year to year, it is actually a curve that starts out more slowly in 1950 and as it approaches the end, the curve gets steeper and steeper (the moral decline  accelerates).    That there is going to be an end is a sure thing.    A nation cannot exist when all of it's citizens can't differentiate right from wrong.    Justice will be a mockery and inferior men will rule our country.         

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I am a manager of a store in Southern California which has basically been taken over by illegals.  It is basically a "little Mexico" now and it is filled with horrifying, weird cultural differences.  I am told by the schools and the "tolerant in-crowd" that I should not take notice of such things--that "diversity" should reign.  It rather sickens me, this "new tone" to America, filled with weirdoes and crack pots who could obviously care less about morality or even have values.  I wonder what you say about this craziness, for you have been in the military and knew a better America.  I am getting afraid to say anything to anybody about this BIZARRE DIVERSITY.  Mark K.

 Mark, read my response to "Alone in Utah".    It covers your questions fairly well.

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My mother has what is called a "wicked attraction" to a terrible man who has her hypnotized.  It is a Zvengali relationship.  He acts as though he is highly religious--but in an evil sense.  I sense he has something really bad inside of him and I do NOT trust him.  He shaves his head bald, has a stupid beard, and plays acid rock music.  A couple times they got drunk together and he got rough, she broke up with him, and the very next day he came over and re-hypnotized her back.  I want to know what I can do to get my mother back again--I feel she will be murdered by this bloke.  J. L. New Mexico

J.L., if he acts "like" he is highly religious, ask him some questions about religion with your mother present.    Does he believe in the "One God"?    Does he believe that salvation is only possible through God's Son, Jesus?    What is going to happen to him personally when he dies?    Does he know that those who are God's children through their belief in Jesus, do not need to fear death?    What does he think about the covenant of marriage that God established?    Be warned though.    If you can get him to sit still long enough to hear and answer these questions, he will hate you.    Whenever you shine just a little of God's light on evil people, they will hate you for it.    Their natural habitat is the darkness and they avoid God's light.    Evil never wants to be exposed.    Hopefully, your mother will also see him in this light and choose to stay away from him.  

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Just about everyone I know watches TV--ABOUT the cultural degradations, without feeling the URGENCY of this terrible situation.  Yes they will cover Gustav tragedies, and they LOVE following these tragedies--but still people don't realize it is the wrath of God. People eat their take-out dinners in front of the tube, watching other people's tragedies but no one sees that the real issue is the SIN in this culture.  It is as bad as Europe which is also being invaded by barbarians and bitches.  I have learned a lot from this site.  Carol L. Oregon

Carol, there have always been hurricanes every year, some worse than others.    Gustav hit landfall to the west of New Orleans as a category 2 hurricane.    That's not so bad.    I wouldn't be too quick to attribute bad things happening to God's wrath if I were you.    Yes, our nation is on a downward spiral in morality and there will be consequences for us to pay as a nation.    Exactly how God works that out is His business.    I don't pretend to be a prophet or anything close to it.    I just connect the dots and tell what I see based on common sense and logic.    I'm still waiting for that first financial institution to fail this year.    What things are going to happen is not all that hard to figure out.    When it is going to happen is a whole 'nother critter.   

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My son started taking horse steroids in order to build muscle. He then started to go into rages and we are afraid of him.  He gets together with his high school friends to inject each other with their needles.  He gets so angry but then has depressions and mood swings.  One time he had a road rage attack.  I believe they call this practice "juicing"--out of vanity and a desired look or for athletes.  I have heard of this before--but I am TERRIFIED OF MY SON.  These are one of the terrible practices occurring in our schools, among others.  Jerald

Jerald, I am always reluctant to go to the "authorities" for anything at all, but this is one of those times when it might be your only alternative.    If he is over 17 years old you can kick him out.    If not, the use of drugs, including steroids, is illegal and you are justified in turning him over to the authorities.    You obviously need help and the only help your son will take seriously is from the "law".    If he is incarcerated where he is forcibly prevented from taking  "horse steroids" he will calm down and you should be able to talk to him rationally.    When that happens this is what you can tell him:

What are their short-term effects?

Reports indicate that use of anabolic steroids produces increases in lean muscle mass, strength, and ability to train longer and harder. Many health hazards of short-term effects are reversible. The major effects of anabolic steroid use include liver tumors, jaundice, fluid retention, and high blood pressure. Additional side effects include the following: for men shrinking of the testicles, reduced sperm count, infertility, baldness, development of breasts; Researchers report that users may suffer from paranoid jealousy, extreme irritability, delusions, and impaired judgment stemming from feelings of invincibility.

In other words, taking steroids turns you into a real nut-case.    The price your son is going to have to pay is not worth his ego trip with the boys.    What guy would want to be fat (fluid retention), bald, with tiny balls and big tits?    Good luck.

 

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My daughter is in high school and goes with a Mexican gang-member.  She was in love with him and so he insisted she perform oral sex on his gang friends while he watched.  In order to please him she gave in, and then he appeared with two other boys for the same.  She suddenly became very terrified and I am afraid these boys will become violent.  The one boy she originally was in love with has no more respect for her.  Thanks, Melina

Melina,  The desire for a young woman to be admired, praised, popular, and even loved is very natural and normal for teenagers.    A boy (not a man) who takes advantage of this natural desire, for sexual gratification for himself and his friends is no more than an animal on two legs.    That boy had no respect for her in the first place, as proved by the fact that he asked her to do such a vile and humiliating thing.    To make things worse, the boy will tell others in the school what happened to ruin her chances of having any kind of relationship with anybody else.    Your daughter made a mistake and was hurt.    I would recommend that you get her a medical check-up to see if she also contracted a disease.    There are 40,000 sexually transmitted diseases reported in the United States every day.    Contact with several boys at once increases the likelihood of a problem.    Some symptoms take several weeks to appear, so don't take this lightly.    Get her to a doctor.     Melina, surely you love your daughter.    Show her your love by teaching her right from wrong.    What she did was a very immature and foolish thing and must not be repeated ever.    Too many boys her age, and older, will lie, cheat, steal, and do whatever is necessary to have sex with a girl.    They don't care about the girls.    The girls are just necessary "plumbing" so they can do their thing.    They don't have any love at all in their hearts for those weaker than themselves.    To most gang members, girls are just sex-objects to be used and discarded.    Your daughter must avoid all of the gang members if at all possible.    She still has to go to school, so that's going to be hard.    She should stay with other people always, especially going to and from school.    If possible, get someone to pick her up from school for a while.    Eventually, they will lose interest in her.    She should do nothing to provoke them - no arguments, shouting, etc.    Some day your daughter will want to get married to someone special in her life.    A man and not a nasty little boy.    I know that the schools actually encourage the kids to have sex and worse.    They discourage the concept of right and wrong, having standards, and/or ethics.    What happened to your daughter is a result of this kind of teaching.    If your daughter wants to become someone that a good man will want to love and cherish and marry someday, she must develop and follow a good set of standards/ethics.    The best source of how to live a good life and be a good person is from God's Word, the Bible.    More than that, she can learn how much that God loves her and that Jesus died to save her from all of her sins, even the mistakes she made with the gang members.    The blood of Jesus can wash away all of her mistakes until she will be white as snow before God.     We have all made many mistakes in our lives and need the forgiveness that God offers to us through Jesus.    I pray that you help your daughter with this.      

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I am retired military also and have been directed to this site.  I feel like we are all buying a lie--from government, from schools, from the media ESPECIALLY, from the local or evangelical churches.  Our country is going down the tubes so fast it isn't funny.  I feel many retired military are becoming addicts due to this problem.  Meanwhile the police force seems to be growing.  Our country is in the gutter--and yet to watch the TV you would never know it.  This is an apparent contradiction, is it not?  They say "peace, peace" when there is no peace. F.B,

F.B., not only are the various law enforcement agencies growing in numbers but all of a sudden money for more vehicles, equipment, training, etc. is available.    Park rangers are now fully armed.    Read the essay on "Martial Law" at this web-site and it will make better sense to you.    This is all preparation for coming events.    Nobody can predict exactly when some things will happen but there is enough evidence to clearly indicate what will eventually happen.    The United States is an obstacle to One World Government and the only way to bring us to heel is through a carefully planned series of disasters, natural and man-made.    You will read that the natural disasters will increase for the next five years (approx.).    Our Muslim neighbors are waiting in line to bring us the man-made disasters.    All of this will culminate in Martial Law and our culture and way of life will be forever changed.    Eventually it will be replaced with a thinner facade of democracy than we have now.    We will adhere to the directions and policies of the United Nations.    The media is 90% controlled by far left wing liberals and are actively aiding and abetting the policies that are destroying our country.    The media does not represent mainstream America.    They represent their employer/owners.    Military retirees should get off of the "sauce" and clean up their act.    When I retired the statistics were: that 50% of all military retirees died within five years of their retirement.    A couple of months before I retired I quit drinking all that nice beer and coffee for around five years.    By the time I actually retired I didn't have to live on Rolaids and Alka-Seltzer anymore.    That was about 24 years ago.    When I married Karen in July she put me on her diet to slim me down a bit (5'9" @ 200lbs).    I'm down 23 lbs and have about 17 to go.    Her diet is painless and hunger-free.    She is the expert and is proving it on me.    Military retirees should all lose weight and ease up on the alcohol.    In the times to come the experience and knowledge of these guys will be very valuable.    They could very well make the difference between their family members surviving or not.    When things go wrong, people who are intimately familiar with facts, logic, common sense, and actual workable skills (not taught in schools these days), will be the ones to keep things going.    That's what Non-Commissioned Officers, and Officers worth their salt, do - keep things going and accomplishing the mission.    The new mission is to pick up the pieces and do what we can when our country hits "the bottom of the gutter" in the future.    There are no contradictions here.    This is all going according to "the plan". 

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I agree you with the terrible "NEW TOLERANCE".  I find it ridiculous, after reading this site, that you really don't hear about repentance on the TV.  Is it that they are controlled by the feminists, just like the schools are? How could a bunch of old bags come to this kind of power?  Meanwhile, the female evangelists on TV have been proven to be downright LIARS of the worst kind, also make-up artists (plastic surgery, etc) who are raking in the cash.  There are a few who call the homosexuals sinners, but few do--they seem like they just want to make money.  John, Texas

John, TBN is owned and operated by Jan and Paul Crouch & Sons.    They are adherents to the "Word of Faith Movement" which is basically occultism mixed with scripture taken out of context.    They believe that the power to create lies within yourself; all that is needed is faith that one's word is imbued with magical powers, very similar to New Age crap.    The only people that they let on TBN is their own kind and perhaps a few political evangelists.    It is censorship in full bloom.    Bizarre is in and truth is mixed in with wishful thinking and clever marketing.    I don't see how double-D boob-job will lead you to Jesus.    So who needs to repent here; the TV couch-potatoes or the performers on TBN?

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You must be incredibly sexual to put this type of music on.  wow.  We had a keg party last night in our fraternity--we love karen kellock.  This is so sexy.    And yet you say to guard against sex sins?  Why are you turning us on, and then telling us to turn it off?  Please explain.   Jake

Jake, Karen zealously lived by her own biblical code of ethics for over twenty years.    Now we are husband and wife and yes the music does work it's magic on us both.    Promiscuous sex just does not lead to happiness for human beings.    Sexual gratification is a very poor substitute for true love, marriage, home & family.    Promiscuous sex works directly against achieving those things.    If it's easy, effortless, and commonly available (if it feels good - do it.) then how seriously do you think you will be when you pledge fidelity to each other in Holy Matrimony?    If sex is commonplace when you're single, then how can it be something really sweet and special to share on your wedding night?    If you're not true to your future husband or wife, even if you don't even know who that's going to be yet, then what do you have to look forward to when you do meet that special someone?    Is it going to be: "So, I just got married today and I guess I'll get laid 'again' tonight."?    How special is that?    The end result of this kind of attitude is the death of marriage.    Do you think that's a good thing?    In our American history, marriage and family were the cornerstones of building our nation.     The proof of that is that we have succeeded as a nation until now.    Do you really thing that people who promote "sexual freedom" are somehow wiser or more knowldgeable than our founding fathers of the last two hundred years?     If they are right, what is it that they will succeed at:    Sexual gratification upon demand but nobody will have any memories of happy homes with a father, mother, and well behaved children.    Is that your future?    Karen is not turning against you.    The society that surrounds us is turning against you.  

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WE LOVE YOUR CHOICE OF MUSIC.  IT IS SO SENSUOUS AND SEXY AND WONDERFUL. YOU ARE THE BEST.  KEEP IT UP.  Kathy

Kathy, sensuous, sexy , and wonderful aren't bad things, but keep a lid on it.    When you are out of control, you are out of your mind.    So, try to behave yourself Kathy, OK? 

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We are the american legion of detroit.  I appreciate very much the fact that the famous karen kellock has chosen to marry a military guy.  do you KNOW what that means to us?  we have your music on in our legion all day long--yay yay yay for the military.........  Do you realize the DISRESPECT for military men?  Do you realize they are all drunkards, due to the disrespect?  Congrats for karen kellock--she is a real lady.   Steven L.  

Steven, I proudly served as the American Legion Chaplain of Post 853 (CA) for the last three years.    I'm too busy with this web-site now to continue it.    Do you guys have a web-site for your legion?    I would like to check it out.    As far as drunkards are concerned;    "Good judgement comes from experience, experience comes from bad judgement."   (Think about it.)

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I can't believe this.  You mean we're just supposed to be silent vassals to our husbands?  You mean we have no rights?  You mean we're just supposed to adapt to them totally?  Karen, what has happened to you--have you gone insane?  S. H.

From KK:  Not  “silent vassals”.  The point is this:  I was born a female, not a male.  And the bible said that women are to be obedient and subservient to their husbands.  I did not write the bible—God Jehovah did.  I was not happy trying to be “independent woman” all my life—it was rather a horrible existence and I was constantly being hurt by people.  Friendships, although sweet, did not serve my needs as a woman. I need ONE MAN, a man I can come under, to be happy.  Although I will admit the transition period was rather difficult after 25 years of being alone.  But after two months it became easy and I am very happy living submissive to my husband, although at my age God was very kind to give me my own cabin-office to be alone for awhile.  I have all my needs met and  I have a wonderful strong helper who takes care of me even administering me my vitamin needs.  The point is to find a man you can TRUST AND BELIEVE IN, a man you CAN respect.  Once you find this man, yes you must be subservient but that does NOT MEAN BONDAGE OR MISERY OR ABUSE.  The man must not be an abuser and I can promise you that he will not abuse you if you respect and honor him.

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Amazing website.  I appreciate you both so much.  Keep up this good work.  homos are sick, and everything else is sick.  We (my husband and I) will continue reading this website and we have the music on all day.  Katherine L.

Katherine, don't hate the homo-community.    We all have been lied to since Dr. Kinsey came out with his "doctored" facts.    Even today, the legal system still bases many of their policies and decisions on the ramblings of that psychotic pedophile.    The homosexuals have totally committed to a blatant disproven lie and are to be pitied.    There is no turning back for most of them, caught in their sterile loveless lifestyle.    They will die out again when our fundamental way of life is finally lost to us.    The new world won't be better than what we have now but I doubt if there is much room for the non-survivor types which include them and obese people.

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KEEP THIS INCREDIBLE MUSIC ON FOREVER.  KAREN KELLOCK  CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR NEW MARRIAGE TO BROTHER GRAHAM.  I HAVE LOVED YOUR WORDS FOR TEN YEARS.  MARIANNA

But, Marianna, do you also like my words of the last two months?    Thank you for your encouraging words.    It's nice to be appreciated.

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Hello Brother Graham.    I want to ask you something.  I feel carsick all the time.  I feel extremely shaky, dizzy, and sick at work.  Sometimes I have to vomit.  I have to sit down, for when I stand up at work I feel like I will faint.  I can sense chemicals all around.  The work is filled with them.  Sometimes I feel my arms and legs going to sleep.  I feel so sick I have to ask for sick leave, to go lay down in the nurses station.  Please advise what I should do.  I am dependent on this income but feel I cannot stand it anymore.  HG, Long Beach

HG, Your very life is more important than any job.    You have to make some real tough decisions.    If you can, take a week off and go camping in the middle of the woods somewhere, totally isolated from manmade anything.    Use old, or minimal, camping gear.    Also get there in an old car that doesn't have any "new car smell".    Don't take any bread, pasta, mashed potatoes, chips, ar anything else that is starchy.    If, at the end of the week, you feel a lot better, then you have your answer.    You must change your life to eliminate what is killing you.    You might wind up making less money, but your quality of life will be a lot better.    Good luck.

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Hello Brother Graham.  I really think you are hitting on something here, for I recently went blind, or really--near-blind, for I can see faintly but I feel extremely dizzy and my vision is fuzzy.  I am really panicking about this situation.  Also, I am bruising very easily.  From what I read on this website this morning, you have hit the nail on the head.  Are these chemicals?  You know what?  I drink and eat to dilute the feelings of sickness.  Rather than leave work, I just go to lunch with my buddies and we have some drinks and we pig out, and then I feel better.  I cannot believe how these new answers are talking about me..........  (are you psychic?)  John 

John, the bruising is a sign that your condition is moving into it's next stage.    Karen is experiencing the same thing.   She just started a regimen of lots of vitamin C and Magnesium.    I cannot give medical advice, but if I were in your shoes I would stop eating and drinking everything that you normally do and change to only meat, nuts (no peanuts), dairy products, fruit and vegetables.    No starches.    Does your work place employ smelly chemicals around you?    There is a cause for your condition and you must find it.    Check out these web-sites also:  http://www.sharecareprayer.org/environ.html   &   www.healnatl.org    If your new diet seems to change your symptoms start deleting something from it a week at a time.    You're the guinnea pig here and you should experiment until you find what is affecting you.    By all means see if you can find a Doctor that specializes in Environmental illnesses.    I'm not real keen on doctors in general, but I have a family doctor that is a real jewel.    There are some good ones around.    Most important is that YOU are in charge of finding solutions for your problems.    Doctors can "assist" you with their expertise, but don't turn responsibility for your body over to them .

    (this info came from the ShareCarePrayer web-site)

"For chronically ill patients without help, we suggest you start by giving up sugar and caffeine and make the easiest lifestyle changes, such as just avoiding exposures to fragranced products and pesticide/herbicides. As your health begins to improve, it will then be easier to move on to more solutions. However, if you do not begin to make diet and lifestyle changes, your health will continue to degenerate, and you will develop more symptoms. You can get better with some effort, and it is worth it."

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I have been sick for many years.  I cannot be around people nor groups.  I feel sick unless I am in my own home.  My husband called me "crazy" for always being sick, so he left me because I could not participate in social situations with him.  Perfumes, after-shaves, shampoos I can smell like a mile away and they make me sick.  I cannot go anywhere new cars or RVs or homes.  I feel sick going into anyone's neighborhood and i had to stop going into churches--of all kinds.  I had to stop going into Al-Anon or AA meetings because of the perfumes.  Because of these RECENT reactions, I have become a total recluse.  There is no one I can talk to about this.  I appreciate the KK site tremendously--the music is wonderful and I appreciate it very much.  I realize that Karen is sick, and that is why no one hears from her anymore.  I appreciate her so much, anyway.  I hope you can take care of her.  Ashley H. Idaho 

Ashley,    You need a crash course in Environmental Illnesses.    What you can't find on the internet is available in book form which you can buy and read.    go to: http://www.sharecareprayer.org/environ.html    and    www.healnatl.org    Your primary goal is to discover what specifically triggers the negative reactions to your body.    Your condition is not hopeless and it can be controlled but you must take action now.    Any delay can only cause more and possible permanent damage.    Most doctors only know how to treat your symptoms with AMA approved drugs and not much else.  

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Congratulations.  At last someone is talking about this terrible problem.  Why worry about the economy, when we're all dying of cancer?  I lost my husband two years ago to cancer and I KNOW it was due to chemical injury from his work.  I live off his pension, thank you God, but I miss him so much.  Because of his sickness, and I'm sure due to chemical injury, he drank alot--to dull the constant pain and sickness.  Somehow, alcohol made him feel better so I would get it for him.  I was glad that I was able to help him in his latter years this way.  He had to have something, and the doctors were of no value whatsoever.  Thank you for addressing this common--AND LETHAL--problem.   

If you want help and assistance, go to the experts:  http://www.sharecareprayer.org/environ.html    The first step in dealing with any problem is to "gather the facts" and educate yourself.    The above is a good place to start.

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Please help me.  I am sick.  I feel sick all the time, and when I go to the doctors they make me take very painful and expensive tests, and give me various medical prescriptions.  I have been reading this website for years and I need help.  Where can I go to escape?  I have cleansed my home of ALL CHEMICALS, bad things like store-bought cleansers, shampoos.  And yet I still feel sick, practically all the time.  I cannot let anyone in my home--either they are filled with toxins, or they ARE TOO TOXIC IN PERSONALITY for me to take.  I am becoming very isolated and I feel lonely, and no one understands.  I cannot go to family dinners anymore--what can I do?  Ruth H.  

Ruth, I wish I had a magic answer for everyone's problems.    I can only try and help with ideas that you might have missed.    Also, keep reading this web-site.    What I suggest for someone else might work for you, and what I suggest for you might help someone else.    So, you have eliminated all of this stuff in your house, but you are still sick.    That suggests to me that the problem is still in your home and could be what you eat.    Start eliminating specific things that you eat, one week at a time.    Eventually eliminate all possibilities.    Also start taking vitamin supplements.   A good quality multiple vitamin, 1000mg of C daily, one magnesium tablet a day, and if you have any arthritis symptoms get some "Cat's Claw".    Cat's Claw and magnesium will greatly relieve arthritis pain in three days and restore some flexibility.    I've even had it work on a couple of ladies that had rheumatoid arthritis.   (Swanson's on-line is a good source)    Do tell your doctor what you are doing and how it is or isn't working.    Ruth, it's worth a try.    This is way out of my area of expertise but I'm cramming on this environmental illness as fast as I can.    Between Karen and her very knowledgeable Friends, I get some very good instruction and back-up.

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GOD BLESS YOU FOR YOUR RESEARCH.  MY HUSBAND RECENTLY WENT INSANE AND IS NOW IN A MENTAL INSTITUTION.  THE DOCTORS GAVE HIM A "LABEL"  of "PARANOID PSYCHOSIS" BUT I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT HE WAS INJURED AT HIS WORK, DEALING WITH TOXIC CHEMICALS (PAINT, FUMES, ETC).  IMMEDIATELY AFTER, HE BECAME EXTREMELY COMBATIVE AND WE HAD TERRIBLE MARITAL FIGHTS.  WITHIN WEEKS IT GOT SO BAD THE POLICE CAME AND HE WAS COMMITTED.  I FEEL SO BAD, PLEASE KEEP UP YOUR GOOD WORK. SPREAD THE WORD THAT OUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ARE NOT INSANE--THEY ARE JUST IN REACTION.  I hope and pray that the doctors will let him out soon, but they have him on their meds and he is a zombie.  Kathy, NYC 

Kathy, unfortunately, hospitals and other medical institutions are some of the worst environmental places to be.    I hope that at least once a week they get him off of all meds. just to see how he is doing.    If he is getting worse, he probably won't be able to tell them about it if he's always zonked out.    If he does get out soon, he mustn't go back to where he worked before.    If taking him out of that work environment was part of the cure, you need to seriously get a lawyer and sue that company for the damage that was done to your husband.    It doesn't cost a fortune for these companies to provide rapid ventilation of these toxic work areas.    They need to be made to pay the price for their neglect, not good men like your husband who just wanted to do his job.

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My son just recently returned from his turn in IRAQ.  Because of the chemical invasion there, he was a totally different person.  He is not the person I knew, he is not the son I brought up.  He is a totally different person.  Due to his "psychotic post-trauma syndrome" or whatever they called it, they put him on extreme medications and he got SSI.  He is happily living like a bum now, supported by the government, while being sedated--but i KNOW IT IS GULF WAR SYNDROME.  I have read enough to know what is affecting my dear son.  Please get off this shit about anorexia and talk about the REAL ISSUES:  WE ARE ALL BEING POISONED, EVERY SINGLE MOMENT.  Hilda Ridden, Detroit 

Hilda, at 1:30, Sunday afternoon, three Sheriff SUV's drove into my yard and told Karen that the AMA had complained about this web-site.   That we are bad-mouthing the AMA and doctors in general.    Now I ask you, where is "freedom of speech" and "freedom of the press" involved in this blatant attempt at intimidation by the AMA?    Why am I not surprised that that our local upholders of the law take this "request" seriously.    There was no signed complaint, no warrant from a judge, just three really large Sheriffs trying to shut down this web-site in violation of my, and your, Constitutional rights.    This perfectly validates everything that I have written about the AMA on this web-site.    Their monopoly is so complete and the embarrassingly huge sums of money that they take in gives them real power to where even local law enforcement has no choice other than to do their bidding.    As far as your son is concerned, it would be a good idea if he could come off of the drugs once in a while and his condition be reevaluated.    How would you ever know if his condition is improving or not?    This is not a medical recommendation, just a suggestion.

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My daughter is an anorexic.  I was really worried about that problem, but recently from your new articles I am beginning to see that she is also very chemically sensitive.  Anything she eats or drinks makes her sick.  She is constantly filled with acid and takes zantac all day long.  I saw on the KK site that the body fills up with acid when in reaction to chemicals.  I have also been reading about what happened to war victims--like WW I victims of mustard gas, and the symptoms are the same:  She has fuzzy vision, has dizzy spells and fainting, and spends MONTHS IN BED with vertigo.  She vomits (not intentionally), has crying spells, extreme depression and weight loss.  Sometimes she becomes extremely paranoid and also pugnacious (we fight alot).  She feels I am trying to commit her against her will (which I have NEVER, EVER ATTEMPTED TO DO--EVER).  She fears her own mother?   I am so afraid I am losing my daughter--I am afraid she is dying.  Please tell me what to do.  Sherry H.  

Sherry, you believe that your daughter might be dying and you're asking me what to do?     The AMA would have a field day with this.    I'm not a doctor and avoid them when possible.    Any comments that I make on this web-site are personal opinions only, not medical advice.    Any vitamins or whatever that I think might help someone are the results of my own personal observations of what has helped other people I am acquainted with.    My personal suggestion to you is to read all you can get your hands on about environmental illnesses.    Karen has some of the same symptoms as your daughter and has replaced the Zantac with Rolaids, which seems to work better.    When the order comes in she is going to try Bromelain.    I'm sure that you have had your daughter see one doctor after another with no solution.    Go to some of the web-sites that I recommended to others and learn what you can as fast as you can.    You really need to work "with" a doctor that specializes in environmental illnesses.    You can't just turn over all responsibility for your daughter's treatment to someone else.    They don't love her, you do.    There are many, many things that you can personally do to help your daughter.    Find out what they are through study.

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I have loved Karen Kellock for years.  She is the best.  I really love what you guys are doing--I ALSO feel that homos are sick, the government is invasive, and people are ridiculous.  hahahahaha. All laughter aside, things are getting serious.  Keep up the good work.  Kenneth, NJ

 Kenny, it's really heating up.    I don't know how long we can hang on here.   We might have to move to keep this web-site up.    It's in God's Hands.

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I live in a new trailer park, filled with plastics and "poster board".  I feel sick all the time, plus my husband just got a practically-new car (2003) which makes me as sick as a dog.  He thinks I am "faking" it, just to get attention.  Brother Graham--I feel sick, I am sick, and I am NOT MALINGUERING. Please tell me what to say to my husband.  R. H. 

RH, get him to read http://www.sharecareprayer.org/subpages/environ/resources.html  and  www.healnatl.org.   When anyone makes a decision or even forms an opinion, the only smart thing to do is gather all the facts to evaluate what is truly going on.    Your husband needs to be educated that the problems you are experiencing are, in fact, based in science and not just some woman "having the vapors".    In knowledge is power.    Learn the facts, and sort through the assumptions based on those facts and make good decisions.

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I am extremely chemically sensitive.  I feel sick all the time, and I also suffer with severe mood swings, depression and paranoia.  I feel jealous and suicidal at times.  The doctors want to prescribe their "psych meds" as Karen Kellock calls them.  I am on SSI so, what can I do but beckon to the doctors?  When I tell them I have environmental illness, they pooh-pooh it as if I am "telling them how to run their business".  I don't know what to do.  Can you please advise me on this?  I have heard there are the correct doctors, but the AMA has pushed them in to Mexico and my insurance won't support it.  Please advise.  K. R. (anonymous--fear) 

KR, funny that you should mention the AMA, and you are right to be fearful.    The attitudes that doctors have comes from all of us handing over to them too much power.    When you are on SSI they have absolute power.    Absolute power corrupts absolutely.    You are but a little cog in the big wheel of profit.    The only way for doctors to maximize their profits is to see the most people in the shortest amount of time.    Do you ever wonder why you are "never" seen on time when you have an appointment?    It's because they always overbook the appointments to cram their day with as many people as possible = $.    You, with an unusual problem, are cutting into the numbers game of profit and your doctor resents having to actually sit down and think your problem through to a viable solution.    You're taking up too much of his time.    That is why they "pooh-pooh" any input you have.    KR, you are the only one that is truly responsible for your health and welfare.    It is a mistake to think that you can hand over this responsibility to a doctor.    The solution is to learn whatever it takes to completely understand what your problem is specifically and then do something about it.    Go to http://www.sharecareprayer.org/subpages/environ/resources.html   and   www.healnatl.org    

There are also lots of other web-sites to research.    Read some of the other e-mails on this page and see if any of it is helpful to you.    You are the key to solving your problems.

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My wife recently was hospitalized due to environmental illness, though they did not label it such--they called it "menier's disease"..  What a joke.  It is nothing but chemical allergy.  Because the doctors control everything, they have her COMMITTED to a lengthy stay, and she calls me daily BEGGING to get out of this incarceration.  They will not let her go, because upon standing up, she faints.  I know it is due to all the chemicals in the hospital. They medicate her further and I am really worried she may die from this mistreatment.  I have been reading this website for years, hoping that DIETARY PLANS would change the situation, but unfortunately she has become too chemically sensitive for diet changes to work.  I would be pleased if you would add this to your website, and advise Karen.  Rick H.  

Another Rick H. - - Hmmmm.    Like I've said before, hospitals and other medical institutions are very nasty with toxic oders.    You do have a Constitutional right to refuse medication.    Lawfully, they can't deny her release if she insists on it.    You are an equal adult with any doctor and you are ultimately in charge of your own health and welfare.    The government owns your "Strawman" but they don't own your person, your physical self.   Your wife and yourself have the final choice of what to do.    They might insist that you sign a release for her, to absolve them of any medical responsibility, but so what?    It's your decision to make.

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Hey bro graham.  Hey ol' buddy, army partner.  I so appreciate you're finally dealing with the real issue--not obama, not Cheney, not mcCaine, but the fact that we are ALL SICK AS DOGS from this crap in the air.  I changed my diet according to the KK plan, I eat nuts, cheese, eggs, meat, fruit--and I lost 80 pounds. Ok, fine--BUT--AND IT'S A BIG BUT:  Now, I am so sensitive to chemicals I feel sick all the time.  I feel headache, weak, dizzy, sick, disgusted, low self-esteem. I fight with my wife. She doesn't deserve it and I hate myself for it. Then I medicate with beer, with the boys. This she hates the most--and we are really having problems but i KNOW it's all from the sickness I feel, which I try to dull with other methods.  I am going to take a nap now--I wish I could just die to escape these feelings of sickness.  Rick H. Virginia 

Rick, your problem could either be diet or the junk you surround yourself with.    Switch off some things in your diet a week at a time and see if you notice any improvement.    What do you have in your home that is large and new that might be out gassing crap into the air.    It could be anything.    Epoxy paint is high on the list.    Anything that they recommend you use a face mask to apply is also a good candidate.    It might be where you work or otherwise hang out.    If you've painted your bedroom lately, you might consider putting wallpaper on top of it.    The paste used in doing that is not toxic like some paints.    If you can narrow down and get rid of those things that are hurting you, you will probably be less cranky at home.    You're in the hot seat.    You're responsible for finding a solution.    You're the Guinea pig so use your sensitivity to help you eliminate what's hurting you, one at a time. 

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Hello Karen.  I love your music and always have.  You are truly a genius.  This is the point, my dear woman:  after working in a casino in Lake Tahoe for ten years, I am extremely sick.  What do I do at this point?  Les, your friend.   

Look for a job in an older casino.    The newer the building is, the more toxic out gassing is occurring.    Any new construction where you work could do it also.    If you're driving a new car, that could be it.    If you eat a lot of fast-foods, high in starch and deep fat fried in vegetable oil (especially canola - Canada Oil), you could be setting yourself up for getting cancer.    Do the research and make some decisions.

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My wife is extremely sick with chemical sensitivity, and she deals with it by drinking beer or wine or anything else she can get her hands on.  After years of fighting this problem, I finally understand it--she is "self medicating" as Karen says.  Please advise how I can deal with this. Roger H. BY 

Roger, you have two tasks here as I see it.    Find out what specific chemicals or materials, or food that she is reacting to.    In other e-mails, I have described how to go about the process of elimination for zeroing in on what, and how many things are hurting her.    These are all things available on the internet from medical doctors for you to read too.    Once you discover and seperate those things from your wife you have the task of weaning her off of her "self-medication".    Alcohol is addictive and even when her chemical reactions subside, she will probably not want to stop her "self-medication".    The road ahead of you is not going to be easy, but I think your wife is worth the effort.    Above all, educate yourself on environmental illnesses.    Work with your doctor. but you remain in charge of this project to save your wife.    You're the only one that loves her that is truly in a position to make a difference.

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My husband gets angry all the time, and I believe it is due to chemical injury.  He gets so angry I'd like to die.  But then I realize, it is due to his REACTION TO CHEMICALS.  When he is in a clean environment, he becomes very nice again.  And so what am I supposed to do?  Well, I will tell you what I do--when he is reaction, I feed him beers, and he immediately becomes  "himself" again, happy and compatible.  And so am I making him into a damned alcoholic?  God-forsaken but my friend, Betty H.

Betty, if a solution is out there for you it will come by: EDUCATION - ELIMINATION - AA.    Educate yourself on every aspect of environmental illnesses that you think applies to your husband.    Eliminate, one by one, everything in your environment that might be causing his reaction - start with the food he eats.    If and when you nail down the problem substances and eliminate them, then you might need AA, Alcoholic Anonymous.    This will be a slow process, but the reward will be a normal and happier husband.

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My husband drinks all day, in order to feel better.  He has multiple chemical sensitivities (MCS).  I realize what his problem is, since we had to move FIVE TIMES to escape disaster.  I am really appreciative that you addressing this terrible problem.  Rather than rely on the FALSE MEDICATIONS of the rich AMA, my husband "self-medicates" as men have throughout the centuries.  Even the bible allows it.  I wish it weren't true, but I would really like your answer to this problem.  LOVE THE MUSIC.  Sally H. (Mrs. Rogers)  Tucson 

Sally, The AMA is like any other huge organization.    The larger it gets, the slower it is to adapt to new environments and situations.    It has been invaluable in standardizing descriptions of diseases and maladies and has coordinated the efforts of many disparate medical enterprises to the benefit of everyone.    It has, for the most part, guarded the quality of medicines available to the public, plus many, many other things that have benefited Americans.    But, like government, it's priorities have shifted to enforcing it's monopoly and power.    Individual creativity and new discoveries are frowned upon unless it occurs under the supervision of an arm of the AMA.    Individual discoveries in the field of environmental illnesses are exploding and proliferating faster than the AMA can assimilate them.    They are so stiff and unresponsive, like all large organizations get to be, their predictable reaction is to oppose anything new.    They consider it to be a threat to their authority.    Meanwhile, as new industrial processes continue to proliferate clouds of new chemicals that surround us all, people are suffering more and more.    Men have self-medicated themselves through the centuries because they were alcoholics, not from environmental illnesses, unless you want to put wives in that category.    The "false medications" you are referring to are appropriate medicine to treat specific symptoms.    The problem is in doctors treating the symptoms and not the underlying cause of the symptoms.    That is largely due to the fact that they are not trained in dietary issues, environmental illnesses, and other relevant areas.    That is where the AMA seems to have a lock on what is to be taught in med-schools.    Again, large organizations tend to become cumbersome, top-heavy in administration personnel, and slow to react to new situations.    But first and foremost, they will fiercely guard their turf while becoming an obstacle to others who are trying to make some progress.    All of this is my personal opinion, not medical gospel, and certainly not medical "advice".    Read the other e-mails, plan your attack, and get on with it. 

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I see this same thing over and over again.  People who are sick around the numerous chemicals.  Well I have another problem. I am a navy nurse, and have been harassed by men continuously--often higher-ups.  In order to CONTROL MY LIFE a little better, I established myself on the KK diet (I eat doughless pizza, grapes, raisins and occasional omelet or chicken) and this has made me prettier (not vain, it's just a fact).  Well now I am being even more harassed, constantly.  You've told me how to be pretty, how can I stay INDEPENDENT of the advances of men?    S.S. Navy nurse 

Dear Navy, a couple of promotions wouldn't hurt things (just kidding).    Tell them you are engaged to be married.    You might not know who he is yet, but I'm sure he's out there somewhere.    Buy an engagement ring and wear it.    Most men can't tell a real diamond from glass anyway.    This might be a fun thing to do.    Karen waited twenty years for me to show up and life is very sweet now.    By doing this, you aren't doing anything illegal while you are waiting for your heart to attract the right man to you.    I understand and applaud your desire to wait for the right guy.    In a church I used to go to they had a program for teenagers called "True Love Waits".    For Karen and I it was worth the wait and it will be for your too. 

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This is the grooviest site on the net.  We use your music for our restaurant and the bar LOVES it.  People dance to it, they smooch to it.  Thank you so much for being so up to date  on so may things, and for being so truthful about our government and what is REALLY HAPPENING.  You are quickly becoming very popular and I congratulate you.  I will pray you post this, and then write you about my MANY PROBLEMS but in the meantime, I'm just gonna GROOVE BABY, GROOVE.  Funny--how this music dissolves my problems.... hahahahahah  Alice H. San Francisco 

Alice, You can't GROOVE without moving.    Moving is a part of Loving.    You can feel grooving, moving and loving when you're in tune to the music.    Keep going, don't stop.    Your problems will still be there tomorrow.  Hold on to the music.    BG

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What a genius woman.  I am so happy living on cheese, nuts, eggs, a little meat when dining out, and mostly fasting  I thank you.  And now I have added the Walker Diet, and boy I'm set.  I'm getting so skinny.  All the women are jealous of me.  hahahah---to hell with the bitches.  There is SO MUCH to read on this website--I couldn't read it all on ten years.  Thank you.  It's all so controversial, too.  I have told everyone in my sorority about this, and boy we have the music going on in our social hall ALL DAY LONG.  It is different from normal "chill out" which can get so repetitive--we just wanna hear "Karne Kellock selections" for us young kids.  She is the "mother of the world" and You are her husband.   May Karen kellock live a long a happy life.  Congratulations.  Suzie L..  Rutgers 

Suzie, Thanks for the positive feedback.    In college, you need to browse on sites like this and many others to put into perspective what is being taught in the classroom.    In their tests you have to give "them" the answers they will accept, but still it's good to know what you really know.    Be skeptical of everything, especially of the things that I write.    When they prove to be true (or not) later, it will have a greater impact because you will have made up your own mind about it and not blindly accepted college dogma.    Be your own person and have fun.   

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This is the most unusual, and truthful, and exciting website on the net. My wife is sick from chemicals all the time, but I know she loves me and she respects me.  She medicates herself with wine or beer. I don't like it.  She does respect me, and she makes love to me.  Should I stop the drinking and instead find some herb to help her sensitivity?  I would really like to know--I have it very good but sometimes I wonder if I am doing the right thing.  Murray  

Murray, to "find some herb to help her sensitivity" might help her live with her problem, but wouldn't it be better to find out what is causing  her problem?    I assume that she has seen a doctor and has reported all of her symptoms.    Surely the doctor didn't prescribe alcohol to mask the symptoms.    What did the doctor prescribe, and is she taking it, and getting recurring check-ups?    Is she getting better, worse, or staying the same?    Like I've said; I'm not real keen on most doctors but they are still your best shot at helping your wife.    Read some of the other web-sites I've recommended and look for others to further educate yourself with.    On some of the other e-mails on this page I've made a few suggestions.    Read them and decide what you think is the right course of action to help your wife.    You're the man in charge here, not somebody else.

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I am getting divorced from a stinking, idiot, awful bitch whom I hate.  She bitched, nagged, drove me crazy for seven years.  Well now the courts act as though I AM THE ABUSER.  They are treating me as though I was violent towards her--and I never was.  Please help. Richard 

Richard.    Stress the fact that she has only accusations, unsupported accusations.    In order for the court to take her accusations seriously, she must clearly demonstrate "evidence of abuse".    A loud strident voice on her part is not "evidence" of abuse.    Insist that she bring witnesses that observed you abusing her.     Anyone who is consistently around the two of you in the past couple of years are witnesses that, while you might have had a lot of loud arguments, there was "no physical abuse".     Insist that the mere accusation of abuse is "not" proof of abuse.    Her accusation of abuse is the only thing she has that might sway the judge's decision in her favor.    Most judges, unless they are pro-feminist liberals, have seen this same crap over and over again and will discount most of it.    The best and only thing you can do is to stick with the truth and insist that she does the same thing.    Good Luck. 

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This is the greatest website there ever was.  And now you are getting into very important areas.  I am chemically sensitive and I drink.  What the hell else can I do?  I feel sick all day long and wine or beer or anything else I can get my hands on HELPS.  Should I shoot myself for God's sake?  What can I do?   I am ex-military like you, and I see many of my buddies drink all day--do you think they were chemically injured while in the military?  John  

John, the question is whether or not your chemical sensitivity is permanent (which is possible), or is it in reaction to something in your diet or physical surroundings.    You are most sensitive when you are not drinking, right?    When you're not drinking, you should start eliminating anything newly manufactured from your surroundings and see if it improves your condition.    Change your diet to what Karen recommends and see if that helps.    One by one, eliminate each food group from your diet, a week at a time.    Catch up on your drinking on Saturday night.    If nothing works, you can always go back to your present "self-medication" at the bar.    It's worth a try for the chance of living a more healthy life    You have nothing to lose and good health to gain if learn more about your own body.    Good luck.

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I LOVE YOUR WEBSITE.  WE LOVE THE MUSIC AND HAVE IT PLAYING ALL DAY LONG IN OUR BAR.  KEEP IT UP AND NEVER GO OFF.  SOME OF THE THINGS I AM READING HERE ARE VERY CONTROVERSIAL--BUT THE BAR IS ALL EX-MILITARY (CONSERVATIVE AND PISSED) SO THEY LOVE YOU BROTHER GRAHAM.  KEEP IT UP AND KEEP THE WIFE HAPPY, PLEASE--SHES THE QUEEN.  A. F.  

Hey guys, where are you at?    Maybe we could come up for a visit if you're not on the other side of the country from us.    Because what I write is controversial and several "agencies" have declared themselves to be our enemies, we might need a place to escape to.    Let me know.

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I love this music, man.  Keep it up.  I play it all day long.  I see now how it's so wrong for homos to be sticking their genitals into the asses of other men.  This makes me sick.  WE must SEE IT FOR WHAT IT IS--UTTER FILTH.  This is the most degrading thing that could ever happen to our society, including women making love to women.  Thank you for being the ONLY WEBSITE THAT TALKS ABOUT THIS FILTH THAT IS INVADING OUR SOCIETY. Excuse me for yelling, but it really is sickening.  The problem is, where can a nice man find a worthy woman who isn't fat?  Do you really want to have sex with a fat woman Brother Graham?  If they aren't fat, they are anorexic--so thin it's ridiculous.  What an insane society we live in.  Ricardo Texas 

Ricardo, there is such a thing as a healthy anorexic, also called a recovered anorexic.    You should be so lucky to attract one of these women to yourself.    The greater majority of them are highly intelligent, dynamic in everything they pursue, slender but strong and fit.    They are mostly loners and it would take a good bit of effort on your part to attract such a jewel to yourself.    My Karen is such a woman and I thank God for her every day of my life.    It is no sin to be thin as long as they're not bulimic and starving themselves.    Healthy slender is, to me, very sexy.     As to the homo-community, yes it is bad and really bad that our school systems are being infested with this sick lifestyle.    Hang on though, it's going to get much, much worse until our government fails.    In the next few months we should see the start of financial institution failures and the further decline of the dollar, which will raise the price of gas, yet again, and everything goes downhill from there.    "We live in interesting times."

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My work place is filled with gays.  They are all gay men, or lesbians.  I am a Christian and it makes me sick, but i need to make a living.  Do I  really have to accept this?  Please tell me the truth about this.  I want to just go on welfare rather than be around this crap.  Ann 

Ann, in one of the responses to a 14 year old girl I said that we are at the beginning of another era of Christian persecution just like in Rome when they were feeding Christians to the wild animals to tear apart for sport.    It's not that bad in the workplace yet, but it is getting close to it in the schools with actual physical violence and bullying.    It would be interesting to know, that if you were to wear a small cross on your collar, what kind of reaction that would evoke.    If hostile, you could simply say that you are showing your "preference".    Then ask them if "they had "tolerance for your "preference"?    If they said "no" then ask them why you should have any sympathy or tolerance toward their choice of lifestyle if they don't accept your choice of lifestyle?    You will see that "tolerance" is definitely NOT in their minds.    They want it to be a one way street in their favor.    Like the black communities successful justified struggle for equality in our country, they went past equality and achieved preference in many areas.    The homo-community wants the same thing.    They won't stop at equality and are succeeding at preference.    If someone were to assault another to rob him, they would be sentenced to a jail term.    If the man assaulted happened to be a homosexual, the jail term sentence would be much more severe.    That is preference.    Assault is assault, regardless of the motive.    Preference is never appropriate in law.    The "legal" deck should not be stacked in anyone's favor.    That is "truth".    Ann, regardless of my curiosity, it would probably be better not to provoke a confrontation of any kind.    Some of those people might act normally, but when provoked, can be irrational and too aggressive.    There is a lot of unhappiness, misery and  violence in the homo-lifestyle and it wouldn't be smart for you to call undue attention to yourself.   

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I really respect you Karen for stating that women should respect and love their husbands.  You sound  like Warren Jeff in the way that you say you should respect, and love your husband almost like he is God himself.  I too believe this.  But what happens when there is abuse?  Are you simply lost in love, or what?   William 

William, There will always be pinheads who abuse their wives.    Even when a husband thinks his wife deserves to be punished, it is still a very stupid and inexcusable thing to do.    It's a matter of personal integrity.    I would never hurt Karen, my wife, simply because I am a God-fearing Christian man who sincerely believes in God's Word.    A person who harms anyone smaller and weaker than they, are definitely lacking in morals & ethics and are perhaps just plain stupid.    Marriage is not something done casually and without thought.    Karen is a very good and sweet woman.    She is in very good hands, and so am I. 

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You have just explained why my husband drinks all day.  he went to Iraq and I believe all the chemicals there, in the equipment and everything else, destroyed his immune system.  We have tried doctors but he hates all the medicines and they make him drugged, and sick even more.  Is this why he goes to bars with his buddies and drinks beer?  Should I be more understanding of him, and this situation?  Your advice on this would sure be appreciated.  Kathy  

Kathy, people who serve overseas away from their families do have off-duty time fairly often.    Unfortunately, people who didn't drink much before have nothing else to do other than drink in the service clubs, even in a war zone.    Six months to a year of this and they come back home and want to keep up this new very relaxing habit.    The local bar is close enough to a service club with their buddies.    The military makes it easy and cheap to drink alcohol.    Overseas, it is a good and necessary escape valve for what they must endure.    When they come back home, some of them don't readjust very well.    Your husband might very well have an environmental illness problem that both of you should try to manage, but he also could have an alcohol dependency problem.    If that's true, it will be hard to treat both problems at the same time.    The beer fogs over the other symptoms and makes it hard to diagnose and treat it.    Here's a new thought:    If our soldiers come home with problems like this, what is happening to the natives of those countries that live there all the time?    No wonder those people come across to many of us as plain crazy.

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Congratulations Karen on stating the truth.  A woman MUST LEARN TO RESPECT AND LOVE HER HUSBAND, AND HONOR HIM.  Modern women do NOT DO THIS.  I wish you would talk more about this--men deserve and respect our love, and our help.  We are meant to be a man's helpmate, that is what God said.  Helen. H. M.

Helen, did you read the essay on "The Problem with Women."?     I admire and respect your point of view.    Unfortunately, there are too many men out there that do not deserve a woman like you.    They are too far into this age of "multiculturalism" and would not make honorable husbands for descent women.    That is why it's getting to be so hard for good people to find each other.    May God's Will be done.

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I really appreciate this new development of the Karen Kellock Websites.  Very interesting.  I agree with everything you are saying.  Will she ever be well enough to lecture, or go on TV?  Steven L.  

Steven, it's hard to say at this point.    Wait and see, who knows?

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WHAT INCREDIBLY SENSUOUS MUSIC.  I love it and it turns me on.  When can we see Karen on TV?  Will she ever appear? 

No and NO.

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YOU GUYS ARE THE BEST. KEEP IT UP 

Tell that to the AMA, MAA, etc.

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How do I get more of KK's trumpet music?  wow--she is an incredible trumpet player.  Can you please give me the link?  she ought to be on TV.  Sheran, NB 

Sheran, check out the answer I gave to Kathy.

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I love Karen's music--can I believe she is playing trumpet like that?  Where is she?  Can she appear on You-tube?  How can I locate her?  Can you show me a picture of her?  Can you do something to make her respond to me?  She did 7 years ago--what happened to her?  Kathy Y.

 Kathy, she's still around.    She is currently out of practice on the trumpet.    It's one of those things like "if you don't use it, you lose it". Her picture is on this web-site.    What happened to her is that I found her and will never let her go.    As for responding, she gets thousands of e-mails and reads all of them, including this one, then she filters through the ones she believes I should answer.    She is still very much in control of her own web-site.    I assume that she personally answers some of the other e-mail.

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you guys are the BEST. keep it up--we have your musica going all day long in our restaurant.  I agree with what you say--were invaded by fags.  we going down, fast--so what should we do, just get drunk?  Roger  

Roger, just survive as best as you can and help others who believe as you do.

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Brother Graham.  Your kind words are so appreciated.  I like them better than the hell-fire preaching of your wife, although she is a hell of a trumpeter.  Does she still do jazz trumpet?  Anyway, I have a problem.  My wife is a bitch.  I loved her so much, and she was so gentle and sweet at first.  But then her feminist sister started to give her "advice" and she started to "demand"  respect, leave dirty dishes pile up, refuse to make love if it served her purposes, go out to bars with her feminist friends, and act indifferent to me.  This really disturbed me, so then I started to hang out more with the boys, going to bars.  From there, everything went downhill.  I can surely see the progression.  Where do we go from here, how do I get her back to the beginning, and should it mean we should stop watching TV, or separate from the culture totally?  Should we become jehovah's witnesses, or some other sub-culture?  Benjamin J. 

Benjamin, your sister-in-law is no doubt either unmarried or unhappily married and misery likes company.    She started this downward cycle and your wife followed her because they are sisters and evidently trusted each other when growing up.    For you to retaliate by doing the same thing, you then became like her.    You are acting like; what you don't like about her, and what she is doing.    The Bible says that when a couple enter into the covenant of marriage they leave (the influence of) their fathers and mothers to establish their own home and become one in body and spirit.    It is a very sweet and spiritual thing.    Your wife is definitely wrong to trust her sister's advice over your own love for her, your love for each other.    It would be a good thing if you stopped going to bars with the boys and pay more attention to your wife and home.    After doing this for a week, sit down with her and let her read this e-mail and discuss your problems and differences.    God intended husbands and wives to hold tight to each other.    You wife can never achieve the sweetness of life that she had with you, before her sister started influencing her, with anyone else.    It's worth fighting for.    Love must be defended, nurtured, cherished, and enjoyed.    Your sister-in-law is not necessarily a bad person, she is just wrong in what she is doing to your wife.    You and your wife are not happier because of this so stop going in that direction and return to the sweetness that you had at the beginning of your marriage together.    Pray for God's hep with this.    He is always there for us all.

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This whole thing is really amazing.  Environmental illness is killing people.  They are medicating it with alcohol.  Do you recommend a gas mask?  How can we escape?  What do you do to escape?   Rick

Rick, don't live in a big city (that's hard), don't drive a newer car, do live in an old house, do go to the websites (google=environmenal illness) that teach and inform you of what you need to know, and do network with other people who are having similar problems.

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WE HAVE THE KK MUSIC TRUMPET SOLOS AND THE WHOLE 1000 HOUR CONCERT ON ALL DAY LONG IN OUR RESTAURANT.  WE THANK YOU FOR THIS.  THIS IS IS WONDERFUL.  YOU ARE SPEAKING THE TRUTH.  PLEASE DO NOT STOP.  Carolos Mexican Restaurant, Tucson

Carolos Mexican Restaurant - I was born in Tucson in 1940.    I guess that makes me an old dude?    No problem, no age group has a lock on truth.    Only God has that.

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ROCK ON BABY, ROCK ON.  Ashutosh Abyhankar, your friend and brother for life.  In Krishna, Mumbai.  Please keep it on we ALL LOVE IT IN OUR OFFICE

Ashutosh Abyhankar, I'm glad to make your acquaintance.    Any friend of Karen's is a worthy friend of mine too.    Keep the faith in Mumbai.

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You must be incredibly sexual to put this type of music on.  wow.  We had a keg party last night in our fraternity--we love karen kellock.  This is so sexy.    And yet you say to guard against sex sins?  Why are you turning us on, and then telling us to turn it off?  Please explain.   Jake

Jake, Karen zealously lived by her own biblical code of ethics for over twenty years.    Now we are husband and wife and yes the music does work it's magic on us both.    Promiscuous sex just does not lead to happiness for human beings.    Sexual gratification is a very poor substitute for true love, marriage, home & family.    Promiscuous sex works directly against achieving those things.    If it's easy, effortless, and commonly available (if it feels good - do it.) then how seriously do you think you will be when you pledge fidelity to each other in Holy Matrimony?    If sex is commonplace when you're single, then how can it be something really sweet and special to share on your wedding night?    If you're not true to your future husband or wife, even if you don't even know who that's going to be yet, then what do you have to look forward to when you do meet that special someone?    Is it going to be: "So, I just got married today and I guess I'll get laid 'again' tonight."?    How special is that?    The end result of this kind of attitude is the death of marriage.    Do you think that's a good thing?    In our American history, marriage and family were the cornerstones of building our nation.     The proof of that is that we have succeeded as a nation until now.    Do you really thing that people who promote "sexual freedom" are somehow wiser or more knowledgeable than our founding fathers of the last two hundred years?     If they are right, what is it that they will succeed at:    Sexual gratification upon demand but nobody will have any memories of happy homes with a father, mother, and well behaved children.    Is that your future?    Karen is not turning against you.    The society that surrounds us is turning against you.  

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I have loved Karen Kellock for years.  She is the best.  I really love what you guys are doing--I ALSO feel that homos are sick, the government is invasive, and people are ridiculous.  hahahahaha. All laughter aside, things are getting serious.  Keep up the good work.  Kenneth, NJ 

Kenny, it's really heating up.    I don't know how long we can hang on here.   We might have to move to keep this web-site up.    It's in God's Hands. 

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I live in a new trailer park, filled with plastics and "poster board".  I feel sick all the time, plus my husband just got a practically-new car (2003) which makes me as sick as a dog.  He thinks I am "faking" it, just to get attention.  Brother Graham--I feel sick, I am sick, and I am NOT MALINGUERING. Please tell me what to say to my husband.  R. H.

RH, get him to read http://www.sharecareprayer.org/subpages/environ/resources.html  and  www.healnatl.org.   When anyone makes a decision or even forms an opinion, the only smart thing to do is gather all the facts to evaluate what is truly going on.    Your husband needs to be educated that the problems you are experiencing are, in fact, based in science and not just some woman "having the vapors".    In knowledge is power.    Learn the facts, and sort through the assumptions based on those facts and make good decisions.

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I am extremely chemically sensitive.  I feel sick all the time, and I also suffer with severe mood swings, depression and paranoia.  I feel jealous and suicidal at times.  The doctors want to prescribe their "psych meds" as Karen Kellock calls them.  I am on SSI so, what can I do but beckon to the doctors?  When I tell them I have environmental illness, they pooh-pooh it as if I am "telling them how to run their business".  I don't know what to do.  Can you please advise me on this?  I have heard there are the correct doctors, but the AMA has pushed them in to Mexico and my insurance won't support it.  Please advise.  K. R. (anonymous--fear)

KR, funny that you should mention the AMA, and you are right to be fearful.    The attitudes that doctors have comes from all of us handing over to them too much power.    When you are on SSI they have absolute power.    Absolute power corrupts absolutely.    You are but a little cog in the big wheel of profit.    The only way for doctors to maximize their profits is to see the most people in the shortest amount of time.    Do you ever wonder why you are "never" seen on time when you have an appointment?    It's because they always overbook the appointments to cram their day with as many people as possible = $.    You, with an unusual problem, are cutting into the numbers game of profit and your doctor resents having to actually sit down and think your problem through to a viable solution.    You're taking up too much of his time.    That is why they "pooh-pooh" any input you have.    KR, you are the only one that is truly responsible for your health and welfare.    It is a mistake to think that you can hand over this responsibility to a doctor.    The solution is to learn whatever it takes to completely understand what your problem is specifically and then do something about it.    Go to http://www.sharecareprayer.org/subpages/environ/resources.html   and   www.healnatl.org     There are also lots of other web-sites to research.    Read some of the other e-mails on this page and see if any of it is helpful to you.    You are the key to solving your problems. 

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ADDICTIVE MUSIC--wow wow wow wow.  WOW.  I hAVE IT ON ALL DAY LONG.  Anyway, my wife is also anorexic and chemically sensitive and  ALCOHOLIC--a way she uses to medicate herself, or escape the sickness...I will post this anonymously, because she is very sensitive but this is TRUE--SHE IS A SELF-MEDICATOR.  What else can she do?  The doctors don't even recognize chemical injury.  But I sure don't like the drinking.  She is also very low weight, and skinny.   But I love my wife completely and what else can I do but put up with it?  We have a very happy homelife, PREDOMINANTLY, but sometimes things get out of control due to her extreme sensitivity:  Last week, the paramedics came to rescue her from a fainting attack which had her catatonic in bed for three days (costing the insurance $5000).  She hated being in the hospital so much she is now "silent" so I won't call the para-meds again.  She is being extremely submissive now, as she has been "warned" what will happen if this happens again.  I do NOT like her like this--I want her "old self" back, but now she is scared of me.  She no longer trusts me and this hurts me greatly, as we had a fabulous marriage before. She is also scared of her family, fearing I will call them.  I want her to return to her prior personality, but she acts as though she will never forgive and forget----what do you suggest I do in this situation?  Rick Y. Your friend forever if you can figure this out.

Rick, the beginning of a solution for any anorexic is to get her on a proper diet.    Karen's diet recommendations are tried and true.    They work.    Anorexic and chemically sensitive is complicated but there are things that will improve her condition.    Read the web-sites that I have recommended to others and educate yourself.    The key to her recovery is you, because you are the only one that truly loves her.    She can't help herself so you must do what is necessary.    You must aggressively pursue this course of action. 

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Hey bro graham.  Hey ol' buddy, army partner.  I so appreciate you're finally dealing with the real issue--not obama, not chenny, not mcCaine, but the fact that we are ALL SICK AS DOGS from this crap in the air.  I changed my diet according to the KK plan, I eat nuts, cheese, eggs, meat, fruit--and I lost 80 pounds. Ok, fine--BUT--AND IT'S A BIG BUT:  Now, I am so sensitive to chemicals I feel sick all the time.  I feel headache, weak, dizzy, sick, disgusted, low self-esteem. I fight with my wife. She doesn't deserve it and I hate myself for it. Then I medicate with beer, with the boys. This she hates the most--and we are really having problems but i KNOW it's all from the sickness I feel, which I try to dull with other methods.  I am going to take a nap now--I wish I could just die to escape these feelings of sickness.  Rick H. Virginia

Rick, your problem could either be diet or the junk you surround yourself with.    Switch off some things in your diet a week at a time and see if you notice any improvement.    What do you have in your home that is large and new that might be out gassing crap into the air.    It could be anything.    Epoxy paint is high on the list.    Anything that they recommend you use a face mask to apply is also a good candidate.    It might be where you work or otherwise hang out.    If you've painted your bedroom lately, you might consider putting wallpaper on top of it.    The paste used in doing that is not toxic like some paints.    If you can narrow down and get rid of those things that are hurting you, you will probably be less cranky at home.    You're in the hot seat.    You're responsible for finding a solution.    You're the Guinea pig so use your sensitivity to help you eliminate what's hurting you, one at a time.   

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My wife recently was hospitalized due to environmental illness, though they did not label it such--they called it "menier's disease"..  What a joke.  It is nothing but chemical allergy.  Because the doctors control everything, they have her COMMITTED to a lengthy stay, and she calls me daily BEGGING to get out of this incarceration.  They will not let her go, because upon standing up, she faints.  I know it is due to all the chemicals in the hospital. They medicate her further and I am really worried she may die from this mistreatment.  I have been reading this website for years, hoping that DIETARY PLANS would change the situation, but unfortunately she has become too chemically sensitive for diet changes to work.  I would be pleased if you would add this to your website, and advise Karen.  Rick H.

Another Rick H. - - Hmmmm.    Like I've said before, hospitals and other medical institutions are very nasty with toxic orders.    You do have a Constitutional right to refuse medication.    Lawfully, they can't deny her release if she insists on it.    You are an equal adult with any doctor and you are ultimately in charge of your own health and welfare.    The government owns your "Strawman" but they don't own your person, your physical self.   Your wife and yourself have the final choice of what to do.    They might insist that you sign a release for her, to absolve them of any medical responsibility, but so what?    It's your decision to make.

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Hello Karen.  I love your music and always have.  You are truly a genius.  This is the point, my dear woman:  after working in a casino in Lake Tahoe for ten years, I am extremely sick.  What do I do at this point?  Les, your friend. 

Look for a job in an older casino.    The newer the building is, the more toxic out gassing is occurring.    Any new construction where you work could do it also.    If you're driving a new car, that could be it.    If you eat a lot of fast-foods, high in starch and deep fat fried in vegetable oil (especially canola - Canada Oil), you could be setting yourself up for getting cancer.    Do the research and make some decisions. 

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You have just explained all I needed to know.  My wife was anorexic and then alcoholic, in an attempt to hold herself together. She had been abused in childhood and in her first marriage and never got over it.  She loves me but she was so badly scarred that she just couldn't stop drinking.  She then developed extreme toxic sensitivity--couldn't be around people, my family, her own friends, or groups of any kind.  Then we had to get rid of everything in our home including the carpets and printers ink (all books and magazines had to go).  She was "insane" in medical garbage labels,  and became extremely reclusive.  That is what drawed her to the Karen Kellock website, of course that was a draw.  Karen Kellock is the only person on the internet that addresses these extreme issues of sensitive people. ( I congratulate you for putting up with this--it is hard for husbands of such sensitive people as this.)  For my wife is now in a committed institution, put in their by her mother when she was so sick she could not stand, and extremely argumentative.  Once committed, I cannot get her out of the institution--the doctors have an investment in keeping her in.  I mourn the loss of my wife daily, hourly., every single minute.  I love her and I don't know what to do--I will never speak to my mother in law again, but feel I must kiss her butt to get my dear wife out.  Your advise would be so appreciated.  P.S. LOVE THE TRUMPET MUSIC BY KAREN KELLOCK which is the first song--is that really her playing trumpet?  I have heard she is an expert trumpeteer.  Richard H. Idaho

Richard, Karen played the trumpet in a jazz band when she was a bit younger.    She was very good and made quite a splash in her day.   The sum total of her abilities and accomplishments are amazing.    Check with a lawyer on anybody keeping custody of someone without his or her permission.    If she is not competent of making those decisions for herself ,then you're next in line, not the doctors.    The (second) thirteenth Amendment prohibits slavery.    Keeping somebody against their will in order to make a profit is slavery.

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I just got a personal email from Dr. Kellock and  I appreciated it so much.  I asked her the question about EI and I would like you to post it here, if it is at all possible.  The question is about ENVIRONMENTAL ILLNESS:   MULTIPLE CHEMICAL SENSITIVITY. If you would please address this issue.  It is a growing problem across the world.  It is a big reason for the obesity, I think--because if you eat, it DULLS THE SYMPTOMS TEMPORARILY.  I have EI, and when I  get sick, I eat.  In some way, the worse the food (like a BIG MAC or donuts), the more it dulls the symptoms.  But of course then you get sicker, because bad food suppresses the immune system and then the symptoms are EVEN WORSE. I believe that EI is the reason for attention deficit disorder in children, and other misbehaviors.  I believe it is the reason for the INFINITE NUMBER OF NEW DISEASES which arise all the time. And the doctors, in general, REFUSE to address EI--in fact they deny that it even exists. Environmental illness is NOT part of their education, as is correct diet not part of their curriculum in med schools. It makes me so sad to think of the people who are MIS-ADVISED, and given more medications that do not address the correct problem, and just make them sicker. A very common symptom of EI is VERTIGO, which the physicians call "MENIER'S DISEASE".  What a tremendous joke.  They even perform "inner ear surgery" to take away the "vertigo". Brother Graham I wish you would discuss this terrible issue more.  You have spoken about the AMA at great length--but this is the BIGGEST FAKE PART OF THE AMA there ever was.   Mary Johnston, Lake Tahoe

Mary, I couldn't agree with you more.    I just answered an e-mail from a nurse who raised the same questions and gave a fairly comprehensive answer to it.   Read it and tell me what you think.    Your experience with Big Mac's is typical.    All young men in the military, way back when, knew that if you drank too much and got a hangover it helped if you "had a little of the hair of the dog that bit you".    So when they got up in the morning with a huge hangover, they drank a shot of whatever gave them the hangover and that always seemed to settle things down in their head and stomach.    Anything that you ingest that is bad for you works the same way.    If you stuff yourself with starch, you develop a craving for starch.    There are ways of detoxifying yourself, which I won't get into right now, and to break the cycle it takes a rough three days of abstaining from what is hurting you.    Use a substitute to eat.    Mixed nuts (no peanuts) does it for me.    They are nothing but fat and fiber w/no bad carbs.    Right now I am eating only the Walker shakes and nuts and am steadily losing weight.    I have only twenty pounds to go.    You can do it too.

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KK says she has environmental illness, or multiple chemical sensitivity.  She is a universal reactor.  I would like to know more about this, because I  too feel sick often--a mild subnormal carsick feeling, or vertigo takes over.  She speaks of this throughout the website yet it has not been mentioned here.  I think it is a terrible problem that effects far more people than are aware of it--they get tied up with the medical system for all of the diverse and infinite varieties of symptoms which the AMA NEVER ADDRESSES--NEVER. The diverse symptoms are always called some other "disease" for which their stupid expensive medicines are a panacea, yet only make things worse.  I am a nurse and see these things happening constantly in hospitals, where I KNOW what the cause is but am not allowed to ever mention it.  S. Y. V.A. L. B

Dear S.Y., environmental illness (EI) has not been mentioned here specifically because I write this question and answer page (sometimes the "answer" is my thoughts on a subject, quotes from God's Word, and whatever other sources I can come up with).    I consult with Karen on all health issues (mental and physical) because that is her area of expertise.    One of her best friends here in town is severely affected by "EI" and lives like a hermit.    She is a walking encyclopedia of information on EI and Karen consults her often because of her own personal struggle with EI.    Karen can at least function fairly normally, but her friend is sick most of the time.    I did a google on EI and found a wealth of info like this:  http://www.webmd.com/allergies/tc/environmental-illness-overview. Years ago, it seems to me that there wasn't all that many sicknesses going around.    That could have been ignorance on my part, but I don't think so.    Everything that we eat, breathe, bathe in, and any other means of ingesting things into our bodies, is processed by our body's systems and is either used or eliminated.    For thousands of years we ingested pretty much the same things with not much change.    There were regional variations, of course, that developed genetic variations to cope with that particular area of the world.    The industrial revolution in the 1800's produced some very stinky areas like London where they pronounced the mix of fog and smoke from burning massive amounts of coal, to be "London fog".    That was an extremely environmentally bad place to be and many people died of lung diseases.    Many manufacturing processes were also very unhealthy in American cities during the 1800's.    The real problems started to develop during WWII.    That war unleashed a period of creativity and inventions that had never been seen in the world before.    The chemical industry, the aeronautical industry, and most other areas of endeavor grew by leaps and bounds.    Along the way many mistakes were made and the results of those mistakes were either buried or flushed into the water supply, one way or the other.    Environmental regulation only came after many mistakes were made.    It has been a game of "catch-up" ever since.    The number of new chemicals and manufacturing processes are now countless.    I personally don't think that there are enough doctors and researchers in the world to come close to fully evaluating all of the new things we ingest into our bodies every day.    Remember that "new car smell"? That's poison for many people who are getting sick from the out gassing from the manufacturing processes used in making that car.    It can last for a few years or more.    It doesn't bother most people but for people who are sensitive to these things, it can drastically reduce their quality of life.    Karen has a real problem with going into mobile homes or newer RV's (& new cars).    She gets sick within five minutes.    I feel nothing.    She says that won't necessarily remain so as I get older.    We live in a lethal world.    Obesity and cancer have exploded in America in the last ten years.    Toxins can only be stored in fatty tissue.    The more toxins ingested, the more fatty tissue is required.    The fatty tissue sequesters the toxins away from the heart and liver.    Is it a wonder that most obese people are found in cities?    The cities are full of unnatural out gasses from the myriad of manufactured goods therein and the streets are lined with hamburger joints that feed them mostly starches which increases their appetites.    Also, deep fat frying in vegetable oil at high temperatures causes cancer according to Karen (it was OK when they used lard and/or olive oil).    Our children don't stand much of a chance in that type of environment.    Cancer has gone up a thousandfold in the last couple of decades.    One in every three men will contract prostate cancer and it was my turn last year.    Fortunately, radiation treatment eliminated it and my PSI is down to 0.35 when I had my last blood test done.    Others aren't so lucky.    So what is the AMA doing about all of this?    Making a fortune along with the American drug cartels (corporations).    The medicines "necessary" to treat people that are obese or have cancer are in the thousands, and the profits are in the "trillions".    So what should a person do when they suspect they might have an environmental illness?    I'm not a doctor so I couldn't possibly give you advice on something in which I admit I have no expertise.    However, if it were "my" body, I would go about it by process of elimination.    If I suspected that my car was making me sick, I would trade with someone with an older car for a week.    If I were to really have a problem, I would get out of the city for a week and see if there was any difference.    When Karen and I got married, the first thing she did was get rid of everything (to storage) that wasn't absolutely necessary to comfortable living.    She could definitely tell a before and after difference.    Guys like to collect quality junk and Karen is a neatnick.    Compromise is always helpful and she let me keep my sardine can collection (just kidding).    So, if doctors can't satisfactorily help you with a problem, I don't think that anyone can do more than to try and isolate what your particular problem is, while looking for a competent doctor who can help you.    Doctors who specialize in environmental illnesses are  lumped together with chiropractors by the AMA.    They are considered to be barely legitimate.    I hope this helps.  

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I am gay and I was directed to this website.  I love being gay, and being part of the gay community.  I already know what you think about it.  I will say that I get hurt by men, just as women do.  I fall deeply in love, as a woman does, and get hurt the same way.  Most gay men are interested in "variety" and keep moving,and when I fall in love it really bugs them.  What should I do?  Trend Y. Miami 

Trendy,    So here we are, a "straight" guy being asked for love-life advice from a "homosexual".    What's wrong with this picture?    The fact that you "fall in love" tells me that you would like a permanent bond and not be promiscuous (variety).    This is a complicated issue and I want to give you an honest answer.    You deserve to be taken seriously the same as everyone else that comes to this web-site.

When any new social evolution occurs, the new group inevitably wants to mimic the old group in order to give the appearance of normalcy and therefore be accepted in society.    They want to hold on to the new but give the appearance of the old ways.    This is what is happening in many states where the homo-community is fighting for recognition by being legally allowed to get a marriage license and "marry".    "Normal" in this case is where a man and a woman get married, establish a home and have children (old group).    The homo-community wants to mimic this in order to give the appearance of "normalcy" and thereby gain acceptance within the community.    So after they "get the license" and "get married", the plan breaks down because they can't establish a home in which to have and raise children.    By your own admission "most gay men are interested in 'variety' and keep moving".    This is normal to the homo-community in general and does not lend itself to the "home and family" concept.    When you say that "you fall deeply in love", you are expressing a normal man's desire for love/home/family.    You won't find that in the gay community.    It is not natural to them.    It is all about promiscuous sex with no permanence, no true home, and certainly no extended family.    The homo-couples that manage to acquire children through artificial means or adoption are not doing the children any favor.    You profess to believe in tolerance and preference.    Do you think that these children will truly have a choice as to what they prefer or will tolerate when they become adults?    How many of them will be taken to church and taught about God's love for us?    The men you "fall in love with" are bothered by your attitude because they instinctively know that any kind of permanence in a homo-relationship is most likely doomed to failure.     They are only interested in your body, and how well you can perform for them, not your heart.    You are involved in a social experiment that is doomed from the beginning.    Homosexuality is very old in history but has never succeeded is establishing itself as a long-lasting political entity.    It usually flourishes at the end of successful empires/societies.    That's where we're at today. 

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I am 14 years old and in ninth grade.  I was brought up as a Christian, and I was taught about Sodom and Gomorah and how we are not to be homosexual.  I was taught it was a sin.  Well now my church doesn't talk like this, they accept homos.  And I know this is not true.  In school, I am told to accept them and it makes me sick.  They say I am a bigot.  Now the other girls are being bully with me.  That is so hard to take,  and the boys too.  It is sickening to me.  What can I do.  Sally H.  

Sally, when the early Christians were growing in numbers in the Roman world, they had to hide any affiliation or contact with other Christians.    The ones that were caught were fed to lions and tigers in a big arena for entertainment for the heathen people of the city of Rome.    Many thousands of Christians died.    Now we are entering into another period of history where again Christians are starting to be persecuted for their beliefs in God and His Son Jesus.    The people who are promoting and allowing this to happen are modern-day heathens.    They do not acknowledge or fear God.    They have no clue as to the terrible personal consequences they will have to face one of these days.    Sally, hold fast to your personal beliefs in our God.    As bad as it might get we have God's promise that it will never be more than we can bear.    Like the early Christians, you must not confront the heathens around you, for your own safety.    Until you get out of High School, hang out with people who believe as you do and avoid confrontations.    Many of the heathen around you are not very rational or even sane.    You cannot reason with them using facts and logic.    All they want to do is wallow in their sin and force those around them to participate in their sickness.    The fact that you have Christian ethics condemns their actions.    That's why they give you a hard time.    When they come at you, turn the issue around.    They want you to respect their "preference" and be "tolerant".    Ask them if they respect your preference and are they willing to be tolerant of your preference?    They will have to say "YES" but they will think "NO".    Like I said, many of them are not rational or, for that matter, not very smart.

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Congratulations.  At last someone is talking about this terrible problem.  Why worry about the economy, when we're all dying of cancer?  I lost my husband two years ago to cancer and I KNOW it was due to chemical injury from his work.  I live off his pension, thank you God, but I miss him so much.  Because of his sickness, and I'm sure due to chemical injury, he drank alot--to dull the constant pain and sickness.  Somehow, alcohol made him feel better so I would get it for him.  I was glad that I was able to help him in his latter years this way.  He had to have something, and the doctors were of no value whatsoever.  Thank you for addressing this common--AND LETHAL--problem. 

If you want help and assistance, go to the experts:  http://www.sharecareprayer.org/environ.html    The first step in dealing with any problem is to "gather the facts" and educate yourself.    The above is a good place to start.

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I have been sick for many years.  I cannot be around people nor groups.  I feel sick unless I am in my own home.  My husband called me "crazy" for always being sick, so he left me because I could not participate in social situations with him.  Perfumes, after-shaves, shampoos I can smell like a mile away and they make me sick.  I cannot go anywhere new cars or RVs or homes.  I feel sick going into anyone's neighborhood and i had to stop going into churches--of all kinds.  I had to stop going into Al-Anon or AA meetings because of the perfumes.  Because of these RECENT reactions, I have become a total recluse.  There is no one I can talk to about this.  I appreciate the KK site tremendously--the music is wonderful and I appreciate it very much.  I realize that Karen is sick, and that is why no one hears from her anymore.  I appreciate her so much, anyway.  I hope you can take care of her.  Ashley H. Idaho

Ashley,    You need a crash course in Environmental Illnesses.    What you can't find on the internet is available in book form which you can buy and read.    go to: http://www.sharecareprayer.org/environ.html    and    www.healnatl.org    Your primary goal is to discover what specifically triggers the negative reactions to your body.    Your condition is not hopeless and it can be controlled but you must take action now.    Any delay can only cause more and possible permanent damage.    Most doctors only know how to treat your symptoms with AMA approved drugs and not much else.  

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Hello Brother Graham.  I really think you are hitting on something here, for I recently went blind, or really--near-blind, for I can see faintly but I feel extremely dizzy and my vision is fuzzy.  I am really panicking about this situation.  Also, I am bruising very easily.  From what I read on this website this morning, you have hit the nail on the head.  Are these chemicals?  You know what?  I drink and eat to dilute the feelings of sickness.  Rather than leave work, I just go to lunch with my buddies and we have some drinks and we pig out, and then I feel better.  I cannot believe how these new answers are talking about me..........  (are you psychic?)  John

John, the bruising is a sign that your condition is moving into it's next stage.    Karen is experiencing the same thing.   She just started a regimen of lots of vitamin C and Magnesium.    I cannot give medical advice, but if I were in your shoes I would stop eating and drinking everything that you normally do and change to only meat, nuts (no peanuts), dairy products, fruit and vegetables.    No starches.    Does your work place employ smelly chemicals around you?    There is a cause for your condition and you must find it.    Check out these web-sites also:  http://www.sharecareprayer.org/environ.html   &   www.healnatl.org    If your new diet seems to change your symptoms start deleting something from it a week at a time.    You're the guinnea pig here and you should experiment until you find what is affecting you.    By all means see if you can find a Doctor that specializes in Environmental illnesses.    I'm not real keen on doctors in general, but I have a family doctor that is a real jewel.    There are some good ones around.    Most important is that YOU are in charge of finding solutions for your problems.    Doctors can "assist" you with their expertise, but don't turn responsibility for your body over to them .

    (this info came from the ShareCarePrayer web-site)

"For chronically ill patients without help, we suggest you start by giving up sugar and caffeine and make the easiest lifestyle changes, such as just avoiding exposures to fragranced products and pesticide/herbicides. As your health begins to improve, it will then be easier to move on to more solutions. However, if you do not begin to make diet and lifestyle changes, your health will continue to degenerate, and you will develop more symptoms. You can get better with some effort, and it is worth it."

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Hello Brother Graham.    I want to ask you something.  I feel carsick all the time.  I feel extremely shaky, dizzy, and sick at work.  Sometimes I have to vomit.  I have to sit down, for when I stand up at work I feel like I will faint.  I can sense chemicals all around.  The work is filled with them.  Sometimes I feel my arms and legs going to sleep.  I feel so sick I have to ask for sick leave, to go lay down in the nurses station.  Please advise what I should do.  I am dependent on this income but feel I cannot stand it anymore.  HG, Long Beach

HG, Your very life is more important than any job.    You have to make some real tough decisions.    If you can, take a week off and go camping in the middle of the woods somewhere, totally isolated from manmade anything.    Use old, or minimal, camping gear.    Also get there in an old car that doesn't have any "new car smell".    Don't take any bread, pasta, mashed potatoes, chips, ar anything else that is starchy.    If, at the end of the week, you feel a lot better, then you have your answer.    You must change your life to eliminate what is killing you.    You might wind up making less money, but your quality of life will be a lot better.    Good luck.

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Please help me.  I am sick.  I feel sick all the time, and when I go to the doctors they make me take very painful and expensive tests, and give me various medical prescriptions.  I have been reading this website for years and I need help.  Where can I go to escape?  I have cleansed my home of ALL CHEMICALS, bad things like store-bought cleansers, shampoos.  And yet I still feel sick, practically all the time.  I cannot let anyone in my home--either they are filled with toxins, or they ARE TOO TOXIC IN PERSONALITY for me to take.  I am becoming very isolated and I feel lonely, and no one understands.  I cannot go to family dinners anymore--what can I do?  Ruth H.

Ruth, I wish I had a magic answer for everyone's problems.    I can only try and help with ideas that you might have missed.    Also, keep reading this web-site.    What I suggest for someone else might work for you, and what I suggest for you might help someone else.    So, you have eliminated all of this stuff in your house, but you are still sick.    That suggests to me that the problem is still in your home and could be what you eat.    Start eliminating specific things that you eat, one week at a time.    Eventually eliminate all possibilities.    Also start taking vitamin supplements.   A good quality multiple vitamin, 1000mg of C daily, one magnesium tablet a day, and if you have any arthritis symptoms get some "Cat's Claw".    Cat's Claw and magnesium will greatly relieve arthritis pain in three days and restore some flexibility.    I've even had it work on a couple of ladies that had rheumatoid arthritis.   (Swanson's on-line is a good source)    Do tell your doctor what you are doing and how it is or isn't working.    Ruth, it's worth a try.    This is way out of my area of expertise but I'm cramming on this environmental illness as fast as I can.    Between Karen and her very knowledgeable Friends, I get some very good instruction and back-up.

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GOD BLESS YOU FOR YOUR RESEARCH.  MY HUSBAND RECENTLY WENT INSANE AND IS NOW IN A MENTAL INSTITUTION.  THE DOCTORS GAVE HIM A "LABEL"  of "PARANOID PSYCHOSIS" BUT I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT HE WAS INJURED AT HIS WORK, DEALING WITH TOXIC CHEMICALS (PAINT, FUMES, ETC).  IMMEDIATELY AFTER, HE BECAME EXTREMELY COMBATIVE AND WE HAD TERRIBLE MARITAL FIGHTS.  WITHIN WEEKS IT GOT SO BAD THE POLICE CAME AND HE WAS COMMITTED.  I FEEL SO BAD, PLEASE KEEP UP YOUR GOOD WORK. SPREAD THE WORD THAT OUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS ARE NOT INSANE--THEY ARE JUST IN REACTION.  I hope and pray that the doctors will let him out soon, but they have him on their meds and he is a zombie.  Kathy, NYC

Kathy, unfortunately, hospitals and other medical institutions are some of the worst environmental places to be.    I hope that at least once a week they get him off of all meds. just to see how he is doing.    If he is getting worse, he probably won't be able to tell them about it if he's always zonked out.    If he does get out soon, he mustn't go back to where he worked before.    If taking him out of that work environment was part of the cure, you need to seriously get a lawyer and sue that company for the damage that was done to your husband.    It doesn't cost a fortune for these companies to provide rapid ventilation of these toxic work areas.    They need to be made to pay the price for their neglect, not good men like your husband who just wanted to do his job.

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My son just recently returned from his turn in IRAQ.  Because of the chemical invasion there, he was a totally different person.  He is not the person I knew, he is not the son I brought up.  He is a totally different person.  Due to his "psychotic post-trauma syndrome" or whatever they called it, they put him on extreme medications and he got SSI.  He is happily living like a bum now, supported by the government, while being sedated--but i KNOW IT IS GULF WAR SYNDROME.  I have read enough to know what is affecting my dear son.  Please get off this shit about anorexia and talk about the REAL ISSUES:  WE ARE ALL BEING POISONED, EVERY SINGLE MOMENT.  Hilda Ridout, Detroit

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Hilda, at 1:30, Sunday afternoon, three Sheriff SUV's drove into my yard and told Karen that the AMA had complained about this web-site.   That we are bad-mouthing the AMA and doctors in general.    Now I ask you, where is "freedom of speech" and "freedom of the press" involved in this blatant attempt at intimidation by the AMA?    Why am I not surprised that that our local upholders of the law take this "request" seriously.    There was no signed complaint, no warrant from a judge, just three really large Sheriffs trying to shut down this web-site in violation of my, and your, Constitutional rights.    This perfectly validates everything that I have written about the AMA on this web-site.    Their monopoly is so complete and the embarrassingly huge sums of money that they take in gives them real power to where even local law enforcement has no choice other than to do their bidding.    As far as your son is concerned, it would be a good idea if he could come off of the drugs once in a while and his condition be reevaluated.    How would you ever know if his condition is improving or not?    This is not a medical recommendation, just a suggestion.

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My daughter is an anorexic.  I was really worried about that problem, but recently from your new articles I am beginning to see that she is also very chemicaly sensitive.  Anything she eats or drinks makes her sick.  She is constantly filled with acid and takes zantac all day long.  I saw on the KK site that the body fills up with acid when in reaction to chemicals.  I have also been reading about what happened to war victims--like WW I victims of mustard gas, and the symptoms are the same:  She has fuzzy vision, has dizzy spells and fainting, and spends MONTHS IN BED with vertigo.  She vomits (not intentionally), has crying spells, extreme depresssion and weight loss.  Sometimes she becomes extremely paranoid and also pugnacious (we fight alot).  She feels I am trying to commit her against her will (which I have NEVER, EVER ATTEMPTED TO DO--EVER).  She fears her own mother?   I am so afraid I am losing my daughter--I am afraid she is dying.  Please tell me what to do.  Sherry H.

Sherry, you believe that your daughter might be dying and you're asking me what to do?     The AMA would have a field day with this.    I'm not a doctor and avoid them when possible.    Any comments that I make on this web-site are personal opinions only, not medical advice.    Any vitamins or whatever that I think might help someone are the results of my own personal observations of what has helped other people I am acquainted with.    My personal suggestion to you is to read all you can get your hands on about environmental illnesses.    Karen has some of the same symptoms as your daughter and has replaced the Zantac with Rolaids, which seems to work better.    When the order comes in she is going to try Bromelain.    I'm sure that you have had your daughter see one doctor after another with no solution.    Go to some of the web-sites that I recommended to others and learn what you can as fast as you can.    You really need to work "with" a doctor that specializes in environmental illnesses.    You can't just turn over all responsibility for your daughter's treatment to someone else.    They don't love her, you do.    There are many, many things that you can personally do to help your daughter.    Find out what they are through study. 

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KK says she has environmental illness, or multiple chemical sensitivity.  She is a universal reactor.  I would like to know more about this, because I  too feel sick often--a mild subnormal carsick feeling, or vertigo takes over.  She speaks of this throughout the website yet it has not been mentioned here. I think it is a terrible problem that effects far more people than are aware of it--they get tied up with the medical system for all of the diverse and infinite varieties of symptoms which the AMA NEVER ADDRESSES--NEVER.  The diverse symptoms are always called some other "disease" for which their stupid expensive medicines are a panacea, yet only make things worse.  I am a nurse and see these things happening constantly in hospitals, where I KNOW what the cause is but am not allowed to ever mention it.  S. Y. V.A. L. B

Dear S.Y., environmental illness (EI) has not been mentioned here specifically because I write this question and answer page (sometimes the "answer" is my thoughts on a subject, quotes from God's Word, and whatever other sources I can come up with).    I consult with Karen on all health issues (mental and physical) because that is her area of expertise.    One of her best friends here in town is severely affected by "EI" and lives like a hermit.    She is a walking encyclopedia of information on EI and Karen consults her often because of her own personal struggle with EI.    Karen can at least function fairly normally, but her friend is sick most of the time.    I did a google on EI and found a wealth of info like this:  http://www.webmd.com/allergies/tc/environmental-illness-overview

Years ago, it seems to me that there wasn't all that many sicknesses going around.    That could have been ignorance on my part, but I don't think so.    Everything that we eat, breathe, bathe in, and any other means of ingesting things into our bodies, is processed by our body's systems and is either used or eliminated.    For thousands of years we ingested pretty much the same things with not much change.    There were regional variations, of course, that developed genetic variations to cope with that particular area of the world.    The industrial revolution in the 1800's produced some very stinky areas like London where they pronounced the mix of fog and smoke from burning massive amounts of coal, to be "London fog".    That was an extremely environmentally bad place to be and many people died of lung diseases.    Many manufacturing processes were also very unhealthy in American cities during the 1800's.    The real problems started to develop during WWII.    That war unleashed a period of creativity and inventions that had never been seen in the world before.    The chemical industry, the aeronautical industry, and most other areas of endeavor grew by leaps and bounds.    Along the way many mistakes were made and the results of those mistakes were either buried or flushed into the water supply, one way or the other.    Environmental regulation only came after many mistakes were made.    It has been a game of "catch-up" ever since.    The number of new chemicals and manufacturing processes are now countless.    I personally don't think that there are enough doctors and researchers in the world to come close to fully evaluating all of the new things we ingest into our bodies every day.    Remember that "new car smell"? That's poison for many people who are getting sick from the out gassing from the manufacturing processes used in making that car.    It can last for a few years or more.    It doesn't bother most people but for people who are sensitive to these things, it can drastically reduce their quality of life.    Karen has a real problem with going into mobile homes or newer RV's (& new cars).    She gets sick within five minutes.    I feel nothing.    She says that won't necessarily remain so as I get older.    We live in a lethal world.    Obesity and cancer have exploded in America in the last ten years.    Toxins can only be stored in fatty tissue.    The more toxins ingested, the more fatty tissue is required.    The fatty tissue sequesters the toxins away from the heart and liver.    Is it a wonder that most obese people are found in cities?    The cities are full of unnatural out gasses from the myriad of manufactured goods therein and the streets are lined with hamburger joints that feed them mostly starches which increases their appetites.    Also, deep fat frying in vegetable oil at high temperatures causes cancer according to Karen (it was OK when they used lard and/or olive oil).    Our children don't stand much of a chance in that type of environment.    Cancer has gone up a thousandfold in the last couple of decades.    One in every three men will contract prostate cancer and it was my turn last year.    Fortunately, radiation treatment eliminated it and my PSI is down to 0.35 when I had my last blood test done.    Others aren't so lucky.    So what is the AMA doing about all of this?    Making a fortune along with the American drug cartels (corporations).    The medicines "necessary" to treat people that are obese or have cancer are in the thousands, and the profits are in the "trillions".    So what should a person do when they suspect they might have an environmental illness?    I'm not a doctor so I couldn't possibly give you advice on something in which I admit I have no expertise.    However, if it were "my" body, I would go about it by process of elimination.    If I suspected that my car was making me sick, I would trade with someone with an older car for a week.    If I were to really have a problem, I would get out of the city for a week and see if there was any difference.    When Karen and I got married, the first thing she did was get rid of everything (to storage) that wasn't absolutely necessary to comfortable living.    She could definitely tell a before and after difference.    Guys like to collect quality junk and Karen is a neatnick.    Compromise is always helpful and she let me keep my sardine can collection (just kidding).    So, if doctors can't satisfactorily help you with a problem, I don't think that anyone can do more than to try and isolate what your particular problem is, while looking for a competent doctor who can help you.    Doctors who specialize in environmental illnesses are  lumped together with chiropractors by the AMA.    They are considered to be barely legitimate.    I hope this helps.     

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I just saw on the karen kellock website that you will be answering questions on chemical injury.  If you went in this direction you would be performing a wonderful service for mankind. This is my problem:  I am on SSI for all of my neurological disorders, but I KNOW it is environmental illness.  The doctors refuse to recognize it, so they prescribe CRAP for me and it makes me sicker.  I know Karen is an expert, and a not so "high and mighty" doctor like the rest that she  won't acknowledge it.  I know she is very sensitive to all chemicals so she lives way out in the desert wilderness.  Will you please tell me what to do with the damn doctors who even want to take me into the hospital for PAINFUL TESTS, one that require they put me out to do them?  I hate these doctors that make me go long distances for the tests. The reason they do this is:  THEY ARE AFRAID OF MALPRACTICE SUITS in case of mis-diagnosis.  We are all hung up on this.  Your suggestions will be much appreciated.  Jane Halgren, ca.

Jane, when you're on SSI they dictate what you can do, where to go, and who to see.    When anybody takes money or services from the government, you are handing over control of your life.    You play by government rules and dance to the government tune.    Power over people corrupts and you are experiencing first-hand how corrupt it is.    The best thing you can do is to try and find out for yourself what is causing your illness, if possible.    First, educate yourself.    Buy two books by Dr. Cindy Rogers on line; "Detoxify or Die" and "Chemical Sensitivity".    There are others by Dr. Rogers that you might also be interested in.    I haven't received these yet either but they are highly recommended by Karen's friend who is an expert on these matters.    Check them out and decide what you want to do. Also, read the last couple of e-mails I wrote on this subject.    They might be helpful to you, I hope.

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I just got a personal email from Dr. Kellock and  I appreciated it so much.  I asked her the question about EI and I would like you to post it here, if it is at all possible.  The question is about ENVIRONMENTAL ILLNESS:   MULTIPLE CHEMICAL SENSITIVITY. If you would please address this issue.  It is a growing problem across the world.  It is a big reason for the obesity, I think--because if you eat, it DULLS THE SYMPTOMS TEMPORARILY.  I have EI, and when I  get sick, I eat.  In some way, the worse the food (like a BIG MAC or donuts), the more it dulls the symptoms.  But of course then you get sicker, because bad food suppresses the immune system and then the symptoms are EVEN WORSE. I believe that EI is the reason for attention deficit disorder in children, and other misbehaviors.  I believe it is the reason for the INFINITE NUMBER OF NEW DISEASES which arise all the time. And the doctors, in general, REFUSE to address EI--in fact they deny that it even exists. Environmental illness is NOT part of their education, as is correct diet not part of their curriculum in med schools. It makes me so sad to think of the people who are MIS-ADVISED, and given more medications that do not address the correct problem, and just make them sicker. A very common symptom of EI is VERTIGO, which the physicians call "MENIER'S DISEASE".  What a tremendous joke.  They even perform "inner ear surgery" to take away the "vertigo". Brother Graham I wish you would discuss this terrible issue more.  You have spoken about the AMA at great length--but this is the BIGGEST FAKE PART OF THE AMA there ever was.   Mary Johnston, Lake Tahoe

Mary, I couldn't agree with you more.    I just answered an e-mail from a nurse who raised the same questions and gave a fairly comprehensive answer to it.   Read it and tell me what you think.    Your experience with Big Mac's is typical.    All young men in the military, way back when, knew that if you drank too much and got a hangover it helped if you "had a little of the hair of the dog that bit you".    So when they got up in the morning with a huge hangover, they drank a shot of whatever gave them the hangover and that always seemed to settle things down in their head and stomach.    Anything that you ingest that is bad for you works the same way.    If you stuff yourself with starch, you develop a craving for starch.    There are ways of detoxifying yourself, which I won't get into right now, and to break the cycle it takes a rough three days of abstaining from what is hurting you.    Use a substitute to eat.    Mixed nuts (no peanuts) does it for me.    They are nothing but fat and fiber w/no bad carbs.    Right now I am eating only the Walker shakes and nuts and am steadily losing weight.    I have only twenty pounds to go.    You can do it too. 

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Hello Brother Graham.  I have a son in prison for murder.  He was only 15 when it happened, he was part of a gang.  I am a churchgoer and this is extremely hard on my physically as I went into depression and was put on anti-depressants and valium also for my nerves.  My friends and neighbors rejected me for the association, afraid of my son.  I have no friends left and even my family blames me for the whole situation.  I visit my son in the penetentiary and he is filled with black and blue tattoos and he has a shaved head.  I am so ashamed for him, but he is still my young child.  It seemed like only yesterday he was a baby.  I want to die.  Can you lead me to the Lord, can you pray for me.  U. H. CA

 

U.H., here is the simplest description for God's salvation through Jesus that I know of:

 

Luke 23: 39-43  "Then one of the criminals hanging there began to yell insults at Him: Aren't you the Messiah?   Save yourself and us.    But the other answered, rebuking him:  Don't you even fear God, since you are undergoing the same punishment?    We are punished justly, because we're getting back what we deserve for the things we did, but this man has done nothing wrong.   Then he said 'Jesus, remember me when You come into Your kingdom.'    And He said to him, 'I assure you:Today you will be with Me in paradise.'"    There you have it:   One man hanging on a cross beside Jesus who proclaimed his faith in Jesus, as God's Son, asking Jesus to just remember him in His kingdom.    You can have the same assurance that Jesus gave that criminal hanging on a cross beside Him.    Confess that you are a sinner, deserving of death, just like that criminal.    Ask Jesus to save you, believing in His power to do so, just like that criminal did.    If you are truly sincere, God's Spirit will enter into your heart and you will become one of God's cherished children through the power of the blood that Jesus shed for you.    It's not complicated.    It doesn't involve "communion", going to church, belonging to a certain church organization or anything else.    God has provided us with a "one salvation fits all".    There aren't many different ways of pleasing God and getting to heaven, only one.    John 14: 6   " Jesus said, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life.  No one comes to the father except through me'"    That excludes all of the other man-conceived wierd notions of how to get to heaven.    It's your decision to make, and if you sincerely believe in Jesus, God will be right there, inside your heart for the rest of your life and eternity

 

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Congrats on this even MORE  FABULOUS website.  It's the best, luv the music.   If only the world would listen to Karen Kellock.   I am a proud ana and and bone thin and of course attacked by everyone I know.  But I am healthy and lift weights and walk long distances.  I also ride a bike (does Karen wear the bike jerseys I sent?  I work in a bike shop).  Thanks to Karen Kellock I went from an anorexic clinic to FREEDOM in all ways.  Now I even have a boyfriend and he LOVES my look.  KK's diet was all it took.  And Brother Graham I agree with the bible about gays--it IS sickening.  They have feces and urine in their mouths, sorry to be graphic.  Suzi-Ana, Lousiana

 

Suzi-Ana, yes Karen looks very nice in the bike jerseys you sent.    I also absolutely love the way Karen looks; thin but not sick, with good muscle tone and a great tan.    It does add a lot of spice to our fabulous married life too.

 

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Hello Mr. Graham.  I did NOT dare to discipline when they were small and now they are driving me crazy.  I have four kids.  The one boy 12 has a nose ring, tattoos, and porn in his room.  The girl 14 has a lesbian girlfriend and I caught them smooching in bed.  The other boy 16 is the messiest person you ever saw, leaving his clothes laying all around the house.  The girl 18 is in college and FAT AS SHE CAN BE  and as much as I tell her about this diet she refuses to listen.  Now, Brother I know what you are going to say--I shoulda done it when I could, when they were little.  But isn't there a way out for us idiots who dared NOT to discipline?  John H. Boston

 

John, how do you fix consequences?    I understand, if you spanked your kids when they were small, you were a "child abuser" and social services would come and take away your kids.    Three of your four kids are still minors and you could still go to jail for laying a hand on them.    They have you totally over a barrel and know it.    That you love them and want good things for them in their lives is something they ignore because it flies in the face of their perceived self-interest.    Now that you are in this mess where are all of the "child-raising gurus"?    What does their wisdom tell you now?    It doesn't matter because they were wrong back then and they are definitely wrong now.    "Tolerance & Preference" are labels for the pure evil that has infested our school systems.    Maybe you should consider "running away from home"?    The only hope you have is to become a total tyrant in your home and enforce your rules and standards.    If parents can legally force their anorexic children into treatment in a hospital, then you should also have the authority to tell your "minor children" that no porn, tattoos, nose rings, immoral homosexual conduct, sloth, and unclean rooms are allowed in the home under your authority.    If social services shows up to take your kids, let them.    Let them make that choice.    Shape up or ship out.    You do not have to be tolerant in your own home.

 

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My sister and my brother both are gay.  My mother says it is ok, that we should be tolerant. I joined Calvary Chapel where I live and I know it is NOT OK.  I know they are going to hell.  I moved out of the house and am living with a friend.  I feel all alone because my friend is a messer and junkard.  I wish I could live like Karen but I am in the middle of shit.  I can't afford to buy fauna or fruit I have to live on hand-outs, like macaroni and pasta and bread.  I am getting fatter.  There seems to be no answer.  Nancy, Indio CA

 

Nancy, One more time, if you are physically fit, the U.S.Air Force is a great place to escape to.    You'll learn new skills, meet new friends, and get out of your rut.    You won't be alone and you can eat what you choose to.    When you are going through the serving lines you take what is good for you and leave the starches.    That's my answer.

 

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I enjoyed the new pages on fauna fasting and that is what I choose to do.  I really have always loved meat and (starch-free) gravy the most anyway.  I thought we were told it was bad, filled with fat.  This is very relieving information and I thank you for it.  I can't believe it.  And Karen is up on fruit, but she says to wait until your thin to add it.  I will remember that.  I have no boyfriend right now, because I guess I'm too fat.  I weigh 230 pounds and am 5' 7".  How much should I weigh for that height?  Lucille H. New Hampshire

 

Lucille, you're headed in the right direction.    Look up the height to weight charts on google and press on.    Good luck.

 

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My dad is a son of a bitch that I can't stand.  He is always angry and he beats my mother.  He makes her fix him dinner then he doesn't arrive to eat it.  One time she gave him dinner and he tipped over the whole table.  He is cruel like that.  One time I made a miniature boat that took me three months, and he broke it to pieces.  We hate him.  I dream of one day killing him.  I want to kill him.  What do you think I should do. Roger H.

 

Roger, do a word search on this page--there's your answer

 

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Just FYI I went to the library to go to the Karen Kellock site, and it was locked.  They won't let me see it just like they lock out porn sites.  So I came to my friends home.  I thought you should know.  I asked the librarian and she said it was pro-ana site.  Jeremy H.

 

The library is wrong.    This is not a pro-ana site.

 

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Well, it's hard for me to believe half the crazy questions I've read on this page.  I simply cannot believe people could be this sick. Why haven't I heard of this before?   R. H.

 

R.H., the "crazy questions" you are referring to are a people asking for help.    They are too close to their problems to clearly see any good solutions.    Some of them know very well what the solutions are but just need someone to confirm it.    When people are hurting someone needs to show them what some of God's options are.

 

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WE appreciate your answers Brother Graham, but do you realize this was a pro-ana site?  Lately we have been discussing Karen Kellock, the great Karen Kellock, in our ana lists.  WHY DOESN'T SHE DISCUSS THIS ANYMORE.  The articles on your "works" page were written ten years ago, for God's sake--where are her new ideas?  Karen are you still thin?  We want to know what you have to say for you are the ONLY PRO-ANA PERSON left on the web.  Please, Karen, speak to your lost community for we have ALL been banned from the net.  Your admirers, ANAS ALL OVER THE WORLD.

 

Sorry ANA's, Karen is still thin but is not so stupid that she resorts to bulimia and starvation to stay that way.    Proper dieting and exercising is the "only" way to go.

 

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I am a member of many discussion groups and this page has been brought up repeatedly.  You have been flattered but also criticized for being too condemning.  You are very opinionated.  I just thought you should know.  S. H. Nebraska

 

S. H., anyone who takes a stand , and expresses an opinion, on anything will be both flattered by those who agree, and condemned by those who disagree.    The liberal solution to this dilemma is to "don't take a stand on anything", and there will be no consequences to deal with.    That's the "wonderful" thing about "tolerance".

 

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I heard of this website answer column on TBN and I congratulate that someone is finally speaking the truth without a bunch of window dressing or smiles.  The bible is the bible and it states the UGLY TRUTH.  Not "give me money".  That is not what this is about--I think you as a couple are truly doing God's work and you HATE Sodom and Gomorrah.  Please speak more about this before our beloved culture falls apart completely.  I advise you to record your discussions between yourselves and put it on u-tube.  Thanks alot and keep up the good work.  SAlly and Ed S. Texas

 

Sally & Ed, "our beloved culture" has fallen too far and it is my personal belief that there will be no acceptable recovery before we descend into Martial Law within the next few years.    Read some of the essays I've written on this web-site.    The dissolution of our culture is on-schedule with the other avenues of attack against our country.    I am not normally a "gloom & doomer", but will nevertheless report what I see and understand.    You can consider this to be confirmed if, and when, this web-site is shut down.

 

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Brother Graham it seems like people are so cruel and unfriendly.  I am saddened all the time and so I   take drugs.  I like taking drugs, because it puts me in my "own" reality.  I need escape from the crudity of this generation.  I love Karen's five books because she explains all this.  She explains the cruelty of what she went through with people for the first 50 years of her life.  I love her for this, she is the "mother of us all".  Not only us Anas, but many many young people praise her because she does not mince words about this shit.  What do you think of this--you seem nice, but people are cruel and you don't talk much about this.  I thank you for your answer.  Sally H. Pacific Beach

 

Sally, today I have made my opinions very clear as to my attitudes toward ANA's.    As far as drugs are concerned, I always prefer a "clear day" instead of a "foggy day".    My reality includes responding to many, many people and I can't give them less than my best, so I can't afford to try and relate to any reality other than the one most of us remain in.    I wish you well.

 

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Hello Brother Graham, and thank you for your answers to these questions.  I want to tell you in my own defense that I brought up my two boys right, feeding them correctly with meat, potatoes vegetables and salad.  But in school they have been led to believe that "fat is in" and they eat out at fast food restaurants.  They eat junk food between meals, and candy-bars.  They have become disgustingly fat.  They are 17 and 19 but are too fat to learn how to work, earn a living and move the hell out of our sight.  They are incapable of living on their own, being this self-indulgent.  I can't do anything because the schools give them starchy diet AND they even have CANDY BAR MACHINES ON THE CAMPUS.  I am so mad about this.  They won't listen about the karen kellock diet.  Please help us.  Cathy and Larry H. Michigan

 

Cathy & Larry, Eating fat and meat "is in" if anybody wants to lose weight.     Starchy carbohydrates and sugar (also a carbohydrate) is what puts the pork on people.    Look up some web-sites on obesity and you will see that obese people are risking early dementia from loss of brain tissue.    The psychology of it is that overweight people are very social creatures.    They love to sit around together and stuff their faces.    They are self-reinforcing.    They have become a large segment of our society and therefore reinforce the idea that "fat is beautiful".    At the other end of the spectrum, thin people are normally not very social and are embarrassed to be around people who are obviously abusing their bodies by overeating.    You two know what is right and good for your boys but are only two against the whole school system of America.    The problems with your boys are but the outward personal consequences of a nationwide problem.    I can't fix the nation, but I would recommend that you give your boys an ultimatum that they either lose weight and get a job to support themselves, or out they go.    You are being forced to cope with the consequences of screwy liberal policies, so it's only fair that you generate some consequences that the other victims (your boys) of these policies can cope with.    It's a matter of "who blinks first".    Tough love is tough on everyone.

 

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Karen, you were mentioned on a pro-ana list, and then we were banned from yahoo.   There were other lists and they were also banned (yesterday and last night.).  Then when we called they said they were taking actions to ban your website entirely due to "gay-bashing" and "pro-ana encouragements".  Just thought you should know--you should expect to be taken off any minute.  YOur friend Jack H. Detroit

 

Jack, we do not belong on the "pro-ANA" list.    We are vehemently opposed to any practice that harms people.    Becoming less fat is a good goal to have.    Killing yourself by doing stupid things like puking and starvation is just plain stupid.

 

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Are you aware that TWO MODELS in Brazil have died from Anorexia?  Are you aware that you are the only pro-ana site that has not been banned?  Are you aware that you will now be targeted by our parent groups?  You have not mentioned anorexia in FIVE YEARS but now you are bringing in up again.  Please advise we will NOT STOP until you stop encouraging the death of young girls.  Signed, Mothers Against Anorexia

 

Dear Moms Against, I agree with you 100%.   Bulimia and self-starvation is wrong, wrong, WRONG.    WE are not a pro-ANA web-site.    Karen has written books and promoted diets that do not endanger lives.    Bulimia and self-starvation is a short-cut for the lazy to become and remain thin without doing the work of proper dietary discipline and exercise.    It is an extremely dangerous and stupid thing for anyone to do.    I promote your cause and agree with your goals.    Many ANA's identify with Karen because they see a thin woman in good health and assume that she is the same as they with their dangerous and unhealthy practices.    That is not true.    The goal of becoming slender/thin is not a crime, but damaging your body in the process is, not only a crime, but plain stupid.

 

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GO GIRL.   GOD BLESS YOU FOR STATING THE FACTS AGAIN.  I READ ALL YOUR BOOKS AND FINALLY  YOU HAVE COME BACK TO REALITY.  PLEASE BECOME YOUR OLD SELF AGAIN AND POST YOUR GORGEOUS PIC ON THE WEB SO WE CAN SEE THE QUEEN OF LEAN.  Thinspiration, Ana-Lites and Lovers of KK

 

Again, go to http://www.karenkellock.org/ and read the new stuff.

 

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I have been on the walker and supershake diet.  I am still hungry after one month.  I can't take enough of it.  And cheese isn't working.  I want to know what to do.  I am worried about too low of a weight.  Please advise.  Larry Kingston, Michigan

 

Larry, go to http://www.karenkellock.org/ and check out the new pages.    You need animal protein once in a while.    Eat a piece of chicken or two and the hunger will go away.    It worked for Karen and it'll work for you.

 

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Congratulations to the HIGH-FAT SKINNY DIET website.  I have lived on GREASY FRIED CHICKEN AND DOUGHLESS PIZZA for two years, along with greasy cheese omelets and greasy sausages (YUM) and all the other greasy things I want, but no starch, and I have lost 120 pounds in these two years.   I will soon send you before and after pictures.  I have recently added fruit to my diet and I am really becoming quite good looking.  Thank you for saving my life.  Carlos Stinava, your friend forever, Caio, Palermo (remember when I called you two years ago and you were so gracious?  thanks forever).

 

Carlos, how can anyone argue with success?    You're too late in sending pictures of your present handsome self.    She is safely married to me for life and we will always be true and faithful to each other.    That is the way God intended us to be.

 

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Why does Karen Kellock have so many names?  I have heard that she is really Italian, and she seems so on her "exotic clothes" page.  She has so many talents (was she really a solo trumpet player in the San Diego Symphony at age 17?).   I heard a solo trumpet recording that was on the internet that her old beau put on, from 1976.  I am amazed at her talents as I have her five books which she illustrated.  I hope you take care of her.  Can you tell me when she will be seen on TV, as most TV is crap and dirt.  I need to hear the truth for a change.  Sally S. New Hampshire

 

Sally, It is my joy and pleasure that Karen and I take care of each other.    The TV wizards have yet to show any interest in us even though we are one of the largest web-sites on one of the largest servers in the world.    Also, I'm not so sure that TV is the right venue for us.    I really prize the daily two-way communication between us and don't think becoming just another "talking head" on TV would please anybody.    I like discussing things with you guys.

 

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Brother Graham.  I saw only two notices here on mature anorexia, called ANA.  We need to bring this back to the internet.  Please post video of Karen Kellock on u tube and discuss ANA.  The world is too fat.  Larry H. Texas

 

Larry, I am opposed to anorexia in any way, shape, or form (mature or not).    Karen's book "Champion Guides", chapter 7 "The Logic of Anorexia" describes many advantages to her definition of the "pure anorexic", which does not include being "BULIMIC" and does not promote "SELF-STARVATION".    The commonly understood definition of "anorexia" is mostly "bulimic and self-starvation".    There are other symptoms (being a loner and dislike watching the "family" overeat), but none of them are life-threatening and are a matter of "preference".    Bulimia and self-starvation are "short-cuts" that the lazy, would-be, anorexic takes to lose weight.    They are too lazy to accomplish becoming slender/thin through proper dieting and exercise.    The "easy way" in this case is the "deadly way" and that is why I am opposed to anorexia, as commonly understood by the general public.

 

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We have been receiving many complaints about your website pages which encourage anorexia (which is lethal) and also condemnation of gays.  We encourage you to tone this down or  we will be forced to take you off of our  list of customers.  We have no other choice.  We would appreciate your call about this matter.  We have not chosen any course as yet,  and if you keep the problem page as is we will call the case closed.  But if you add, you will have to accept the course we take which is still up to discussion.

 

Server,    I just answered an E-mail in which I condemned anorexia in any form, before I read this (your) e-mail.    I, personally, do not condemn gays/lesbians/homosexuals.    God's Word does.    I just pass along what I find in the Bible and the statistics, and other data, anyone can access through Google.    I understand the popular concept of "PEACE AT ANY COST" and that you would like to stop getting so many complaints from the homo-lobby.    Christians far outnumber the homosexuals in this country, although they aren't near as noisy about it.    "They" want us to be tolerant of their point of view and lifestyle but will not tolerate any opposition or different point of view/lifestyle.    Don't Christians have a right to express their "preference", even if it is in opposition to liberal "wisdom"?    The word "preference" expresses the "right to choose between one thing or the other".    Forcing someone to not oppose something they don't believe in is "intolerance".    I am not in the business of "Gay-Bashing" but I have no problem with pointing out the error of their ways according to God's Word.    How is "Christian-Bashing" OK but disagreeing with the homo-community wrong?    The questions that I daily answer are from many families that are being destroyed by the conflict that the liberal community is forcing on families by taking away the authority and credibility of parents and transferring it to school authorities.    Our society is under attack; our families are under attack by the proliferation of pornography which is, in large part, propagated and encouraged by the "Gay" community.    Don't these people have the right to be heard?    As family life degenerates into a daily battle between parents who love their children, and the children who are told in school that "everything is allowed", our country keeps falling toward social chaos.    I would love to have an educated "Gay" or "Lesbian" person, or persons, intelligently respond and give me viable reasons why the responses that I write are fundamentally wrong (So far, all I get is "hate-mail" with no logic or reasoning behind it.).    Wouldn't that be a lot better instead of their hassling you, this web-site's server?    Isn't "tolerance" supposed to be a "two-way street"?    In the future I will not use sarcasm or any type of name-calling when I respond to questions concerning homosexuality but I will continue to "oppose" them, not "condemn" them.    Also, does not "freedom of speech" include the Internet?    I don't see where "servers" are responsible for the content their customers put on the Internet, or else there wouldn't be any porn on the Internet.  Is what I write, worse than porn and deserves to be eliminated?    I pray that my God will lead you to make a good decision about this that is in the best interests of our country, instead of a noisy minority.

 

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DON'T YOU REALIZE THAT ANAS RULE?  WHAT HAS HAPPENED TO KAREN KELLOCK?  WE ARE TALKING ABOUT THIS ON OUR LIST--SHE DISAPPEARED AS WELL AS ALL OTHER PRO-ANA SITES.  WAS SHE TOLD TO SHUT UP ABOUT ANA?  WITH ALL THE OBESITY AROUND, WHY AREN'T WE TALKING ABOUT ANA, THE ONLY ISSUE.  WE LOVE BEING ANA.  PLEASE HUSBAND TALK ABOUT ANA.  WE LOVE ANA.  ANALITE KANSAS

 

Analite, I'm sorry but I must disagree with you.    "ANA" is a buzzword acronym that describes too many young girls who literally starved themselves to death.    Another buzzword is "fasting".    It is grossly misused in the ANA context.    Read Q57 for the real definition and purpose for fasting.    One thing we probably agree on is that obesity is a greater threat to our country than ANA ever was.    Recently, Australia passed the United States as the most obese country in the world.    "What an honor for Australia."    During the worst of the valid ANA scare, the AMA took a stance against ANA.    They are supposedly the experts on "health issues" so what they pronounce as wisdom is supposed to be accepted as "gospel" for the world.    I agree with the AMA on the ANA issue but, why have they led us to be the second most obese country of the world.    And now obesity has taken on a life of its own because, in this country, the majority rules.    Fashion shows highlight the "heavies", homosexual fat girls are definitely "in", Fat "bears" are glamorized.    So if a large portion of our population is grossly overweight, they have the numbers to force acceptance and enforce what was considered "bad & unhealthy" before as "good & glamorous" now.    Overweight people get the worst medical treatment because many of the procedures that doctors have always used during a physical examination simply don't work because of the layers of fat that are in between the skin and the organs the  doctor is trying to externally examine.    What is an example of that?    How about a hernia?    On many hernias you can see the bump in the skin where the intestine is coming through the muscle mass.    In obese people, you won't see a thing.    I used to manage some apartments and one of the tenants was rushed to the hospital; the husband was freaking out because his wife suddenly started leaking water.    You guessed it.    She was so overweight, neither one of them knew she was pregnant.    "Surprise."    Is this a good, healthy thing?    I think not.    The vast majority of diets depend on minimizing (but still eating) starches (bad carbohydrates) and ever more bizarre ways of exercising.    I guess that they all work to some extent for some people, but most of them are flawed.    Your body needs (good) carbohydrates, protein, and fat.    If you do away with any of those, it is not healthy.    Go to: http://www.karenkellock.org/ and click on "Fauna Fasting" and "This is not a pro-ana site but..."    "Fasting" as used in this context, means a finite period of not eating - not open-ended starvation.    You need fat to burn fat.    (This is not an AMA approved dieting theory because it does not lead to obesity. They are pro-starch and low/anti-fat)    This is science, not personal opinion or the fantasy of a deranged anorexic.    I very much sympathize with the parents and loved ones of these young people they watch literally starving themselves to death.    That's why the anti-ANA group is so against some of these wierd theories out there.    Karen's dieting theories do not lead to starvation and death.    They will take the pounds off of obese people without them unduly suffering and will provide slender/ thin people with a healthy means of keeping the weight off but still maintain good muscle tone.    "IT WORKS".    I am personnally against anything that hurts people physically, mentally, or spiritually.

 

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You mentioned the "bears" and my ex-husband is a bear, having sex with other hairy fat men and he thinks he is so superior.  It is insane and he is gaining weight and  gaining hair all to fit in to this sickening community of idiots.  They  have camping trips and the like.  I'd like get more money from him and tell the judge about him.  I need advice about this.  We have four kids who are equally disgusted but two are talking about going  gay.  I want your advice.  Caren H. Maine

 

Caren, read Q150 and go to the links there.    With four children, your husband is probably approaching age 42, the median age of death for homosexual men.    Median means half of all homosexuals die before the age of 42, and for the ones with aids it's 39.    Show these links to your kids and tell them that their dad probably won't be around much longer.    If common sense and God's Word doesn't work, try fear.

 

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There's alot of good information on this HUGE site, and I LOVE LOVE LOVE the music.  Where did you ever find this vibrant exciting sound?  I have never heard it it is not part of "popular" culture but it makes this site really appealing.  What is particularly interesting is that it sounds like "hip" music but then in the church site it's quite a shock to see you are Puritans.  I really like the idea of returning to the original thoughts that shaped our constitution.  This is great.  You know, unless one reads this, he is likely to think business is going on as usual, everything is fine--but on closer observation everything is NOT fine and we're in deep trouble.  Do you really think it will cause martial law?  If people are really acting this way, as the questions reveal, it won't be long until everyone is in prison.  And the government is really part of this whole scene?  Please explain.  Roger H. San Bernadino

 

To the Real Roger of Berdoo, yes things are definitely heating up.    Here are the facts that confirms the diabolical plot to end the greatest country in the world since King Solomon's time:    1.  It started with the Congress in session when Abraham Lincoln was assassinated.    The war ended in 1865 and amnesty was granted to all but the so-called ring-leaders of the civil war.   Two years later the Congress declared a new war against the South.    That war has lasted until this day.    The actions they took against the South still applies to all of America to this day.    The judicial branch of government was placed under the executive, the President, instead of the Supreme Court, and many other changes were made that still exist today.    They basically created new ways to get around our Constitution and they are still in effect.    2.  Secret Societies are as old as America itself.    Their goals could only be guessed until recently.    They are strictly ruled by men only; rich powerful men (gay?).    One of our better presidents recognized their danger to our society and publicly proclaimed that he was going to take action to expose them and their goals that were not in the best interests for our country.    Not too long after that he was assassinated.    That was JFK .    3.  Starting in 1912, these secret societies started to take over the American banking system.    They succeeded superbly.    Our dollar is now printing press money with no real backing like gold and silver.    Our privately owned monopoly money is on its way down in value and has a long way to go.    4. Over the last couple of decades it has been government policy to allow the influx of 11 to 12 million Mexicans into our country.    Remember the biblical account of the "tower of Babel" where all of a sudden everyone spoke a different language.    It brought total dissolution to the culture and scattered the population.    "United we stand, Divided we fall".    We are purposefully being divided as a nation.    First with the black population; In their drive for "integration" the liberals have achieved cultural segregation and the total dissolution of black families into generations of "welfare moms".    70% of black families don't have a man in the house.    Now it is an attack on our language.    We have millions of people that don't speak English.    The tower of Babel is on the way again.    5.  There really is a planetary body the size of Jupiter that is most likely going to come inside the orbits of our outer planets.    This is the real reason for global warming and Al Gore knows this and is taking advantage of it for political purposes when the world should be preparing for what is going to happen; More natural disasters, huge earthquakes, great human suffering and devastation, and the emergence of all the human predators that take advantage of situations like this, like the secret societies.    6.  When you are determined to tear down a culture so you can remold it into something more controllable, the most fundamental building block of society is the family.    So homosexuality is promoted and glamorized, and you get control of the power that controls the school systems, then you encourage promiscuity and preach "Tolerance" and "preference" which effectively undermines parental authority.    The ethics and morals that parents teach their children are nullified because the parents find themselves in the minority within their children's lives.    The children think their parents are out of sync with the reality of society in school and dismiss their teaching, especially Christian views.    7.  Meanwhile the Muslim crazies are plotting and planning to blow up at least one of our cities in their "holy war" against the main corrupt society which is us.    The problem is; We are so busy making their claims against us true.    Muslims are very family oriented and true to their religion.    They see our acceptance of homosexuality as proof of the depravity of our culture and they firmly believe that it (we) should be wiped off the face of the earth.    Considering the constant attacks our school children have to face with this "New Tolerance" garbage, can we truly say that the Muslims are wrong?    Normal, God fearing people in our country have become the small minority and have totally lost control of our society, and what is replacing it can only lead to anarchy and "Martial Law".    That has been the plan of the "secret societies" all along.    8.  With foreknowledge of the increasing natural disasters that will peak in about five years, the government has been busily preparing for the eventual military take-over of our country.    In large cities, police departments are conducting exercises they are told are for future "food riots".    They have been conducting raids for years combining just a few members of different departments together.    No warrants, no affidavit of complaint, no nothing but brute force and guns.    Any complaints from the victims are met with universal indifference from all departments.    Even if just one or two officers involved in these raids realize that what they are doing is fundamentally illegal, they are in the minority with the herd of thugs and keep their mouths shut.    The twelve regional headquarters have been built, the three hundred or so smaller military bases should be finished or close to completion, alliances with other countries to provide additional troops if necessary have been finalized, the best of our military have been successfully diverted to bases all over the world.    Homeland Security continues to be built up in manpower and training and should easily overcome any local opposition to Martial Law, even if it's a military base with weapons.    The preparation and planning for this has been meticulous and thorough and will succeed.

 

Meanwhile, football season is coming up and millions of the herd will be glued to the boob-tube WHILE THE END OF OUR CULTURE IS FAST APPROACHING.    Of course, that is according to the plan.    Success is assured if the population is taken by total surprise.    So.    Roger and all you Internet fans, print this e-mail out or forward it to your local radio station, TV station, politicians, pastors, etc. and ask them to prove all of this to be wrong.    We would all love to know that this is not going to happen. 

 

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I am gay and I was directed to this website.  I love being gay, and being part of the gay community.  I already know what you think about it.  I will say that I get hurt by men, just as women do.  I fall deeply in love, as a woman does, and get hurt the same way.  Most gay men are interested in "variety" and keep moving,and when I fall in love it really bugs them.  What should I do?  Trend Y. Miami

 

When any new social evolution occurs, the new group inevitably wants to mimic the old group in order to give the appearance of normalcy and therefore be accepted in society.    They want to hold on to the new but give the appearance of the old ways.    This is what is happening in many states where the homo-community is fighting for recognition by being legally allowed to get a marriage license and "marry".    "Normal" in this case is where a man and a woman get married, establish a home and have children (old group).    The homo-community wants to mimic this in order to give the appearance of "normalcy" and thereby gain acceptance within the community.    So after they "get the license" and "get married", the plan breaks down because they can't establish a home in which to have and raise children.    By your own admission "most gay men are interested in 'variety' and keep moving".    This is normal to the homo-community in general and does not lend itself to the "home and family" concept.    When you say that "you fall deeply in love", you are expressing a normal man's desire for love/home/family.    You won't find that in the gay community.    It is not natural to them.    It is all about promiscuous sex with no permanence, no true home, and certainly no extended family.    The homo-couples that manage to acquire children through artificial means or adoption are not doing the children any favor.    You profess to believe in tolerance and preference.    Do you think that these children will truly have a choice as to what they prefer or will tolerate when they become adults?    How many of them will be taken to church and taught about God's love for us?    The men you "fall in love with" are bothered by your attitude because they instinctively know that any kind of permanence in a homo-relationship is most likely doomed to failure.     They are only interested in your body, and how well you can perform for them, not your heart.    You are involved in a social experiment that is doomed from the beginning.    Homosexuality is very old in history but has never succeeded is establishing itself as a long-lasting political entity.    It usually flourishes at the end of successful empires/societies.    That's where we're at today. 

 

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I want to thank you for bringing this stuff out like you have.  You are saying the truth--the Lou Dobbs et. als. of the tv world are only giving us half-truths.  why is this?  Also he does not talk about homos.  Ok, this is a Christian site.  I like what you say and wish you could go on TV and tell everyone.  What Pat Robertson says is good too--but you say more.  Can you say some more about how it all ties together--obesity, gays, etc. This is truly unbelievable.  And  we can't even trust the doctors?  How are they involved with the government?  Mrs. H. Halstead, Pacifica

 

Mrs. H.,  The only media outlet not dominated by liberals is Talk-Radio.    Nancy Pelosi and others of her ilk are busy trying to legislate them off of the airwaves.    They hate opposing voices being heard.    They pay lip-service to democracy, but what they are working towards is an absolute monopoly where dissenting voices are not heard at all.    They are doing this by painting their opposition as radicals and are busy trying to shove all of Christianity into that category.    Unfortunately, they are makeing some headway in that direction.    I recently wrote an e-mail answer that ties everything together.     As far as the AMA and doctors are concerned,    The AMA has an absolute lock on the medical profession.    A monopoly of any kind is not good in a free society.    Dissent is not allowed.    Trying other ways of healing is locked out of any possibility of insurance coverage    The AMA has a stranglehold on the practice of medicine in this country and that's not going to change.    It's too late to even try.    Time and time again I have read about cures that have been suppressed because it came from a natural plant source and a patent couldn't be had on it.    Then they spend millions of dollars trying to manufacture an artificial way of producing the same results so they can patent the process and make back their millions +.    Some doctors are very conscientious and caring of their patients, but all of them are in it for the money.    Make sure you understand what they are doing to (for?) you.

 

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My mother is a lesbian and a hardnosed feminist.  She thinks this is a "good" thing--what a laugh.  She makes me sick.  She dresses in black boots, short lesbian hair, and has a manly air about her.  Brother Graham, years back when I was a boy she was feminine, and loved my father.  But when feminism hit, everything changed and what she calls "liberated" is just being a total bitch.  I do NOT respect her anymore and I do NOT like it when she brings her "girlfriends" by--it makes me so sick.  I hate her for doing this to our family.  If I dare say one thing against it, she acts like I'm putting down God or something.  I want to disown my own mother.  Henry K.

 

Henry,  as a young man you need to take all of this in.    You have already made some comparisons of how your life used to be and how it is now.     You see yourself that the feminist ideals which promotes homosexuality has contributed to the unhappiness in your life.    To quote the words of Jesus in Matthew 7:17&20  "- - every good tree produces good fruit, but a bad tree produces bad fruit. - - So you'll recognize them by their fruit."    The fruit that your mother's choices have produced is your unhappiness and sterile relationships with other women.    Many other people are making these kinds of comparisons also and clearly see that what our society is teaching in place of the traditional personal warmth of a home and family with a mother & father with their children, is wrong.    God created us male and female for the purpose of procreation.     He instituted the covenant of marriage to personally witness the joining of a man and woman commiting themselves to each other for life in wedlock.    The government has wrongly assumed that only the government can grant permission to marry and divorce.    Because of this marriage has become of little value or use in our society.    Matthew 19:6  "- - - what God has joined together, man must not seperate."    In our society man/government joins and seperates for a fee, without any regard for God.    Proverbs 21:30  "No wisdom, no understanding, and no councel will prevail against the Lord (God).    That is why marriage, as a traditional Christian/American institution is failing all around us.    What man joins together in his arrogance does not last.    We will all pay the price for that in the next few years.    Henry, what can I tell you?    Hopefully, one of these days, you will have a sweet wife and have children.   Learn from your mother's mistakes.    Give your children the family life that was taken from you.    Like I advise other young people;  when you are old enough and have finished High School, join the Air Force and establish your own life.    It is a great place to take fresh breath and see what other ambitious young people are going to do with their lives.    It is not the horrid group of killers that liberals want you to believe.    As you serve your country for four years, you will get back far more than what you give.    Another bonus to being in the military is you will find very few liberals.    When somebody absolutely refuses to acknowledge and cope with reality and truth, the military is the last place they want to be.    Good luck.

 

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I am 14 years old and in ninth grade.  I was brought up as a Christian, and I was taught about Sodom and Gomorrah and how we are not to be homosexual.  I was taught it was a sin.  Well now my church doesn't talk like this, they accept homos.  And I know this is not true.  In school, I am told to accept them and it makes me sick.  They say I am a bigot.  Now the other girls are being bully with me.  That is so hard to take,  and the boys too.  It is sickening to me.  What can I do.  Sally H.

 

 

Sally, when the early Christians were growing in numbers in the Roman world, they had to hide any affiliation or contact with other Christians.    The ones that were caught were fed to lions and tigers in a big arena for entertainment for the heathen people of the city of Rome.    Many thousands of Christians died.    Now we are entering into another period of history where again Christians are starting to be persecuted for their beliefs in God and His Son Jesus.    The people who are promoting and allowing this to happen are modern-day heathens.    They do not acknowledge or fear God.    They have no clue as to the terrible personal consequences they will have to face one of these days.    Sally, hold fast to your personal beliefs in our God.    As bad as it might get we have God's promise that it will never be more than we can bear.    Like the early Christians, you must not confront the heathens around you, for your own safety.    Until you get out of High School, hang out with people who believe as you do and avoid confrontations.    Many of the heathen around you are not very rational or even sane.    You cannot reason with them using facts and logic.    All they want to do is wallow in their sin and force those around them to participate in their sickness.    The fact that you have Christian ethics condemns their actions.    That's why they give you a hard time.    When they come at you, turn the issue around.    They want you to respect their "preference" and be "tolerant".    Ask them if they respect your preference and are they willing to be tolerant of your preference?    They will have to say "YES" but they will think "NO".    Like I said, many of them are not rational or, for that matter, not very smart.

 

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