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To all my newfound friends (& detractors) that visit this web-site. I'm going to phase down this portion of "Questions", not eliminate. We have all gotten a rare glimpse into the reality of American homes. People are hurting and and confused . The happy homes they remember in their childhood are not being repeated in the homes of today because the school systems are competing with the parents for authority and winning.    The standards of an earlier generation, that worked so well, is now replaced with "Tolerance" and "Preference".    Parents must tolerate the preference of their children for homosexuality, promiscuousness, pornography, freak-show tattoos, and other abominations that are promoted and applauded in their schools.    Children are taught that they don't have to tolerate anything from their parents, and that anything the parents disagree to is because they're bigots and narrow-minded.    The dissolution of the American family is well underway.    This is happening because special interest minority groups have seized the reigns of power that directs the policies of our school systems and, as we have seen on this web-site, the results are horrible.  The end of the traditional family in America is easily predictable.    All of this happening  against the will and wisdom of the majority of Americans.    Our Republic, Democracy, the Constitution, our way of life, have all been subverted and suppressed so that our school children can become the guinea pigs in a extreme right-wing liberal experiment. I see no point in further belaboring this issue.    For too many children, we have already lost this fight.

 

As far as fat/obese people are concerned the drug industry giants have a tight interrelated relationship with the American Medical Association (AMA).    The power that the AMA wields is tremendous, much greater than many government departments.    The tentacles of their influence reach into every corner of our country.    So why do they "covertly" promote "fatness & obesity"?    Fat people are prone to get sick more often with heart disease, strokes, high blood pressure, early dementia, diabetes, arthritis, back problems, breathing problems, constipation and colon problems, depression and anger, and the problems associated with rejection and loneliness, etc., etc. and many of the drugs prescribed for these problems cause side-effects that require further drug treatments, which, in turn, might need something else to help things along and the vicious cycle continues until the American drug cartels are doing a multi-billion dollar business, and, of course, the AMA is raking in their cut of the pie.    That's why they very jealously guard their monopoly.    It's easier to get a personal visit with the Pope in Rome, than to get recognition from the AMA that Karen's diet theories are successful, as has been proven by many, many people.    Besides, if the number of obese people declined in the U.S. they stand to lose lots and lots of money.    I see no hope for change here.    The AMA is just too strong to challenge and our politicians have no clue that this (as well as the disintegration of the  American families) should be an issue in the coming election.    The following questions and answers clearly demonstrate the reality of these problems:

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I raised my son to be part of the boy scouts, we did everything for him  I took him hunting, fishing and gave him constant support when he started sports in school.  Well now he is 17 years old, and I found out he goes to male orgies in Miami.  I found out he is gay--he "announced" THIS to us, with "pride".  I felt so revolted I had to go to the bathroom and vomit.  I despised my son suddenly, and my wife cried.  We hate him, but we know this is not right.  A son of mine?  This is impossible.  We want him out of the house, immediately.  What do you say.  Ralph S, Boca Raton

Ralph, I agree wholeheartedly with you.    Your son has made a despicable choice in his life and now he must suffer the consequences.    Your choice has been to reject what he so proudly announced.    From his point of view, he is supported in his choice by those he associates with.    They are self-reinforcing in their commitment to their lustful depravity.    To me your reaction is normal (or should be normal).    He has destroyed any hope of grandchildren, a sweet daughter-in-law, and any normal relationship with him.    He has made his choice.    Now make your final choice and reject him utterly.    He has rejected your values and way of life completely so why should things be different or easier for him?    To me, what he now represents is wrong, wrong, wrong.    You don't have to put up with it in your own home.    This has all been predicted:

Luke 12:51-53 "Do you think that I came here to give peace to the earth? No, I tell you, but rather division.    From now on, five in one household will be divided: three against two, and two against three.    They will be divided, father against son, son against father, mother against daughter, daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law."    This is the division between those who hold to Christian ethics and those who choose sin and decay in their lives.    Ralph, stand your ground.    To compromise is to condone.

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Hello and I really appreciate some of these answers.  I feel at the bottom of a black smelly well.  My son is gay and my husband agrees with it wholeheartedly.  I feel like I've lost my life.  My husband even buys my son gay porn magazines, and my husband watches gay porn on his computer.  I think my husband has gone gay because we have no more sex life.  i feel like i am living with two monsters.  jenene, the forsaken

Jenene, pornography is poison for the mind and soul, as soybeans are poison for the body.    Your conclusions about your husband are probably right and you should start making preparations for the near and long-term future.    Those who "enjoy" watching porn. are just a step away from wanting to participate in it.     Opportunities for this sickness are all around us.     The homosexual route in life leads to an early death, great risk of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), and heartbreak for many.    In your family, you are the first victim.    Their turn will come.    If you suspect that your husband is already "active", do go to a doctor and get a blood test to see if you're OK, and sex with him wouldn't be smart (your husband, not the doctor).    I wish I could help you more but I don't see much of a future for you in your present situation.

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Our American lives are  gone as we knew them.  We are going down the tubes so fast it isn't funny. I am scared to death as I see arrogant Mexicans and other foreigners invade our country.  Everywhere you go, you see fat brown faces in new cars.  They are arrogant.  I see my own culture fat and horny with perverted desires.  I see the family dissolving--the faggots and feminists are so all against it.  I want to die, along with millions of aborted babies.  I wish I were dead.  I know that may seem effeminate to you, but that is what I feel.   Geo Hansel,  Irvine CA

Geo, expressing what you personally feel is never wrong.    We are all entitled to our individual opinions.    However, instead of dying, how about fighting back, starting with getting your own body in shape.    Them tell others how you did it and get their attention about soy products, the stupid high carbohydrate/low fat diet, and the fact that we wouldn't be overrun by Mexicans if our government didn't allow it.    Read the "Martial Law" essay on this site and you will see how the Mexicans fit in according to the government plan.    None of this is accidental.

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SHIT.  Soybean poisonous, and in 60% of foods?  THIS IS INCREDIBLE.  Why isn't this a well-known fact, why is it touted as good?  THIS IS INSANE.  This whole culture has gone insane to be allowing this in all the foods.  What does the FDA say?  Same old shit?  Please explain more this is unbelievable to me.  I went through my pantry and through everything away with soy--it explains my gay son, and my weight gain every year more pounds making us look doudy, like everyone else.  Jamie and Sally

 Jamie & Sally, it's all about money (period).     Secondary is the fact that the herd (that's us) is easily suckered in if you throw enough money into advertising.    Like I've mentioned before, the med-school graduates don't have to take the Hippocratic Oath anymore to "do no harm" so the soy industries can buy their "panels of medical experts" to perform "comprehensive studies" in order to proclaim the "benefits of soy" which they have paid for.    Isn't that simple?    Now, years later, the soy industry is on the defensive more and more and is spending even more money to defend their known faulty premise that "soy is good for you".    Again, go to this web-site and read all six parts:    http://www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=53327    Decide for yourself what is good and what is bad and take action accordingly.    I would also have your son to read it and patiently explain that he is on a one way road that leads to an early death (30 years on average).    You are all victims of a heartless industry and corrupt government agencies that are supposed to protect us from this kind of crap.    Worst of all is the AMA that sat by and watched us become one of the two most obese countries in the world.    That is criminal.

         

 

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KK said somewhere on this site that the soybean oil in Paul Newman Salad Dressing may have caused his death at the early age of 83 (this is early death in today's "high medical standards" apparently.  If you've survived until 65 you could go to 95 if properly fed but NOT on soybean oil, according to your words on your page).  I would appreciate you elaborating on this statement of Karen's.  Paula, NB

Paula, it's important to say; "may have" caused Paul Newman's death.    He was a very popular and a very moral person that I admired.    Keep in mind that he did have a business partner who was the one actually running the business.    Paul Newman was the face on the bottles but I doubt very much if he was the one to make major decisions on ingredients.    There is also the fact that he and his wife contributed their half of the profits to charitable organizations.    That is very admirable.    So, given all of that; Paul Newman's salad dressings did contain lots of soybean, canola, and vegetable oils.    All of them are really bad news in the human body in various ways.    I've listed many links as evidence that Soy is yuck so I'll not repeat myself there.    Canola or "Canada Oil" is derived from the rapeseed plant and was first used as a machine oil during WWII.    Rumor has it that there was some heavy-duty shenanigans involved to get it allowed into the U.S. as an import   (there are web-sites supporting this).    Food-grade canola oil stinks so bad it must be heated to over 300 degrees to deodorize it.    After that is has no food value left and, of course, the high heat makes it carcinogenic which leads to cancer.    There is also some scandal about genetically modified rapeseed being "accidentally" released into the grower's market that was not approved by the Canadian government.    They recalled what they could but things like this are never 100% contained.    Almost all vegetable oils, with the exception of coconut, palm, and olive oils are very unstable and oxidize easily (turn rancid).    You can't always smell or taste when this occurs.    Also, when you fry in the pan or deep fat fry you raise the temperature of the oil high enough that the nutritional value of the oil is destroyed or greatly diminished, and it also turns carcinogenic which, we know, leads to cancer.    I'm sure that Paul Newman and his wife, Joan Woodward, believed in the product with his name on it and used it at home.    Soy, canola, and vegetable oils along with the New Age diet high in carbohydrates and low in natural fats explains why Joan Woodward gained a lot of weight.    The pictures they showed of Paul Newman in his eighties showed that he had fantastically clear looking soft facial skin.    That can typically come from eating lots of soy products which elevates the female hormone estrogen which explains why he had the fine textured skin of a woman.    For all the worldly success that Paul Newman and his wife, Joan Woodward, had, ignorance about the things they were eating could very well have led him to die earlier than he had to.    Heated vegetable oils cause carcinogens to form, which leads to cancer, which caused Paul Newman's death.    It's too late for him; what about you?

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I think this is really great.  I would like to know more about the recipes--they seem very dense, low in water, high protein, high fat, low starch and sugar.  Using nut powders will make it  quite heavy esp with the oils, thus making them true space bars since POTENCY MEANS HIGHER QUALITY FOOD.  potency (low-water) = HQ (HIgher Quality).  This is truly  the paleo model.  Bet you can't eat very many without upset, so warning.  Tom T, Berkeley

Tom, as with any project there are a few setbacks now and then.    Yes, nut powder is 5% water but so is flour, pasta, etc.    They are high fat & fiber, and low starch & sugar.    We won't turn loose any recipes until something works very good for us.    The first batch of nut flours had some quality control problems, so this will turn out to be a long process.    Yes it is heavy so we will probably add some fruit (dryed or fresh)    My goal is to create some do-it-yourself recipes that suppresses appitite, eliminates stored fat and water, and doesn't make you feel too stuffed.    I am looking for quality Papaya powder/flour which has the highest vitamin C content of all plant foods - at least double that of citrus fruits.    The search for dietary truth goes on just like real social truth.    God's truth is the key to it all.   
 


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I have a problem I hope you can help me with.  My wife has now become a lesbian (she is 62) and wants a divorce to marry her "lover".  I can't believe it is happening to me, for I am age 66, and we have been married 40 years.  We have been happy, in love I thought.  We were Leave it to Beaver, Ozzie and Harriet, happy in the suburbs, with three kids and six grand kids.  What could possibly have happened to make her this way?  I think she is crazy to do this at this age.  It also makes me want to vomit to think that they have been having sex.  The other lady is 54.  Although I should not call her a "lady".  I knew my wife was into feminism and meetings but this is ridiculous.  I am brokenhearted because at this age I don't know how to start over, and BESIDES--where are the good women?  How can I possibly attract a woman to spend the rest of my life with, at this age? I am so despondent, esp since divorce courts favor the female.  Simon B.  Conn.

Simon, you said the right word; "crazy".    New Age Feminism is a subculture that is thriving in homes across America.    They are "multicultural" (all cultures are equal from head-hunters in Borneo to those who perform clitorectomies on their little girls in Africa, to the homosexual/feminist culture of this country), and "tolerant" (any & all personal opinion is the same as truth), and they don't need you any more.    The family has always been the fundamental social unit of most societies.    But that is changing in this, our, society.    The explosion of personal telephones in the world is bringing about changes that were impossible to foresee fifty years ago.    Now new groupings and associations are forming that are replacing the family as we used to understand that concept.    Permanent ties are becoming less appealing to people.    The homosexual lifestyle seems very exciting to many people and, obviously, your wife was sucked into this sickness.    I wonder if she knows that the avarage homosexual lives 30 years less than us straight people?    Speaking of straight people, go to a doctor and get a blood test for STD's.    You have no idea where your wife's would-be partner has been before, and disease is a very real possibility all of the time.    So, your wife has her peer group that she relies on for comfort and love and she is in contact with them all the time through her phone.    You are now an inconvenience.    The fact that she can do this to you is proof positive that she is a cold indifferent jerk who cares absolutely nothing for how you feel.    You should pray that God's Will be done in her life.    If she is living according to His Will, then your prayer is a blessing for her.    If she is not living according to God's Will, then your prayer is a curse.    Let God decide what to do with her.    Don't assume that all judges are liberal.    There are still some good ones around.    The best thing you can do is to not let it come to court at all.    Sit down with your wife and come to an agreement that is acceptable to you both.    That's a lot less hassle for everyone.    The only major things to settle is property and monthly support.    If you can agree on those things you can use one attorney to take care of the paperwork.    You would think that, because your wife is the one committing adultery with a woman instead of remaining faithful to you, you should keep the house and she should pay you monthly support.    I doubt that it will work out that way.    Don't let her get away with too much.    She is the one who is destroying your life and should be willing to bend in your favor.    If you have to slug it out in court, you will probably be sorry.    If your wife won't be reasonable, so be it.    Simon, broken hearts mend with time.    If you want to get a little real revenge, then get on Karen's diet plan and get your weight down to where you look really good.    The great majority of feminists are grossly overweight and your wife is probably no exception to that.    They are all brainwashed into eating soy products and lots of starches, which apparently makes them nuts.    If you look really good, you will more likely attract someone who could learn to love you.    You are two years younger than I am, but I was still able to attract a wonderful person like my Karen to be my wife.    Her diet works without hunger and a minimum of exercise and I am down 30 lbs and have 9 to go.    Your life is not over and the best revenge is a good life.    Be and look like a person that a good woman will find attractive.    Cut your losses and get on with your life.    Last words:  God is more likely to listen to your prayers if you belong to Him.    

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Hello Brother Graham.  Thanks for your great view on things.  I have a terrible problem.  My daughter age 30 is a lesbian and my wife is all for it.  She thinks it is great, and that my daughter is the "in crowd" doing something like this.  This has forced a division in my family that cannot be bridged.  Brother, I cannot accept this no matter what anyone says about it, and I can't understand how my wife could accept it.  We have been having awful fights and I have started drinking more.  I hate this, I hate it even more than when she was twenty and had an abortion--which my wife also accepted wholeheartedly.  In case you haven't guessed, the wife is a liberal and I am a RETIRED MILITARY SUPER-CONSERVATIVE CHRISTIAN BASED GENTLEMAN having been brought up on the "old path" upon which I shall remain.  I actually am disgusted with--I WILL SAY I HATE--my own family.  I am even more disgusted with my wife for going along with these evil liberal things, when she herself doesn't have these evil "urges" (or maybe she does?  Who knows?).  Please advise Mathew Donkette, NJ

Mathew, our world has been turned upside down in many ways.    Homosexuality is definitely one of them.    As a Christian, I have always known that this is from an individuals choice, and not the genitical no choice that they were supposedly born with.    I have believed this without exception until lately when I made the connection between the consumption of soybean based products and homosexuality.    Then I found a web-site that confirmed it and explained it a lot better than I could:

http://www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=53327    Do read all six parts of this.    It is info

on soy that everyone needs to know.    I now know that diet can have a lot to do with the choices people make in life.    Men and women with bodies flooded with the female hormone estrogen from consuming soy-products are making very bad life-changing choices.    Now, what does this have to do with your daughter?    When high soy-product consumption floods the body with estrogen (female hormone) and greatly suppresses testosterone (male hormone), people stop acting right.    .    Women also need testosterone for normal hormonal balance.    Hormonal imbalance will affect your mind as well as your body.    An imbalanced mind can and will, at times, make bad choices and decisions.    Go through your kitchen and see how much soy your wife is feeding everybody .    You didn't say so, but your wife and daughter are probably very overweight from high starches and soy in their diet.    They are groupies of the "New Age" gang that are presently messing up our school systems.    I know this doesn't solve your problem, but it sure helps when you understand what might have caused the problem.    This new age crap is a religion to them.    Women are more social than men and self-reinforce good and bad ideas or beliefs.    To change their minds on the new age popular idea that being a homosexual should be accepted as normal, is to set themselves up for rejection and ostracism from their peers and family.    Your ideas and belief system are not taken seriously because they are based upon Christianity, which is unacceptable to them even if they go through the motions of going to church on Sunday.    This is especially true of the denominations belonging to the "Council of Churches".    They all prefer popular social fads instead of God's Word.    Mathew, they have made their choice.    Now it's time to make yours.    To stick around and say nothing is to condone what they are doing.    In various ways the Bible says that good should avoid evil or light is separate from darkness.    The grey in between is polluted light.    It also says something about being "unequally yoked".    I am not advocating or encouraging divorce.    Divorce is always a bad thing.    Much that is good and wholesome is destroyed by divorces.    Nevertheless, compromising your personal standard, or ethics, is also a very bad thing, because you become something less in your own eyes.    You have some hard decisions to make and I do believe that you should make your wife rethink some of her decisions.    If she wants to lead the family, then maybe she should lead by herself for a while.    May God's Will be done in the decisions you make. 

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I was born in Beirut and now live in Sussex, Uk.  I was born Muslim.  I want to tell you that five years ago I started communicating with Karen kellock and she converted me to Christianity.  The reason is that I was steeped in works religion, to work off my sins and go to heaven.  Allah is not present, he does not forgive nor does he have the power to forgive.  The Muslims are forever steeped in works, going to Mecca, praying five times daily and numerous other duties intended to make Allah happy and not punish.  This is an endless thing that means most Muslims are filled with guilt and shame they cannot assuage.  I appreciate so much what Karen did for me, as we exchanged emails for two months on this subject.  I am now a happy Christian and know I am forgiven and I am going to heaven.  The one  question I ask is this:  my whole family rejected me as an infidel and they will not talk to me.  If I return to Beirut they will kill me.  I want to know what you think, amen,  Hossam Al Fihal

Hossam, my brother in Christ;    It is indeed hard to lose one family member, devastating to lose your whole family.    The only comfort I can offer you must come from God's Word:

 Matthew 10:32-39 "Therefore, everyone who will acknowledge Me before men, I will also acknowledge him before My Father in heaven.    But whoever denies Me before men, I will also deny him before My Father in heaven.    Don't assume that I came to bring peace on the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword.    For I came to turn a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law;     and a man's enemies will be the members of his household.    The person who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; the person who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me.    And whoever doesn't take up his cross and follow Me is not worthy of Me.    Anyone finding his life will lose it, and anyone losing his life because of Me will find it.    This is the prediction in God's Word of the very thing that you are experiencing.    It is only natural to want to hold on to your family's love, affection and closeness.    Considering the master that they serve, it is only natural for them to reject and revile you.    Satan allows them no other choice.    It is hard and sad but this is what Jesus said about what your attitude should now be toward your family:    Matthew 8:19-22  A scribe approached Him and said, "Teacher, I will follow You wherever You go."    Jesus told him, "Foxes have dens and birds of the sky have nests, but the Son of Man has no place to lay His head."    "Lord," another of His disciples said, "first let me go bury my father."    But Jesus told him, "Follow Me, and let the dead bury their own dead."    Hossam, your family is dead to you by their choice and the Words of our Lord Jesus the Christ.    I know that this  is a very high price to pay in this world, but your reward in the world to come when we go to be with the Father in Heaven will be worth it.   Pleasing God is always the best thing you can do for yourself.    This brings another great tragedy to mind;    Great Britain and the United States are two great countries where we still have the freedom to choose God's Will in our lives, to accept Jesus as our Savior.     The tragedy is that many millions of people have this opportunity and ignore it completely.    It will lead to personal disaster when they leave this life.    Another comparison is the freedoms that the socialist agendas of our country and all of Western Europe will lead to social ruin as well as personal ruin in this life.    Here is an e-mail from a Russian who is warning us all to stop our liberal foolishness:   

"This is very unfortunate circumstance for the Amerikans. Oh, you people, you are so easily fooled and mislead by your leaders who are taking lessons from my country where I come from. Don't you realized that what you fought for mightly for to free yourselves from the British over 200 years ago, your leaders have lost their way. They are learning in your schools the ways of my country and China, from their socialist professors the models of letting the government take over all of your private institutions. First your schools, then your finances. Why not let them take your health care and your right to own property, the government will take good care of you. You stupid typical Amerikans you follow these two failed parties called the Democrat and the Republican, don't you realize they are both working together to take your free market away. You fools, we would love to have a system of government like you HAD, but now you are weak and greedy learning the ways of socialism and Marxism, you will learn to drive small cars, ride a bike to work, live in government housing, give up your right to bare arms, you fools, you stupid dump greedy fools. Many of you embrace such plans of big government losing sight that the government was once to work for you not the other way around. It is sad, but your country is divided, and being divided by your leaders to distract you from your money, they talk of pro life and gay issues, while they steal your freedom both parties. It was great while it lasted, so long USA, hello SRDSA the Socialist Republik of the Divied States of Amerika. "

Sep 23, 2008 @ 05:23 PM

Boris Warsawsky, Soviet Union Socialist Republik

 

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Hello.  The other day my daughter reported terrible, horrible sex activities going on in  the bathroom at her school.  I am outraged.  I called the school principal and he was indifferent, telling me to grin and bear it.  He told me that we must be tolerant of these things, and maybe my daughter was "just making it up, to perhaps get back at someone".  I couldn't believe my ears.  I have never been so angry.  I demanded that they put VIDEO CAMERAS IN THE BATHROOM.  What do you think of this Clarene Jones, Conn.

Clarence, you have every right to be outraged.    The only effective threat you can make to the school is to document everything thoroughly.    Also read Q&A #'s 102 and 404 to see what you can possibly do with your documentation.   Passing out your documentation to other parents at school meetings and events would also be effective.    Video cameras in bathrooms are legal as long as it doesn't show the inside of stalls or shows only the backs of someone using a urinal.    I have personally installed such equipment in bathrooms when I worked for NCIS years ago.    It was to apprehend and punish the very kinds of activities that your daughter observed herself.    We caught about 30 of them back then.    Be a squeaky wheel Clarence.   

 

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we have to convince the public that the bailout is crucial.  Why can't they see it?  After yesterday, they can surely see it, no? worried about the banks even those overseas due to phony accounting.  Reecy, Paloa Hw.

Reecy, Which bailout are you talking about?    The government already rescued Fannie Mae & Freddy Mac.   Citibank bought out one of the other financial institutions that was in trouble (Wachovia), and Bank of America bought out another one in trouble (Countrywide financial Corp.).    That's four rescues.    Lehman Brothers is the fifth but most definitely not the last.    How many do you expect the government and the few remaining healthy financial institutions to continue to rescue?    All of the institutions that heavily dealt in mortgaged-based derivatives are in trouble and the failures will continue into next year, along with more foreclosures.    The more property foreclosures, the more worthless the derivatives, that are based upon them, become = more banks in trouble = more bailouts?    Congress might fix a few of our today's by throwing money at today's problems, but what about the many tomorrows?    In addition to all of this stuff, I am still expecting some very large natural disasters and perhaps something interesting from our Muslim brothers.    Some might think that I am putting my "powers of projection" out on a limb, but time will tell. 

 Reecy, do what you can about your own self .    Get your body in shape with healthy foods and a diet if you need it.    It's not hard, and once you get into it, it can be very interesting.    I am actually  enjoying my culinary explorations.    Yesterday I received my Xylitol sweetener so today's experiment will be with; Knox unflavored Gelatin, fruit concentrate, and heavy whipping cream.    I make jello with the sweetener, concentrate, and Knox.    when it is setting up in the 'fridg, I take it out when the jello barely starts to "dimple" when I touch the top of it.    I then thoroughly blend in some whipping cream and put it in the freezer.    When it's done, it comes out like fluffy ice cream.    I can eat it and still lose weight.    I'm down 30 lbs so far with 10 to go.

 

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I want to thank you  for your EXTREMELY candid and truthful answers.  I've decided to not worry over the economy but rather GET HEALTHY by following your suggestions.  I choose to totally ignore the panic, and turn inside.  For there is nothing else I can do.  Good luck on your new endeavors, regarding things like cookie storage.  The nut powders really sound interesting for all flour substitutes, especially macadamia since it is like three times higher in fat, which leads to beauty, leanness and alertness (SMARTS, according to Champion Guides by Karen Kellock).  I would like to know, however, what you think of the current financial events and crisis.  Leo Chiavis

Leo, read my answer to Gary.    It covers your question thoroughly.    Speaking of "candid and truthful", I realize that some of the answers that I write can come across as hostile and insulting to some of the people who are asking these questions.    To my knowledge, I have only done that once on purpose.    It was one of many cases of someone asking about what to do about the current consequences to what they screwed up years ago.    But, whether or not my responses are comfortable to the direct recipient, they will get nothing but the truth from me as, whenever possible, I back up what I believe to be the truth with scripture, links, or anecdotes from my personal experiences.    I realize that a heavy dose of the truth can sometimes be downright embarrassing.    It is not my intention to insult anyone.    If anyone is insulted or embarrassed, they are probably guilty of some of the blunders that I write about here.   Oh well, that's life.

 

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The thing I do not understand is, when I turn on CNN they aren't all in a dither over this "crisis".  They act like it's just a slight burp in the mainstream.  Even Lou Dobbs seems to not make such a big deal out if as you are and he's all against the government.  I would appreciate your explain.  Louis Gonzales, Houston

Louis, CNN is owned and controlled by liberal fundamentalists.    Owner/managers (Tedd Turner) always controls the content of everything produced.    Lou Dobbs, although he claims to be an independent, has strong leanings to the left, and some of the things is has written is definitely liberal.    The liberals have the majority in the House and Senate and didn't pass the , so-called, rescue package.    The consequences of that is the stock market dive.    The liberals are responsible for that and they hate it and don't want to take responsibility for their actions.    So to answer your question; They are making light of it as if it is of minor consequence so the liberals can shunt aside the blame and guilt for their actions.  

I am dismayed. What do you say.  Are we all going to lose our shirts, and why has this happened?  I feel so panicky and don't know which way to turn.  YOu predicted this.  Gary V. NYC

 

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Gary, the reason I was able to project the current mess with our economy is that the fundamental problems are systemic.    I try not to make any predictions.    When 95% of the puzzle pieces are clearly visible, it's not real hard to figure out what the remaining pieces should look like.    The fundamental problem is that our whole economy is based upon debt, not value.    Government, private institutional, and individual personal wealth is measured almost entirely on the ability to borrow money.    Any savings in our country is a token amount compared to the massive multi-trillion dollar debt that we, as a country have amassed.    Our current pickle started when financial institutions started to run out of eligible borrowers for real estate.    Everybody that could take advantage of the low interest rates had already done so for the most part and home sales were slacking off.    Then the industry dusted off the "variable interest rate" loans and put them on the market.    Business picked up for a while then started to slack off again so the financial geniuses had the bright idea of lowering the personal income requirements for individual borrowers; this in addition to variable interest rates.    Well, interest rates go up and down.    Everybody knows that.    So when the rates started to go up for whatever reason, a lot of people couldn't afford their mortgages that suddenly started to increase.    That's what started to pop the housing bubble.    Bank repo's started to increase, and more and more people lost their homes that they really weren't qualified to buy in the first place.    There were many, many other factors that contributed to this, like unemployment going up to the present 5.7% national, and 11% for blacks.    For many years this was at or under 5% national.    Still, property values continue to decrease and Americans are losing millions in equity.    What really capped it off was our brilliant financial geniuses continued to bundle mortgage loans into derivatives and then buy and sell them as if they were a separate product regardless of the underlying value of the property that these mortgages represented.    The same thing happened on a smaller scale several years ago when the Orange County (a corporation in California) filed for bankruptcy.    They had invested heavily in derivatives when interest rates went up and they found themselves short of money to pay their County employees.    This is what is happening now to these financial corporations that had way more money than the California County of Orange (next to L.A.).    So the Federal Government wants to bail out these financial gamblers so our economy won't crash too soon.    The current cash cow is, of course, China.    China will gladly loan us the money, but like most financially responsible institutions, they will want some sort of collateral.    Promises are just fine among friends loaning smaller amounts of money, but trillion$?    They want realistic collateral.    What could be more real than land?    The federal government doesn't have any land except DC, Puerto Rico, Guam, etc.    Wasn't this how the individual States were to preserve States rights?    The feds had the military and the States had the land.    Things sort of balanced out that way.    That's the way things used to be.    Now the feds own 264 million acres in 12 western States.    They still call it public land, but make no mistake, it is all federal government property run by the Bureau of Land Management (BLM), a federal agency.    That is the only collateral that I can think of that could be used to secure a loan in the trillions of dollars.    I don't know of anything else that the feds could use as collateral for any loan of that size (you will never hear of any particulars of any loan structures and collateral from the government).    The Chinese are not into charity except possibly for their own people.    So where is this all going?    Whether or not Congress comes up with a bailout plan and throws good money after bad, the fact is that all financial companies that were able to buy and sell derivatives, did so and they are all in trouble.    The failures will continue into next year.    The government can't rescue them all.    As these corporations fail, the personal finances of individual Americans will join the many others who are losing their homes and livelihoods.     I'm sure I didn't get this whole financial picture exactly right, but to the best of my knowledge, this is what did happen and this is what will most likely happen in the near future.    The DOW will definitely go under 10,000 because it's only 300+ short of that now.    The dollar will keep blundering downward and precious metals will keep going up.    I don't think it will matter that much who gets elected, because that lucky person will inherit a bucket of worms and the blame-game will keep going loud and long in Congress.    So the solution is?

http://bullion.nwtmint.com/silver_panam.php  Silver will most likely double in the next year and it is a safe way to preserve the value of the dollars you have right now today.   Silver sold for close to $20. three months ago and will no doubt go back to at least that in the near future.    We live in interesting times and you have some heavy-duty decisions to make.    Good luck.     

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Hello Brother.  Your answers are getting more groundbreaking and multivariate.  I appreciate this because all other sites are focused on one thing.  This seems to be filled with discoveries and BLATANT OUTLANDISH TRUTHS.  Like about the women, the feminists who have ruined our culture.  They have ruined children, women, men, and our country.  And now the food industry of course caters to females since they supposedly run the homes.  They are so filled with this hypnotic mantra of "soy" and all other SHITS that they rule their families with an iron hand--NO DELICIOUS FATTY MEATS, CHEESES OR OMELETS, ever again apparently.  I just got divorced so I am really enjoying my daily breakfast in a restaurant of cheese omelet and bacon.  Every single day I actually thank God for my new freedom--to eat what I want and get skinny.  I am still young enough (age 63) to find a nice reasonable female, if such a one exists.  Thanks alot.  Johnny Via, Houston

Johnny, so far I have concentrated on good and bad foods, for the most part, but what about what we drink?    If the food equation is so far out of whack, couldn't the same thing be true about what all these fat ladies drink?    I think they live on soy milk (poison) and diet coke's and diet Pepsi's    What could possibly be wrong with drinks that are supposed to help you get skinny while you're gorging on a high starch (white toxins), low fat, high vegetable oil meals?    The answer to that is ASPARTAME .    Aspartame (also misspelled by many as "aspartame") has been scientifically documented to cause:  Headaches, Panic attacks, Mood changes, Visual hallucinations, Manic episodes, Isolated dizziness.    Anyone who has a problem with "depression", Aspartame will cause:  More headaches, Nervousness, Dizziness, Memory impairment, Nausea, Temper outbursts, and worsen depression.    Do any of these symptoms describe the behavior of your wife before you divorced her?    It's over for you, but many men are still struggling with their fat wives keeping them on an insane diet that hog farmers use to fatten their stock with - soybean products and vegetable oil.    What a lot of them don't understand is that their wives are acting totally weird about this diet that obviously doesn't work, and scientifically CAN'T work, because they are being driven nuts by a high intake of ASPARTAME .    I drank Diet Pepsi for many years as a substitute for beer when I quit drinking that for a long time.    I always had a bottles of Rolaids and Excedrin handy, but didn't connect the one with the other.    Now I know.     I didn't know that with a low carbohydrate/high fat diet, I would have been much better off sticking with beer in moderate amounts instead of Diet Pepsi.    Read and weep:    http://www.herbalhealer.com/aspartame.html

http://www.organicconsumers.org/school/cocacola021605.cfm

http://www.dfwcfids.org/medical/sugar.html#top    http://www.truth.tc/information/aspartame.html

STEVIA has been used in Japan for forty years but the FDA won't allow it here in commercial manufacturing because of the Aspartame lobby.    It can be bought in some health food stores.    Xylotol is also very good in that is is a one-for-one substitute for recipes using sugar.    Stevia is very highly concentrated and is used by the drop instead of by the spoonful.    Neither Xylotol or Stevia will drive you or your sweet ex-wife bonkers.    I did a Google word search on hazards and dangers on both sweeteners and came up negative on both of them.    I suggest you do the same.

http://www.globalsweet.com/c/S.html    www.PuritanSale.com    I make no money from these recommendations, but I would love to know that people have some sane alternatives to the poisons they are ingesting every day.   

 

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This soy thing has got me crazy along with all the other things you are saying. I have been choking down tofu and other tasteless things for twenty some odd years, thinking I was getting healthier and I have only gained twenty pounds.  My wife has gained forty pounds since our marriage--when I loved her.  Now I do not love her--who could love a bitch?  I have only been afraid of her, grateful for any sex she is willing to give, grateful that today she's not pissed off about something, and grateful to get out of the house.  We are both hungry all  the time, though bloated.  We are both uncomfortable in our clothes and she is ALWAYS IRRITABLE ABOUT SOMETHING.  I am too, but fear to show it.  What a bitch. Steven

Steven, read what I wrote to Johnny in Houston and it will probably explain why your wife acts like she does.    Between high doses of carbohydrates, soy products, and Aspartame, it's no wonder that everyone in your household is constantly at war with each other.    These things definitely dis-enable your brain especially when all of these women actually worship this new age crap.    They are emotionally committed and are way past rational thought.    I hope you read my explanation of "cognitive dissonance".    Here is a quote from God's word that will help put things in their proper perspective:  Hebrews 11:1   "Now faith is the reality of what is hoped for, the proof of what is not seen."    This is describing the attitude of Christians toward our God and Father.    My hope is in His Son Jesus, and the only proof of the reality of God that I have is my personal faith in Him and the reality of this big wonderful world that He created.    Those who worship the "New Age" philosophy, which includes their diet, have faith in what they believe to be true, and keep hoping to see proof and justification that it is right.    The proof and justification that they are getting from their beliefs and efforts are obesity, insanity, and a large number of homosexual children they have poisoned.    If husbands don't take back the leadership of their families, then they are truly doomed.    The obese women aren't rational enough, because of all the toxins and carbo-crap in their systems, to understand the necessity of making a complete change of diet in their lives.    Their false religion has betrayed them utterly (and some people don't believe that Satan exists).      Steven, you are your family's only hope of a better future. 

 

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Hello Brother.  My wife is a friggin feminist and I hate it so much that I have spent more time with my guy friends.  She fights for every point, she demands respect while the beds remain unmade, the washed clothes not put away.  I hate our house--it is no longer an inviting place to relax but a boxing ring.   Oh and by the way, she is fat.  Everything she buys is soy products and the only meats I get are "low fat" shit which I hate.  I love fat but squelched my desire--until I read this website.  I have heard about Atkins of course, but my wonderful wife pooh-poohs these things as if she knows better.  I was a wishy-washy husband but now I'm a pissed off husband.  I have spoken and confronted (as of last night) and to say the least she is now UP TIGHT.  She is getting ready for war, for previously I always gave in out of fear (that she would run and tell the neighbors, our families, even the authorities).  We husbands have become wimpy--out of fear of their terrible reprisals which are usually NOT physical violence but SOCIAL VIOLENCE.  I live in fear of her gossiping.  I live in fear of social ostracism.  The only answer is to ACCEPT being alone, but that too has been condoned by Karen Kellock as a temporary "way to God away from the clods."  THANK GOD A FEMALE HAS FINALLY TALKED AGAINST THE FEMALE. This is a first and oughta be blandished all over the web.  I thank you both, but what do I do now?  Ricky Beirght, NY

Ricky, Karen has no problem speaking out for the truth.    In her youth, she also wallowed in the myths and mantra of the New Age philosophy, including the vegetarian and fruitarian diets.    It took many years of agonizing failures to finally come to her senses.    She finally put her faith and activities in God and the scientific method of proving or disproving all the weird ideas out there.    The results of this are the five books she wrote.    I like the last one the best:   "Champion Guides" by Dr. Karen Kellock, Ph.D.    It has most of what I've written about on this Q&A list.    In it you will read that when you eat anything, your body will produce one of two Hormones.    When you ingest starchy high carbohydrate foods (white toxins), it appears as sugar in your body and elevates the hormone Insulin, which takes everything you eat, including proteins and fats, as well as the carbohydrates, and stores it as fat.    It is also the mechanism that retains water in your body to be stored with the fat as well as causing you fatigue and (most of all) HUNGER.    When you lay off of the carbohydrates and eat healthy foods like meat, dairy products, virgin coconut oil and other high (good fat) protein products, your body will elevate the hormone Glucagon instead of elevating "insulin".    Glucagons give you more energy, dumps water, suppresses appetite, and burns up fat from what you are currently eating as well as stored fat.    When you are eating both carbohydrates and fats, more insulin is produced and glucagons are suppressed.    The more white toxins you repeatedly eat, the greater the insulin levels are each subsequent time and glucagons are suppressed more and more.    Therefore, people get fatter and fatter as they follow this scientifically proven insane diet of the new Age.    Yes Ricky, your wife will demolish you with your friends and family.    You are blaspheming her religion.    To her, you are a heretic and a barbarian.    This is more important to her than her family, anybody that she loves or did love, her home, and everything else.    What you are dealing with is fanaticism, pure and simple.    The rightness of her faith in this crap is more important to her than her own health, even when she looks in the mirror for proof that she has been betrayed by her obviously false beliefs.    She knows that if she believes what you are telling her, her friends and family will demolish her and ostracize her just like she if fixing to do to you.    She is truly trapped in her own stupidity.    It's up to you to save the day.               

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We have all been educated in the schools that the high-carb, low-fat, high-soy diet is the best.  No animal foods.  Fake eggs, fake butter, and even fake (soy based) hamburger.  This is the best?  What a joke.  These are just inventions of the carnal mind.  How could they think they can do better than God?  And of course it makes sense that the inadequately-fueled body would gain weight.  Only the rightly-fueled body would "keep things moving" and stay slender.  Has anyone ever  questioned that our Maker wants us to be slender and trim and good-looking?  No, they don't question it.  Everyone is fat, and that is that.  And how can your voice be heard amongst all the hullabaloo?  Good luck on your cookies and inventions with GOD-MADE ELEMENTS.  Even the xylotol is God-made, though it sounds like a chemical it isn't.  Lynne L.

Amen Mz. Lynne.   It looks to me that you aren't one of the people trapped in the New Age cycle of obese misery.    One of the things that I haven't stressed enough is the break-down of family relationships brought on by eating high carbohydrates, Aspartame, and soy products.    This is definitely not according to God's Will.    Everybody knows that Testosterone is the male hormone and Estrogen is the female hormone.    Women have become dominant by eating lots of soy products, which releases a flood of estrogen.    Men have become more docile and allow their wives to become dominant because their wives feed them lots of soy products which releases estrogen in the husband's body and suppresses testosterone.    So it's a case of huge Amazon wives (bursting with estrogen) ruling their docile husbands (highly suppressed testosterone).    As long as they stay on this soy diet, women rule.    Now add in aspartame which causes everybody to be weird with headaches, panic attacks, mood changes, hallucinations,manic episodes, isolated dizziness, and possiblyy depression which is worsened by other symptoms.    So the results are that nobody is really happy and disputes are common.    This is a perfect formula for ongoing family misery.    The wife really doesn't understand why she must rule the roost, even if she's not very good at it.    The husband has been chemically enslaved by the female hormones in his body suppressing his male hormones.    The kids, if they were fed soy formula as infants and subsequently as school children, have a 25% chance of becoming homosexuals.    The boys are more effeminate, and the girls reach puberty way too early from the estrogen that is dominating their systems.    Literally millions of lives are being ruined by this insanity.    I have listed all of the links in other Q&A's that prove all of this.    So there you have it:  High carbohydrates make you fat;  Aspartame makes you nuts;  Soy makes you fat and weird.    What a world we live in.   

 

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Congratulations to the newlyweds.  I was shocked because Karen seemed like the perennial celibate pro-single mystic of the century.  This is truly amazing but seems a perfect match made in heaven.  It just shows anything can happen in a fluid universe.  I was grateful to read many of your answers and I can see they are getting more forthright and candid, so I like the later answers better.  Here on the internet things have to be quick-to-shoot or people get distracted by billions of other websites.  Here, with the music and your SHOCKING answers which upon thinking about it ARE CORRECT AND  RIGHT-ON, I'm staying here for awhile.  And with a smile, because I have neighbors who are gay men, and the interchange of partners is truly of another world.  I have never seen anything like it.  There is a different car parked there every day.  Before reading this website it didn't bother me that much, but now it bothers me MUCHO MUCH, in fact I find it sickening and disheartening.  I have you to thank for this--my discomfort.  I don't know what can be done about it, but I sure would like to move.  But where to?"  I apparently would find the same thing anywhere.  Thanks to you, it's now a scare.  Fred C, Miami the in-place for faggots

Fred, I have really changed my mind about certain aspects of homosexuals.    I have always known that their claim, "they are genetically born that way", is preposterous.    If it were genetic, that gene would have totally died out of the human race centuries ago.    Couples who can't reproduce themselves are genetically the last of their kind.    That doesn't take a brain surgeon or a rocket scientist to figure out.    However, I just recently realized that diet poisoning has a devastating effect on gender identification for people of all ages.    I've touched on this briefly on this list before I found this link:    http://www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=53327

It seems that many homosexuals are created by dietary poisoning.    In my mind it is still a matter of choice, but the introduction of huge amounts of the female hormone estrogen in the male body will make it more likely for many men to make that wrong choice.    There are many men who think that the flab on their chests is just fat when in fact it is breast tissue.    More and more men are going to plastic surgeons to have the "fat" on their chests liposuctioned out, but in fact they are having a mastectomy.    All they would have to do is go on a high fat, low carbohydrate diet with absolutely no soy products at all, and the breast tissue as well as most of the other fat in their bodies would go away.    That would be flooding the male body with testosterone and things would return to normal like God intended them to be.    I wouldn't suggest that you give your neighbor a copy of this e-mail.    He probably would take it the wrong way and burn your house down.    "They" normally don't take what they perceive as criticism very rationally. 

 

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So women have been held down for centuries?  I am wondering about this now, after reading this page.  I don't think they were.  I think that their husbands knew they were weaker and more vulnerable and so withheld their supposed punishments, and they followed the bible in those days, and so they gave their wives "household power" and love.  They stayed together their whole lives.  Oh sure men have always been sinners, but I just don't believe the feminist bull crap anymore.  I think it is NOW that men are abusing women, out of sheer retaliation at keeping their traps shut.  They have taken over like lionesses, pure harridans, amazons bigger than us, bitches.  Kenny

Kenny, I still think that women are just as victimized as men are in this world.    I believe that most women didn't really have a role model of a domineering mother and have just learned what they could by trial and error.    No wonder that many of them are not very good in the family leadership role.    By the same token, no wonder that most men really resent their domineering wives;  that's not how they remembered things to be when they were young.    There is plenty of fault on both sides for men and women.    The right thing to do is to find solutions, not take sides and throw potshots at each other.    The "blame-game" leads to nowhere good and just makes things worse.    So lighten up Kenny.

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We don't need diuretics (sp?) or water pills with this diet.  Karen Kellock says that when glucagons is activated, ALL EXCESS WATER IS EXPELLED from the system.  This is great news because I have heard often that diuretics are very dangerous.  It is what anorexics get into, along with laxatives--both of which are unnecessary on this diet.  thanks Caren

Caren, you've got it right.   Glucagons do 4 things: 1. Eliminates water    2. Burns fat    3. greatly reduces hunger    4. Increases energy (sometimes to the point of elation and a reduction of pain)    The opposite is Insulin which: 1. retains water    2. stores fat    3. causes the feelings of hunger    4. creates fatigue ( depression/pain)    So what should you prefer: a tablespoon of virgin coconut oil, or some French fries?

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I have tried the Kellock Diet and the results are fantastic.  I have lost forty pounds in five months, I have bought a whole new wardrobe, my skin has cleared, I have full evacuation every day (same time, in the morning, a neat package no sitting on the throne for hours), my mind is extremely alert, I have high energy all day, I have no more need for naps, I am attracting people all over the place, my old friends have jealously lost interest (thank God.), I have new inventive ideas and feel young enough to explore them.  Thanks so much for you and your wife's giving me a new lease on life, and I am age 67.  I used to think I was near death and now I feel that it's just a number, with decades left to enjoy.  I will NEVER go off this diet, never. Clarence Hidroberg, Quebec.

Clarence: HOORAY for happy endings.    You're also at the beginning of a happy "rest of your life".    I am 68, and as you can see from this Q&A list I am still fairly productive.   Old age is an attitude that I never acquired.    Yes, 67 & 68 are just numbers and they don't put any limitations on my life.    Good health is one of the true treasures in life, worth far more that silver or gold.    The only things that I know are more important is my relationship with my God, and His Son Jesus the Christ.

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"but they shall sit every man under his vine and under his fig  tree; and none shall make them afraid: for the mouth of the Lord of hosts have spoken it" Micah 5: 4

Could there be any doubt the Lord wants us to eat fruit once in awhile--the grape and the hyper-cleansing fig?  And yet how few see this.  That's what I see is brilliant about the KK diet--it isn't ATKINS, for here are the unique differences:  she uses fruit, and occasional fruit-fasts; she stresses daily fasting (one main meal only); she's not into meat-eating (occasional fish or bird only); shes says BREAKFAST THE MOST IMPORTANT MEAL OF THE DAY (whereas the vegan crowd says "eat fruit or fast for mornings" which is bull shit).  This certainly is NOT Atkins and I only wish you guys could package this up and make millions--why should someone else steal your ideas and make a mint?  Think about this  Richard G.

Richard, because just about everything that I write about on this list should be common knowledge .    Government should have a strong leadership role with these issues, but their agencies are part and parcel of the industrial cover-ups.    Bad products and concepts are defended and promoted because they are making billions of dollars for those who own and promote them.    How very odd that the "Hippocratic Oath" is no longer required by most modern medical schools.    Here is an excerpt:  "I will use those dietary regimens which will benefit my patients according to my greatest ability and judgment, and I will do no harm or injustice to them.    I will not give a lethal drug to anyone if I'm asked, nor will I advise such a plan;  and similarly I will not give a woman a pessary to cause an abortion."    So the point here is that most doctors are not ethically restrained by the Hippocratic Oath and they can feel free to aid and abet the crimes being perpetrated on the world public by substances that are harming our bodies, breaking up families, destroying lives, and tearing down our culture.    These are crimes against humanity that are equal to the slaughter of the millions of Jews in Nazi Germany.    This New Age religion will ultimately kill more people than ever before.    Many millions will die years before they must, by diet related diseases, problems, and most certainly obesity.

On the other hand Richard, it would be nice if we could find a sponsor we could ethically live with, so we could expand our efforts here.    Unfortunately, sponsors always want to put limits on content, which we could not accept.    We pray that God's Will be done in all things in our lives, and so we will continue as we are doing, knowing that things will work out according to His plan, not mine.

 

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How interesting that the ONE thing the new agers say to avoid is SOY SAUCE, which you say is ok.  And ALL THE OTHER SOYS, which you say is NOT ok, they say to indulge in to your heart's delight.  Kathleen

Kathleen, soy sauce is fermented, which changes it's chemical structure into something that doesn't harm humans.    All other soy products do harm people.    Regardless of what I or the new Ager's claim, that's the science of it.    Truth has no agenda.

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Congratulations on your marriage to Karen Kellock.  I can see that you two, being Christian especially, believe in the institution of marriage--between man and woman only of course--and so do we.  The new gay marriage amendments are saying NO TO TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE, did you know that?  This is very worrisome and I'd like to know what you think about this.  It is a great tragedy.  MARRIAGE IS WONDERFUL, it cannot be beat (married 46 years and still hot to trot.).  The Rutherfords, South Dakota

Dear Rutherfords, A license, including a marriage license, is permission to do something that is otherwise forbidden.    It is certainly forbidden for men to marry men and women to marry women.    That is God's law and man's law.    So I would think that homosexuals would have to get a license to go through the pretense of getting married.    As far a heterosexuals go, when a man and woman want to get married, the idea that government has the right to grant them permission to get married is utterly ridiculous and not in accordance with God's Will.    God is the one who joins together, not man.    The idea that a pastor or priest, men dedicated to God's service, must be licensed by the government to perform a wedding is also preposterous.    The idea that the church body itself must become a government corporation [501(c)3] violates the Constitutional separation of church and state.    The fact that government has usurped God's authority in these things is, for me the main issue here, not whether or not homosexuals want to pretend to get married.    Government control over all aspects of the covenant of marriage is wrong, inappropriate, and one of Satan's victories.    Sorry to come on so strong but this is one of my "hot buttons".    Thank you for your kind words but don't worry about the "gay marriage amendments".    It is all meaningless.    "What God joins together, let man not separate"    God does not join men with men and women with women in the covenant of marriage.    Let the government do what it wants with the authority it believes it has.    I know that only God is the true authenticator and heavenly witness to the covenant of marriage. and nothing will ever change that.    Government has absolutely no power or authority in this matter.    This business of separating church from state should be a part of your personal attitude and belief system, not just complying with the herd mentality and mooing in unison.    Who cares what the homo-community is doing this week?  

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It makes perfect sense to me, once I think about it, to eat breakfast as the most important meal of the day.  Karen Kellock's "breakfast-only plan for the saints" is so excellent and SO HIGHLY TRADITIONAL.  This is how it makes sense:  you just got out of bed, so you're in the house--have a nice big warm breakfast WHILE YOU CAN.  Later on, you could be caught outside somewhere, but at least you've eaten.  You've eaten enough for the day should you go without for the rest of the day.  Especially in cold countries, it's important to eat a hearty FATTY breakfast, for it keeps you warm (fat in the veins).  Could you imagine eating a FRUIT BREAKFAST in Russia?  How stupid--fruitarianism is the stupidest (yet most popular) new age fallacy.  Breakfast fuels up the engine, and gets things going.  It also makes you feel better should you be withdrawing from a poison (like in the air) the day before.  Yet the new age says to "skip breakfast" or have a fruit (light) breakfast to "extend the fast" from the night before.  How dysfunctional--it took a Karen Kellock to see through this crap (which SOUNDS SO TRUE, BUT COULDN'T BE MORE FALSE, LIKE EVERYTHING ELSE NEW AGE) and give us sound advice.  BREAKFAST IS THE AMERICAN WAY--PEOPLE HAVE ALWAYS COLLECTED HENS' EGGS FOR THEIR BREAKFAST, SINCE THIS COUNTRY BEGAN AND ALSO ALL THROUGH EUROPE AND THE MIDDLE EAST).  Thanks Karen and Brother Graham.  Suzie Lange, Boca Raton

Thanx Suzie.    In the days of steam engine railroads, I wonder what would have happened if the fireman just threw a few chunks of wood in the fire that stoked the boiler at the beginning of the days run.    When the train stalled a short way down the tracks, the engineer would ask the fireman what the heck was going on?    I guess the fireman would say that he was going to put a full load of coal into the firebox at lunchtime.    Needless to say, the train wouldn't be going anywhere until the fireman got it right.    Well Suzie, it looks to me that you got it right.    Your train will successfully keep on down life's track until the end of each day OK.    Too bad that common sense is not common knowledge.    Hang in there.

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Thank you to my favorite writer and website of all time, and her new husband.  How great KK is: I wonder how many people know she actually got her doctor's degree in SOCIAL PSYCHOLOGY, better known as "systems theory"--how people interact with others in their group.  I loved her book Just Skip Dinner which has the whole social theory in it.  In it, she states that WOMEN ARE SOCIAL--that is how they are taught:  their self-esteem is BASED on "how well they do in the eyes of the herd".  They therefore learn very well "social styles" of relating, and the genius female remains the odd-girl-out, because her right-brain excludes "social shit".   I think this is so excellent.  What I ESPECIALLY find fascinating is the next chapter which explains "men don't marry for looks anymore, but for social expertise in the future wife.  The most important thing in this crazy generation is to fit socially, and since men may be weak in that area (being specialized and busy), choosing a social wife is the major way they can integrate into sick society, a most cherished aspiration."  I really like this, because I have always been alone and don't socialize well.  I had "school phobia" when a child, and was terrified to be around my peers.  I was even afraid of my own siblings, cousins  or anyone from this generation.  As I have matured and READ THIS WEBSITE, I see now that I was more Godly, and the liberal feminist mindset was REPUGNANT to me.  I have KK to thank for saving my life, for now I am a happy isolate waiting for my soul mate to knock on my door and I know he will.  Claire, Boston

Claire, Karen and I live mostly isolated but we are still a part of the larger world through this web-site.    You too need to have some social interaction for your intellectual growth and the necessary survival mandate which is an ability to successfully cope with other people.    You might not feel comfortable around others but you must deal with them as various situations demand.    Besides, how else are you going to meet Mr. Right if you don't have some interaction with others? 

                                                                                                                                                 

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Hello brother.  My wife is into soy, "whole wheat organics", lowfat, no-eggs, no-meat, no-cheese, and margarine-only.  it is a sad, boring, bland life we live.  Meanwhile, she thinks she is "up on" things, keeping completely up to date on the "recent nutrition science".  If she's so smart, why's she so fat and bitchy?  It doesn't make sense.  I sneak meat in at lunch with the guys, but now I know I should do without the bun.  I am really sick of this, especially after showing her the website and hearing her sneer as if it is all wrong.   I am sick of her obesity and her bitchiness, always demanding I "respect" her more, always fighting for every point, and getting incredibly bitchy and witchy if she thinks I am less than respectful.  What happened to respect for the husband?  John C.

John, the feminists don't just want equality in respect and consideration.    They want dominance and preference.    Respect for you as a husband has been long discounted and dismissed by your wife and her cronies.    She is the focus point of her world.    She feels absolutely righteous in everything she believes.    She is supported in this attitude by all her friends and the liberal media.    She cannot imagine that you might know or discover something that she doesn't already know about and she will not accept that she is wrong about anything.    In other words:   She is a typical brainwashed new age liberal feminist.    They have almost convinced themselves that fat and obese is the preferred way for women to be.    The herd is a mutual admiration society that is reinforcing the idea that what they are seeing in the mirror is perfect, acceptable, and to be admired.    Simply put: they are all mentally ill .    On the other hand;  your wife is also a victim of the lies propagated by our society.    It is always the children who will suffer the most from this.    John, you are the only one who would care enough to rescue your family from this madness and it won't be easy.   Be patient, kind, loving, and understanding.    Be all the things that your wife is not.    Lead by example.    Get your own body back into shape by whatever means it takes.    Do NOT eat any more of her new age crap.    It is slow poison to your body.    Read the other Q&A's and consider my recommendations.    Good luck.     

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First, we were told not to eat eggs, butter, cheese or gravy (no fatty meats).  So the wives dutifully deleted all this delicious stuff and substituted with soy shit and other tasteless inventions.  For the last thirty years I have had to choke down these awful concoctions my wife dreams up, or gets out of the women's magazines.  Simultaneously, I have watched her go from 107 pounds at our marriage, to 210 pounds presently.  And now, for the first time, I know why.  It makes me so mad we've been sold a bill of  goods, all to our destruction along with everything else being done to us.  We have lost our bodies, our souls, our rights, our gender, our morality and our country.   Not to mention all respect due to husbands (this is now a dirty word I guess).  This is pitiful--I showed your page to my wife this morning and she said it was all hogwash and that if you were correct, it would be in the magazines but it isn't.  She thinks if it is popular it is true, and if it isn't it is false.  I am so sick of being married to the herd.  All her girlfriends think the same way to the detriment of their victimized husbands.  Joe C.

Joe, the flaw in your wife's pronouncement as to her magazines proving right or wrong, is the fact that the great majority of those magazines as well as TV and newspapers are controlled by the left wing liberals (new age).    Also, many of the advertisers in the media are the very companies that are profiting from telling these lies.    If the magazine editorials started to tell the truth in these matters, they would lose advertisers and therefore lose money.    They are in the business of making money.    At the very best, they would just decline to write about any subject that would tick off their advertisers.    Here's a quote from my "Virgin Coconut Oil" book:    

"Back in the day when fat was "in", the fatter the pig you could raise the better.    Lard was the basic staple for cooking in the days of our forefathers.    It was found that feeding pigs polyunsaturated fats (primarily soybean and corn oil) would put more fat on them.    This is the reaction of the longer fatty acids found in vegetable oils, and is well documented in scientific literature.    Today however, we've come full circle with our new low-fat mantra, and the consumer demand is now for low-fat meats.    So how does one produce a leaner pork?    According to the Department of Animal Science of the North Carolina State University, during the "finishing time" before slaughter, you stop feeding them polyunsaturated oils and start feeding them saturated fats.    They used beef tallow in their experiments, which they found was a bit hard for the pigs to digest.    So some of the farmers are now actually starting to use coconut oil, a plant-based saturated fat, instead.    So what are the fats found on the shelves of grocery stores today, that make up the majority of the U.S. diet?    Polyunsaturated fats:  mostly soybean oil, which is commonly referred to as vegetable oil.    These are the same fats that have been known to fatten livestock in the animal feed business.    The saturated fats, which made up the diet of our forefathers, have been almost banned by modern nutrition advice.    The result:  lean pigs and obese people.."     Come to think of it Joe, I can't remember ever seeing or hearing about really obese farmers and ranchers.    Those who know the effect of the new age  crap on their animals certainly wouldn't feed themselves on something that they have personally seen would make them fat.    One thing to remember in all of this is;    If you stick to the truth in any area of your life, you won't go wrong.    God is the author of all truth.    If you try to follow His will in your life, His Spirit will guide you in good directions and steer you away from harmful ones.    In my whole life, I have never had the urge to eat anything that I knew had soybean products in it.    Since I established my own household when I was twenty years old, I have never bought and used margarine.    We always used butter.    There are other things that I instinctively avoided, not because I had any knowledge they were bad for me, but because I simply felt there were better choices to be made.    Today, at 68, I am close to my ideal weight for my height, normally healthy, with all of my original teeth.    My last filling was when I was about 15.    The only serious illness I have ever had was prostate cancer last year and radiation treatments took care of it thoroughly.    I attribute that success and my rapid recovery to my normally healthy body.    If you take proper care of your body, it can heal itself in absolutely amazing ways that we will never understand.    God is the Master Designer and Architect of all things and His work is absolutely perfect . 

 

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Hello Brother Graham and thank you for all your work. I came from a dysfunctional family where everyone lied constantly.  Everything was mixed signals, and I learned to expect betrayal.  This has caused me enormous grief all through my life, as later I married THREE TIMES, all with disastrous results.  When you get used to everyone lying and deceiving, how can you think anything else?   So what you have said about the government and the lying thieving food industries fits right into my universe.  I like your whistle blowing and I thank you for it--I knew people lied but not industries and now the government too.  Shirley Z. Tucson

Shirley, I sure hope you can find that one single honest man to fulfill your life.    It's hard because too many men and women grew up in circumstances similar to yours.    It all boils down to the ethics and standards you were taught as a kid and young woman.    I personally don't think I could come up with a workable, successful set of standards for my life on my own.    That is why I rely entirely on God's Word and do my best to adhere to His rules in my life.    It's not too late for you to do the same in your life and, who knows, it just might turn your life around.

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I have enjoyed your answers.  The one thing I can see is that TV IS A DECEIVER, not because of outright lies, but because of what you guys call "concatenations"--one subject following another, the trivial mixed with the important.  That is such a good point.  The sky could be following, but we wouldn't know the full import of it because the next thing we know it's a Drano commercial, or another bit of news.  That is such a good point but when you think about it, very frightening. Dorothy

Dorothy, when you see something happy on TV, you smile.   If something real bad, you frown.    If it's hilarious, you laugh.    There are many, many other things that elicit specific responses from your emotions that causes a change in facial expressions and emotional feelings.     When you watch TV a lot and it runs you through countless sound and visual bites, you get to a point that nothing phases you emotionally and you don't react with your facial expressions.    You reach a point where your emotional reactions are very minimal as your TV takes you through: babies, rape, spic & span, election news, hurricanes, Viagra, Sony, murder, stock market, history, Pepsi, religion, Valtrex for your herpes, comedy, soap opera's, Texaco, etc, etc, etc.    You become numb to everything and have no strong reactions, no matter what is being shown.    You become less than what is considered normally human.    You barely feel anything that doesn't personally affect you.    Yes, it's scary. 

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I really think you may be right about the soy milk, because BOTH my sons are homosexual and they have been brought up on all this new age crap.  My wife fed them soy milk from the beginning.  Now they are in their teens and into orgies after school, and pornography.  They don't act normal and I am wondering if it is the soy.  Also, my stupid spouse thinks "gay is ok" and we are on the right page nutritionally, even though she refuses to let us have any animal fat in the household.  She also hates God, and loves feminism and thinks we are coming into a utopia.  I am really pissed off about this whole conspiracy and how it has affected this family.  I knocked on my son's door yesterday, knowing he had a boy in there with him, and confronted him loudly and told the other boy to leave.  He was VERY ANGRY because he's been given free reign.  He told his mother when she got home and she was WILDLY angry with me but I have just about reached my limit.  I want my meat, my gravy, my cheese, my eggs and sausage for breakfast, silence (no rock music) in the home, no goings-on behind closed doors and no boy whores.  Roger NYC

Roger, read Q&A#487 + links and decide for yourself.    The other Q&A's that were put on today will just put more nails in the coffin of the "new age" crap.    When you look all about your life, there is insanity everywhere you look.    The herd will fight you with all their might.   They will assemble the armies of social pressure and the liberal media against you.    You will not only feel all alone in your own home, but your wife will poison all of your friends and family against you.    You need to be not only right in your mind, but very strong in your attempt to save your family from the world's lie-mongers.    I wish you the best of luck

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This is really a good site, because my wife has been watching TBN for years and they have many nutrition shows.  They show how to make eggs--just let the yolks go down the sink, and use the whites only. They show how to bake breads made with whole wheat.  They advise soy rather than olive oil (too fattening) or the dreaded butter (never.).  They actually say to use tofu instead of cheese (which is so delicious to me but haven't been allowed any for years).  They laugh at people who eat prime rib with gravy (YUM YUM, WISH I COULD HAVE IT BUT IT'S PROHIBITED IN THIS HOUSE) "after church" which has been a tradition in this country for hundreds of years.  Now we gotta choke down tofu, which is meaningless and DANGEROUS crap.  What can you do for this old sap, who is now old and is not "allowed" to change back to reasonable food, because my wife is a self-avowed "expert in nutrition".  (Why oh why, then, is she fat?)  Nelson G., Kentucky

Nelson, Sit your wife down in front of the computer and get her to read the links on Q&A#472 to Julie.    Soy is a New Age contrived gobbldy-gook fad that has one and only one purpose, and that is to make money from the easily deluded herd.    All of the 300,000+ websites that are pro-soy are making money from it in one way or the other.    The "proof of the pudding is taste" and in this case the proof of the soy pudding is whether or not it works.    Read the links and see what some of the really bad results come from ingesting soy products, especially in children.    Like you said:  If it's so good why aren't people healthier and not so fat?    If you really want to learn about something that can radically improve your health go to this link and read it:

  http://www.tropicaltraditions.com/virgin_coconut_oil.htm       It is just more proof that we have all been lied to over and over.    I have one gallon of this on order and am looking forward to trying it out.    Nelson, because you claim to be old now you really should acquire some of this coconut oil and just use it for yourself.    When you start to look and feel better, plus start losing weight, maybe your wife will start to get a clue about reality.    Meanwhile, refuse to eat or drink anything that you know is bad for you.    It's your body and it's up to you to treat it right.    Cook for yourself if you have to.    Make it a contest and challenge your wife to see who loses the most weight in the shortest amount of time.    She is effectively poisoning you and your kids with this soy crap.    It's up to you to save the day.

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On my fat, hefty, rebellious and dominating wife:  I have had to put up with the tasteless tofu and other soy products for years.  They are so bland and boring--and I don't get a good feeling from them at all.  I checked our cupboards, and indeed she does use soy oil as well.  She fixes pancakes on Saturdays-- with "organic" soy flour, "the best".  I have very irascible kids, constant noise and chaos, and marital fights for dominance in the home.  I showed her your page, and she went into a rage as if I were viewing pornography--anything that puts down her precious new age phony philosophy.  And yes, she is fat.  Thanks for these words.  Gerald, Virginia

Gerald, I've got macadamia, Brazil nut, and coconut flour on order that I'm looking forward to experimenting with, all organic of course.    And when also I get it  in, I'll use virgin coconut oil or melted butter to make my pancakes with.     The government and all of it's minions have lied to all of us on so many other things, it is no stretch of the imagination at all to believe that soy-crap is just another scam.    Put enough money in the wrong places and anything is possible.

 

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Would you want the egg whites alone, without the yolks?  That's what I have to put up with in my own home, along with plenty of flour, bread, rice, miso, tofu and other junk.  She gives me a three egg-white omelet twice a week, because even the whites she fears.  Meanwhile back on the ranch, she's FAT AS HELL.  I don't get it, but NOW I DO--I am married to a fat cow (moo).  Sal, Trenton

 Sal, life can sure be a bummer from time to time.   You and Gerald and Nelson are all in the same boat.    Now what are you going to do about it.    Don't just believe me.    Go to the web-sites that I listed on some of the other e-mails and gather the facts for yourself.    Do some more web-surfing and find more sites that will support what YOU decide is really going on.  Then have a meeting with your family and describe to them that this new age diet crap is not working, and does not work, and scientifically cannot work.    Karen is our expert on all of this and she is living proof of her diet recommendations.    I dropped 25 lbs with very little effort and no hunger or excessive exercise.    There are many e-mails from people on this list who have verified that they also have lost and kept the weight off.    Your wife had her chance and obviously failed.    Her new age diet fantasies don't work.    The bottom line for your wife is the question:  Is her being right (even when she's wrong) more important to her than the health of her family?     If she could admit that she might be in error on a few things, then would she not at least try some of Karen's diet recommendations.    First of all stop poisoning your family with soy-crapola.    Stop eating any starches and eat any meat products and all dairy products and not too much fruit and vegetables.    Above all "sugar is poison" and highly addictive.    Good luck.

 

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I thought I was happily married.  Then I found out that my husband has been gay all along, having numerous affairs on the side.  This was definitely what they call "down low" because I did not have an inkling that this was happening.  Upon reading it on the internet (i have sent you links) I am amazed at how naive I was to think nothing was going on.  I feel sick all the time and this has devastated me.  I don't know which way to turn because I was in love.  I feel sick to my stomach and I cannot sleep.  I just can't believe this is happening.  I actually wish I was dead.  Margaret V,

Margaret, life can be like a hurricane.    Sometimes what looks like a small tempest in a teapot will suddenly tear your house down.    That's where you're at now; your house, your life is collapsing down around you.    You were in love and he did not feel the same way about you, or he wouldn't have been doing nasty things with other men.    The first thing you should do is go to a doctor and get a blood test to see if your husband passed any little gifts (STDs) on to you from his friends.    You would also be crazy to ever crawl in bed with him again.    The eye of the hurricane is, of course, the divorce.    Sit him down and spell it out.    In no fault divorces, it doesn't matter to the court that he is in the wrong.    It's all about dividing the property and support payments.    If you were married longer than ten years, he owes you support payments.    If less, I would think that some support would be appropriate for a specified period of time (5 to 10 years).    You will save a lot of money if you can both reach an agreement to comfortably live with.    If you battle it out in the court system, with a couple of lawyers milking your miserable situation dry, there is no telling how it will turn out.    Chances are it will be settled by the judge pretty close to what you can both agree to in a peaceful manner.    Your husband will get off cheaper if he doesn't have to pay for lawyers and the court costs.    For that you should ask for, and get, a higher support payment.    A good paralegal that's in the divorce business can handle all the paperwork and file everything with the court.    If that doesn't prove to be practical, you can both use one attorney to do the paperwork.    I know that you didn't ask my opinion for most of this stuff, but it is the only practical help I can offer you.    After the storm, life goes on.    With the passage of time broken hearts mend, hurt feelings fade, and new interests develop in your life.    Grit your teeth and just get through all the crap and get on with your life.    It would help if you could move away far enough to not accidentally bump into him on occasion.    That will also give you new things to take care of;  getting settled, etc.    Distance yourself physically and mentally from your soon-to-be ex husband as soon as you can, so your mental recovery period will be shorter.     Storms pass and the sunshine always comes out afterward.       

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Hello Brother Graham, and I would like to ask a question.  I realize the diet dogma has been false, a made-up and stupid claim that has ruined the health of billions of people. What I would like to ask is:  is this why our country is  going down the tubes--because no one can think clearly?  Mary Anne B.

Mary Anne, I believe the answer to be NO.    Politicians are being elected and remaining in office because of their own selfish interests.    The are not serving our countries best interests.    I think that many of them don't even know what the best interests of our country are.    They focus on one narrow interest after the other and ignore the overall effect it will have in general, over the long term.    Our economy is so huge and complicated that there just aren't that many people around that could come close to comprehending the magnitude and scope of our problems, let alone effective solutions for them.    We are operating with an insurmountable handicap and that is this democracy that replaced our Republic that our nations founder's established.    The facade that our nation is run by a system of laws is about at the end of it's usefulness.    We can only watch as the coming transition period approaches.    It's not going to be happy.

 

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My daughter age 50 is letting my granddaughter live with her boyfriend (in her room).  I have been so against this, being a Southern Baptist.  She yelled at me saying I was "sexually repressed" and then she called me "old lady".  She said to mind my own business, and that if I dare say this again she will ban me from seeing my family.  I am 74 and this really hurts me.  I just can't understand how she could be this way, as previously we have gotten on pretty fine.  But this makes me very sad, and sick.  Dorothy B. New Mexico

Dorothy, I'm sure that you raised your daughter to know right from wrong, and your objection to what she is allowing your granddaughter to do was a strong reminder that she is violating what you taught her as a child and young woman.    When people are raised as Christians and reach adulthood, they are faced with the secular world and it's intense pressure to conform to the ways of the world.    They must make a choice between remaining true to God's law, or conforming to the ways of the world.    Your daughter has clearly made her choice and allowed her daughter fall into the evil practices of this world.    What you allow, you condone.    Looking the other way is also condoning.    I know that this is hard on you but, the idea of "peace at any price" is always a poor choice to make, whether it is getting along with your family or a country wanting to get along with other countries.    I would not wait for your daughter to tell you not to come over to her house anymore.    As long as your granddaughter is living what you know to be a mistake, I just wouldn't go anywhere near them.    Your daughter's verbal abuse to you is her guilty conscience at work in her mind.    She, no doubt, thinks she is being a progressive, modern woman, but she is just one more jerk that is, piece by piece, destroying the concept and beauty of marriage. 

 

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WHO CAN I KILL?  I LOVE cheese, butter, prime rib, greasy fried chicken and all the other satisfying animal fats.  But my wife absolutely FORBADE me to eat these things about twenty years ago, using FEAR to keep me from it.  Against my will, she stopped buying any of this, we switched to margarine, tofu, and other tasteless inventions of commercialized industries.  I am SO MAD ABOUT THIS.  The reason is, I have lost my lean good looks which I had twenty years ago, and have put on significant weight AS HAS SHE, the bitch.  I wanna know what to do now: sue her, divorce her or kill her?  Rodney B.  Houston

Rodney, go to Q&A#487 and read it and all the links.    Then order your wife to do the same thing.    Then tell her that you shouldn't have let her make all of these dietary decisions for the last twenty years.    Then tell her that all of her new age ideas have come to a screeching halt and that you are now firmly in charge of the health and welfare of everyone in your home, even if it's only the two of you.    Then do lead by example.    Don't eat anything that you know is bad for you and do eat what is good for you.    I've already spelled out what those things are enough times on this list.    You most definitely can get the lean look back that you had twenty years ago, and you don't have to starve or madly exercise to do it.    To make all of this easier to do browse this web-site thoroughly:

http://www.tropicaltraditions.com/virgin_coconut_oil.htm    If you don't order some of the coconut oil to help aid in your new diet, at least buy the book "Virgin Coconut Oil" and you will read some amazing things.    I'm about half-way through reading it myself.    The next thing to concentrate on is doing away with the use of the horrible drug called sugar.    That includes glucose, dextrose, and any other kind of -ose and most certainly no more corn syrup.    Read labels on everything.   Do buy Xylitol:    http://www.globalsweet.com/c/XB.html    I believe that it's the best sugar replacement product out there.    Stevia is another good one too, and is locally available.    Rodney, don't forget that your wife is a victim too, and you need to lead her in a direction that actually works instead of promising the health moon and delivering fatness.

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This is so damned discouraging.  I believed all this stuff I read in the magazines, saw on TV and even TBN.  LOW FAT, LOW FAT, LOW FAT, HIGH SOY, HIGH CARB.  I have believed it for three decades, and each decade I got fatter and reacted by deleting more fat from my diet.  And still I got fatter, still I read more of the magazines and decided to delete more fat.  I think they should be put in prison who have lied to us like this.  Martha, Mad as Hell

Martha, thank you very much for describing exactly what has been happening to too many people over the last bunch of years.    Your quality of life could have been so much better for a very long time.    No wonder you and (hopefully) millions of others are hopping mad.    Who wants to read or hear that you have been suckered into a scam of this magnitude?    Well, you're not dead yet and better late than never.    Life can still be pretty good for you.    Get on Karen's diet, buy some coconut oil and the book, some Xylitol, and get on with your life.

http://www.globalsweet.com/c/XB.html

 

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IF THIS WERE NOT SO TRAGIC, IT WOULD BE FUNNY.  ALMOST HILARIOUS, HOW AN ENTIRE CULTURE HAS BEEN MANIPULATED, ABUSED, LIED TO AND ENDANGERED HEALTH-WISE.   FOR HUNDREDS OF YEARS AMERICANS HAVE ENJOYED ANIMAL FOODS AND STAYED THIN, HEALTHY AND TRIM.  AND NOW, UNINTENTIONALLY, AS THE FEMINISTS HAVE TAKEN OVER, "FAT" IS IN.  WHAT IS THE MORAL OF THIS STORY?  FEMINISM IS SIN.  Tony G., Trenton

Tony, I can't argue with your conclusion.    Female goddess worship is the worst of paganism and is a false religion.    'nuff said.

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I am 83 years old and have eaten eggs and bacon every morning my whole life, with coffee.  I eat a cheese or tuna salad or sandwich for lunch and have meat for dinner.  I have excellent health and use butter liberally.  I have always thought the dietary "fat scare" was ridiculous because I learned the benefits of animal protein while in nursing school when young.  Oh, I also drink a little.  Everything they say not to do, I do.  Everything they say to do, I don't do.  Hope this confirms what you are saying, from someone who is old and knows better than the "feminists" who sure are fat (I'm not fat). Blanche C, New Orleans

Thank you Blanche.    You are proof positive that common sense is alive and well.    We both agree then, that if it works OK, then DON'T FIX IT.    For the last 30 to 40 years the fix has been forced on too many of us.    The question is:    Why isn't this an election issue?    It affects more people than this current banking fiasco.    Thanks again.

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I am amazed how we have been hoodwinked.  How are the foolish feminists linked to the soy oil conspiracy?  That is what I would like to know.  Is it just that women are stupid?  If men still ruled the home, would this have happened?  I would like to know what you think about this because I really think women are stupid to let this happen to the home.  It has ruined the health of the nation.  B. C. Filbert, Ohio

B.C., I take it that you are a guy.    You can't lay this entirely on the women.    Every household that is led by a woman has been allowed to do so by the man that lives there too.    I must also say that a household led by Christian principles is more likely to not be feminist dominated because that is against God's plan for families.    Women are no more stupid than men.    I know that probably doesn't fit your obvious bias against women but there it is.    Women are not a different species, they are the other half of us men when we're married.    Both men and women don't look so good when they go to extremes on most social issues.    Feminism is one extreme, and you appear to be on the other end of the male extreme.     Somewhere in between is more comfortable for most normal folks.

 

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So, not only have they sold our country out to foreigners, now they've ruined our health too with all their bullshit.  They've hypnotized us against DELICIOUS ANIMAL FOODS, and against DELICIOUS FATS, which we need to be thin, and made us eat food that has the tastiness of cardboard.  I am so amazed at this information.  I knew about Atkins but had not put two and two together about the SUBSTITUTIONARY foods which we've been told to eat--SOYBEAN SHIT.  I told my friends about it last night at the ballgame, and they just ignored me.  I told my wife and of course she just ignored me and told me to shut up about "such stupidities".  They all act as if I am speaking lies or banalities.   I don't know where to go with this information.  My wife will not let me change my diet to Atkins, because she controls the kitchen, the shopping and what goes into the refrigerator.  She also questions what I eat for lunch at work, and checks up on me with friends or office workers.  When did women become so dominating, anyway?  I have been afraid of her for years---but never realized it until now.  I would like to get rid of this cow.  I want my old chow.  Harold L.  Nebraska

Harold, look up Q&A#487, read it and all of the links, then insist that your wife do the same thing.    If she isn't totally stupid, she ought to get a clue that not everything is kosher in Baltimore (duh?).    Your wife and all her friends and family have been brainwashed by the liberal controlled media.    You can't fault her for not immediately throwing away everything she has believed for most of her life.    If she came to you and tried the same thing, you would probably be skeptical too.    She is also a victim but just doesn't know it yet.   Be patient, but be very insistent.    She must read and evaluate the facts, so how does she explain why everybody is fat while religiously following this new age high carbohydrate/soybean/low fat nonsense?    Tell her to get naked and look at herself in the mirror and explain that away.    Get your wife to read the Q&A from MARTHA, MAD AS HELL.    She really tells it like it is.    The solution is not to dump your wife.    She needs to be rescued from her conditioning.    If you allow her to continue, business as usual, she will continue hurting everybody with this madness.    You must win this fight.

 

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This really pisses me off that I've had to eat this crap when it's all just a commercial game imposed on us dumb-asses.  And its all come from the feminist generation that has no (hetero) male voice in it.    I had a heart attack five years ago and my "loving" wife totally restricted my fat intake from then, refusing to give me eggs anymore let alone any animal foods that have fat it them.   Well the other day I decided to eat breakfast out with my friends, just to have some eggs and bacon for a change.  She found out about it, went WILD with fury, locked me out of the bedroom, and slammed doors real loud for days afterward.  She acted like I had set the house on fire--or like I was a recovered alcoholic who had gone back to drinking.  I tried to show her this site and she refuses to listen to reason.  I can see through her now.  I want out of this world, this marriage, this fake diet dogma, this whole scene.  To tell you the truth I have been unhappy with the marriage anyway, but am afraid of divorce and what some liberal judge might do.  Danny I.

Danny, your wife's reaction is very predictable.    You have threatened her world view.    She is incapable of giving that up without a fight.    People won't, or can't admit to being wrong.    To do so would leave them open to "eating crow", if you know what I mean.    If she were to admit to being wrong, all of her friends would turn against her until she could somehow convince them of the truth.    In psychology, this is called "Cognitive Dissonance":

    "In psychology, cognitive dissonance is an uncomfortable feeling or stress caused by holding two contradictory ideas simultaneously. The theory of cognitive dissonance proposes that people have a fundamental cognitive drive to reduce this dissonance by modifying an existing belief, or rejecting one of the contradictory ideas.

    Often one of the ideas is a fundamental element of ego, like "I am a good person" or "I made the right decision." This can result in rationalization when a person is presented with evidence of a bad choice, or in other cases. Prevention of cognitive dissonance may also contribute to confirmation bias or denial of discomforting evidence."  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance

    In other words; your wife, and all who are like her, finds it much more comfortable to continue to believe a lie than to change her mind.    Hard evidence, facts, and common sense will not move people like this.    They have always been happy and secure in their false belief system and will fight you tooth and nail to defend their erroneous views.    The answer to this problem is to steadily chip away at her very wrong beliefs and to lead by example.    Refuse to eat anything that you now know to be bad for you. and obtain the things you know to be good for you, even if you have to put another refrigerator in the garage with a padlock on it.    Lead by example.    When you start to lose weight and have more energy, she can't deny the truth of what you are trying to show her.    Do acquire some coconut oil (and the book) from the sources I recommended from the other Q&As on this list.    It will make losing weight a lot easier and will improve your overall health.    This list has provided plenty enough information (with the links) for you to retake control of your life and lead your family in a more healthy direction.    Good luck. 

                                                                                                                                                 

                                                                          487

Hello BG.  You have said the reasons for divorce--adultery, mainly.  But what about a fat wife?  I have no attraction to her anymore, because she is so fat, and she SMELLS.  I can't stand having sex with her so she feels rejected and eats all the more.  I am disgusted, totally disgusted for her lack of self-control.  Now I see it's the KIND of food she eats, and her feminist attitude that I AM REJECTING HER FOR NO GOOD REASON, FOR SHE IS BORN THAT WAY: "designed to be large" like her mother and sisters who are also fat.  She says "people come in all sizes" and that I am being horribly unfair.  I hear this all the time on the TV but I think it's bull shit.  Please advise Steve

Steve, #1 - nobody is, or was, born destined to be fat/obese.    Your wife's mother and sisters do not have to be fat.    People do not come in all sizes, they are overfed to become that way.    When your body is too large to move fast, that is contrary to basic survival needs.    Have you ever seen a fat elephant?    Have you ever seen a picture of a fat polar bear?    They don't exist because they couldn't survive in the wild if they couldn't move normally by carrying around double their normal body weight like a lot of obese humans do.    The addled folks who started the "New Age" list of stupid ideas, really had to beat the bushes to come up with ways to do everything in a new and different way to prove their superior ideas (supposedly).    Anything traditional that worked just fine for the last thousand years or so was obviously inferior to them, so their new and wonderful science provided them with superior alternatives.    First of all they decided that fat makes you fat and gives you high cholesterol which causes heart disease.    A guy named Ancel Keys in the 50's connected heart disease with fat (his claim as a dietitian/researcher).    So his notion that fatty foods shortens your lifespan began as his hypothesis based on dubious assumptions and data.    Keep in mind that the medical database and tools available to him at that time were nowhere close to what medical researchers have available to them today.   Subsequent scientific attempts to verify Mr. Keys' findings have failed repeatedly.    Subsequent study has proven the following:  People with high cholesterol live the longest.    High cholesterol protects against infections.    Severe heart failure is less likely with higher cholesterol.    Children born with (low cholesterol) syndrome are either stillborn or mostly die early.    #2.  The next New Age stupid idea is the high carbohydrate madness.    Here is a web-site that lists diseases from high carbohydrate consumption:

http://www.second-opinions.co.uk/diseases_index.html     This next one is another page that will give a discussion about how wonderful a high consumption of carbohydrates is not:

http://www.second-opinions.co.uk/carbs-weight-gain.html    #3.  Last, but not least is the soy-crap scam that the misguided feminists swear by.    They should have their own flag featuring a pig's snout over a field of soybeans.    Once again, don't take my word for it.    Read and be amazed at the lack of wisdom from the "New Agers" (this one you can print out as a brochure and give it to all your fat friends -they'll hate you for it :)  :   http://www.westonaprice.org/brochures/SoyAlertTrifold.pdf    Here's more ammunition:

http://www.quantumbalancing.com/news/soy%20dangers.htm    The last paragraph in this one states:   "The bottom line is that the safety of soy foods has yet to be proven, and that human beings have become guinea pigs in what Daniel M. Sheehan, formerly senior toxicologist with the FDA's National Center for Toxicological Research, has called a 'large, uncontrolled and basically unmonitored human experiment.'" 

So, let's call this experiment on us a New Age benefit.    With friends like the new age feminists, who needs enemies?    So what is this soy fetish doing to our children?

http://www.wnd.com/news/article.asp?ARTICLE_ID=53327    This is confirmation of my own hypothesis connecting soy with homosexuals.    I just found this web-site today, 9-26-08. 

OK Steve, this should give you enough ammunition to blast away at your wife, her mother, her sisters, and all of her befuddled carbohydrate-brained friends.    The plan is for you to take charge of your family and guide them in a healthy direction.    You loved your wife once and you can again when she looks more lovable.    Don't give up on her.    She and her family are all victims of a giant commercial hoax designed by industrialists to make lots of money from the herd.    The New Age feminists, multiculturalists, homosexuals, and others who want to destroy the values and success of our traditional past, are all staunch supporters of the wonderful benefits of the noble soybean.    Steve, you must take control of your family if you love them at all.    Allowing women to be the leaders of their households instead of the men has failed miserably.    The proof of that is the fact that they are all fat and are breeding homosexuals.    During this transition of your reassuming the leadership of your household, don't be too domineering.    You don't want to become the kind of person that led to all that fatness.    Lead by example.    Some misguided women see more weight as having more power in their families, and if they lose weight, they will start feeling vulnerable.    

That is a psychosis and such women need to go see an examiner of heads (psychiatrist).    Your family needs you Steve.    Don't let them down. 

                                                                                                                                                

                                                                         486

Life is so hard on me right now.  I want to write you about it.  My husband announced two weeks ago that he is queer, called "gay" because I too see how sick this all is.  It started out him going to ballgames  with the guys.  Then he was out later--I actually thought they went to strip joints.  Well soon after that I got the surprise of my life when he said he preferred men, and that he thinks he was born to have sex with men, and that he was sorry and could we remain married for the kids.  Well I say to hell with that, but I need the stability of home and income so what else can I do?  I wish I were dead for all the humiliation this causes me inwardly--the outer world says it is ok but I see it as filth.  Ruth, Ohio

Ruth, my heart goes out to you and your children.    Nobody deserves this sort of thing.    First of all go see a doctor and get a blood test to insure that he hasn't already passed any STD's to you.    The great majority of homosexuals are promiscuous and the STDs go back and forth so you should be concerned.    Needless to say, any further sex with him is like playing Russian roulette unless you enjoy blood tests, which won't help you if you get a positive on something incurable.    Also, cleanliness in the home is an issue.   Getting STDs from a toilet seat is supposed to be a myth but I wouldn't take any chances with your children.    Your husband wants his cake and eat it too.    If you remain together, his influence on your children regarding his new choice of lifestyle can only be detrimental to your kids.    I would suggest you propose to him a divorce, but with visitation rights under your personal supervision every weekend if he so desires it that often.    This is, of course, contingent on his further adequate financial support for you and the kids.    If you don't work now, you might want to start something part-time.    I really wouldn't depend completely on him in the future.    Rainy days will come, so start saving up for them now.    If the two of you can agree on the support amount and the visitation issue, you don't need a lawyer.    A competent paralegal in the divorce business can do the paperwork and file it with the court.    Just about all states are "no-fault" states and fault is not an issue, just agreement on the money and visitation issues.    If you don't press him too hard financially, he just might go for it without divorce court and all the expenses that involves.    Ruth, you've been dealt a rotten hand and you must play it the best you can.    If you suspect any legal funny business from him, then do consult with an attorney.    Do your homework well, because there are differences from state to state.    It is in your best interests to take the leadership role in all of this.    Good luck.

485

WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA?  Did I read you right?  You mean the "wonderful" soy oil SUX?  I am so mad that I have been told to eat the bland tofu, and take the damned oil for the last thirty years .   I am what you call an "old hippie" and was just thinking the other day that I have very pale skin, grey dry hair (long), and pain.   I have noticed this in my friends too, and was thinking "nothing does any good--we all eat 'right' and are still sick.  Melonie, Nebraska

Sorry Melonie, what is, is.    You claim to eat right but have very pale skin.    That tells me you eat a lot of starches.    And as far as pain goes, in my opinion, more pain comes from bad nutrition than actual specific illnesses.    I'm not a doctor and I don't give professional medical advise, but on Karen's diet your skin coloring comes back, you lose weight, and you feel a lot better.    Karen has never recommended soy anything to my knowledge.    If you want thicker hair and fingernails, go to a drug store and buy a bottle of zinc tablets and follow the recommendations on the label.   That worked for me.    Don't give up.    The world is still a very interesting place to be and there is so much for all of us to learn.    Be your own guinea pig and see what works for you to have a better life.    You will never be a loser if you never quit. 

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Hello brother.  I have a problem which is really bothering me.  I work in an office where the two other workers are gay.  They are obviously very horny for each other because they are always kissing and going everywhere together.  This not only embarrasses me it kinda makes me sick inside, like I am surrounded by evil.  I depend on my job and can't get another for it is specialized and I have high pay.  I hate going to work each day.  John B., New Mexico

John, don't assume that being a squeaky wheel will get you fired right away.    What you are describing would bother me if it were a hetero-married couple acting that way in public.    It is unacceptable for anyone.    You might try a low-key approach with your supervisor and stress that their behavior is inappropriate, offensive, and distracting.    Their sexual orientation is not the issue.    Inappropriate behavior in a professional setting is the issue and would he (or she) get them to behave appropriately in such a manner as to not have you come across as a homophobic whistle-blower.    Nobody needs that because too many of them are neither rational nor stable when it comes to defending their preference.    You have rights too John.

 483

Hello brother Graham.  You are both hitting on some amazing and unbelievable areas here, and it is multi-dimensional.  I have read the things on soy, Candida, yeast, starches, sugar, homos, false churches, etc etc etc.  This is really good stuff.  I will keep reading, but I wonder if you can comment on this: My mother, in her late sixties, has told me and my sister that she is now GAY and plans on getting married.  My sister was elated about it all, and I thought I was going to die.  i want to disown my own mother and was wondering what you think.  Robert Nichols

     Robert, I hope you are doing your own research on these things.    If you do a Google search on "The Benefits of Soy" you will find over 300,000 web-sites gushing and drooling over soybeans.    Like most of us, I have been hearing about how good soy-stuff is for many years, which tells me that the herd approves of it, so it must be bad for you.    I did some research and sure enough, there it was;  it's just more herd-crap.    Concerning your mother;  you have a set of morals/standards/ethics.    They obviously tell you that what your mother is about to do, and has already done, is very wrong.    Your standards are not new to you.    They have been guiding you for a long time because they fit your sense of right and wrong, and have been a successful guide for your own personal behavior.    If you go through the motions of approval for your mother's sake, you will not be true to your own standards, to yourself.    For me personally, to go to what they will call a wedding, would be to condone what they are doing, and violate your own personal set of ethics.    The easier it is for people, in general, to do the wrong thing, the more prevalent doing the wrong thing will become.    I wonder if your mother even realizes who the alpha will be between the two of them.    I'm sure she thinks of this as a new and exciting adventure, but for me, God's Will rules. 

  1Co 6:9-11  " Do you not know that the unjust will not inherit God's kingdom? Do not be deceived: no sexually immoral people, idolaters, adulterers, male prostitutes, homosexuals, thieves, greedy people, drunkards, revilers, or swindlers will inherit God's kingdom.    Some of you were like this; but you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God will inherit God's kingdom.    Some of you were like this; but you were washed, you were sanctified.

482

What truly amazes me is that the world sees gays as '"cleaner" than straights, when in truth they are filthy by definition.  By practice, they are dirty.  This is quite a revelation because we were never taught this in school, at all.  Gays dress clean, but they are not clean. They look young and fit, but die early.  thanks for your words of truth.  Gayle B.

Gayle, you dress up their image by calling them "gays" instead of homosexuals.    The newest revelation about them is the apparent fact that many of them believe themselves to be born that way because many of them are sexually underdeveloped from being fed soy milk formula as babies.    This led to many boys being underdeveloped and girls overdeveloped way too soon.    To add insult to injury, many homosexuals are bodybuilding buffs and take steroids to speed things up, and some straight guys become homosexuals after they start taking steroids because steroids can lead to the development of breast tissue, smaller reproductive organs, and baldness.    I can understand why some of these poor souls might think that they were genetically born that way instead of being the victims of a giant hoax to promote soybeans.    The fact that the big money-makers of this hoax were experimenting with human lives probably didn't bother them at all.    They've been laughing all the way to the bank for many, many years now.    Dirty or clean or whatever, the poor saps are most of all victims;    Not from heterosexuals that believe in God's Word in this matter, but by money-grubbing industrialists and all of the medical pukes that aided and abetted their crimes against humanity.

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I think the Karen Kellock writings on diet are splendid.  I have seen it work in my own life--an immediate uplifting feeling, euphoria, streamlining effect.  I appreciate this information so much--all I need is a piece of cheese, my favorite food, or a chicken breast.  Next day, rotate--have some fish, an omelet.  Within three days the sugar and starch (bakery) cravings are gone.  Once in a while, take a fruit cleanse like blueberries for five days, or the grapecure. This is an excellent plan which means I don't have to give up fruit altogether.  But not right now, for whenever I hit the fruit I get bloated just like you say.  I think for awhile I will just be in solitude while I get my body together.  I will come out cute, and ready to attract a NEW MATE.  It's with God I have a date.  Lil from Montana

Lil, bless your heart.   May God always be a priority in your life.    Fruit is good occasionally but I recently learned from Harold that fruit dates are something to stay away from - Candida candy.    Do try to get a prescription for Nystatin from your doctor.    I've tried it and it worked for me just fine.    It's not enough for me to get and stay at a good weight if there is no muscle tone and muscular definition.    Muscles are made to be used and will turn to flab if not at least moderately exercised.    Karen maintains herself with walking and yoga stretching exercises and she looks good all the time.
Lil, do write us again.    I really liked your input.

 

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Hello Champion Guides/Glory Church.  I think what you say is true--the whole vegetarian thing, the vegan high-carb low fat thing is a LIE OF THE NEW AGE.  It sounds so "healthy" and it is written in virtually ALL THE MAGAZINES and all the health books of the last thirty years.  It is the "athletes diet"--high carbs and low fat.  Poor athletes.  How do they have any energy living on all those bloating salads, fruits and carbs?  What a laugh.  Anytime someone mentions vegetarianism, or veganism, I know they are strictly "new age", and probably "new tolerance" which is hell on earth.  So is vegetarianism.  For if you don't eat animals foods, what is left?  Bloating salads, fruits, and STARCHES.  Keep up the good work.  Suzanne Kentucky

Suzanne, you are right on track.    When I was a kid the first thing I learned about vegetarians is that they had bad breath.    Over the years I've found this to be generally true.    The vegan diet, if strictly followed will cause you to lose your teeth and your skin gets real loose on your body.    Yesterday I learned that one of the worst things you can eat is anything with soybeans or soy products in it.    Read the e-mail I wrote to Steve and follow the links.    Karen told me that in the 60's & 70's the country of India was forced to switch from their traditional mustard oil usage to soybean products.    It seems that much more money can be made from soybeans.    Very many people died from the forced change.    After that India also saw a great increase in homosexuals like here in the U.S.A. from the genetic damage caused by soy formula for infants.    What a great tragedy that we are being used as guinea pigs so some industrialists can make more money.    We are surrounded by lies on every side and the AMA just sits there nodding their heads wisely while holding their hands out to be stuffed with money from the American drug Cartels (Corporations).    And life goes on as usual.   

 479

The feminists have ruined the public school system, but they still rule the home and what their poor husbands and poor children have to eat.  They rule the stupid schools and they make the home stupid, with HIGH CARB FOODS, and low fat PHOBIAS.  My wife won't even let us eat eggs--UNLESS she takes the yolks out of them (down the sink they go) and she actually makes us EGG WHITE OMELETS which are so tasteless.  Then she won't let us use any salt.  Now that I have read this website I see the stupidity of it all and I have suddenly lost respect for my own wife.  And, she is fat (which I ignored until now).  You are starting a revolution in my own home.   Terry, Ontario

HOORAY FOR TERRY.    You get it.    Your wife is obviously trying her best to do what she believes to be the best thing for her family.    But, your wife's brain is like a computer and you know what they say about computers:  "garbage in = garbage out".    Your wife, like most women in our country has been lied to for many years from every available source; TV, magazines, newspapers, radios, etc., and of course they reinforce these lies to each other when they get together.     How can they perpetuate this crap when it obviously doesn't work.    Australia just recently passed the U.S.A. as the fattest country in the world.    We are no longer alone in the international obesity contest.    The AMA must be really proud?    Don't be too hard on your wife, she is just moving along with the herd mentality of her peers.    Your wife has been taught that if you eat anything with the least fat in it, it will turn to fat on her body.    To everyone with her mindset, that sounds right, but it is really extremely bad science.    Fat burns fat and starches produce insulin which causes hunger and the insulin also turns just about everything else you eat into fat.    Sugar (including corn syrup) is one of the three things that make people bitchy and cranky (and kids hyper) and is the main ingredient that makes people addicted to some foods and drinks.    http://hubpages.com/hub/Anti-Anxiety-Diet

"Sugar is the third primary anxiety stressor. Excessive sugar consumption increases blood lactate levels which may induce panic attacks in some people."     The Internet is stuffed full of information that supports the hard science of these things, and also "claims" sponsored by the ones who make the most money from pushing the starch and sugar drugs that starch and sugar is sooo goood for you.    It's up to everyone to decide to go with what actually works instead of what makes someone else the most money. 

478

Hello Brother, You said:

Romans 8:7

 For the mind-set of the flesh is hostile to God because it does not submit itself to God's law, for it is unable to do so 

I see this in my wife--she is ego, the flesh.  She is feminist.  So she is UNABLE TO SUBMIT--to me her husband, which is God's law.  Until she be Christian, in fact and in truth, she will never be a good wife.  Winston, NYC

Winston, make sure that you and your wife understand that submission does not imply a master/slave relationship or even a boss/employee situation.    When a wife is submissive to her husband that really allows a certain freedom for both of them.    Each relies on, and trusts each other entirely.    It is a certain mistake to give your wife the idea that submission results in a life of constant arguments where you, the husband always gets the upper hand.    The idea that a husband is always right, even when he is wrong, is setting yourself up for sure failure.    When you disagree with anyone on anything, work on the other person's perception of your point of view.    The words you use may call up something entirely different from what you actually said and intended.    It all depends on what is stored up in their heads.    Too many times people actually agree on some things but can't agree on how to express it.    It sounds silly, but it's too often true. 

 

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Roger here.  I read this page and the others.  I now see that I was horribly promiscuous.  I have joined a church and I have stopped my evil ways.  I can't believe how I bought the lie.  I actually thought it was masculine to be a male slut.  It really is dirty, unmarried sex.  I thank you for this.  I have also stopped starches--no more pasta but I love the doughless pizza I can put in the microwave.  never starch--again.  I am going to slim down and find myself a godly wife.  I am seeking a new life, without strife.  Roger your friend from Miami.

Roger, I sure hope you are serious.    If you follow through with your stated intentions, you won't ever be sorry.    Life can be so much more worthwhile if you stay away from the herd.    The herd is invariably wrong on most things.    Think about it.    The love of money drives everything in the secular world.    All of the big guns of the media is aimed at the herd.    So what the herd does, and believes, and buys is benefiting somebody financially but is not necessarily what is beneficial for the individuals in the herd.    Karen says; "all popular notions are wrong".    Watching what the herd is doing is a great way, for individuals who still can think for themselves - especially Christians, to gauge if they are moving in a direction that is beneficial.    Hang in there Roger. 

 476

I enjoyed the enlightenment about TBN.  They have food and nutrition shows which say the opposite of what you say. They sound so "true" but now I see it's all bull.  They ALL SAY THE SAME THING--could all these church channels be wrong?  They say whole wheats, grains, fruits and vegetables.  Raymond L. Waterton

Raymond, it was not my intention to keep people from watching TBN.    There's a lot of good sermons preached on many subjects that I wholeheartedly agree with but on a few specific theological issues, I believe some of them to be wrong.    I stated that it is wrong for them to limit their speakers to only those who agree with their personal theological quirks.    They are basically good people but I don't have to agree with everything they say.    I'm sorry if I've given people the wrong impression earlier.

 

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I have really gained a lot from the Candida writings of late.  I remember feeling very uncomfortable as a teen "all puffed up" in the gut.  It is a horrible, lazy, fatiguing, even painful feeling.  I can't get any nystatin because my doctor "doesn't believe in it". I am on SSI so there is nothing I can do. Do you have any suggestions how to get rid of it any other way?  Suzie L. Dayton

Suzie, I just wrote an answer to Harold's e-mail on this same subject.    Check it out and maybe it will help.    It won't do any good but, tell your doctor that it's your body and he doesn't have to believe in it.    Say you are willing to be his guinea pig to prove or disprove whether or not Nystatin really works, and you'll put it in writing absolving him of all responsibility.    He, your doctor, is just repeating what the other herd doctors are being told by the AMA.    He should try thinking for himself for a change.

 474

We are told not to judge—all things are equal.  There's no more hierarchy of values:  ugly is beautiful, fat is thin, courage is a coward, dumb is smart, bad is good, love everyone even the hood—there's no more conviction in which great saints stood.  Stanley H. Boca Raton

OK Stanley, I'll play that game:    Shoplifting is equal with murder.    The life of a baby has equal value to a murderer on death row.    A leach is just as beautiful as a swan.    Fat is thin just like black is white.    The courage of an individual is the same as the cowardice of the herd.    Dumb is smart when the dumb follows the lead of the smart.    bad is good when good has been eliminated.    Love everyone, even the hood, but hate what they do if it's wrong.    You can't change the past and the convictions of past saints will remain to us as an example, if we were only wise enough to adopt their convictions.    It's up to us to produce this generation of saints.    Don't look to the herd to produce them.

 473

Hello Graham.  I personally don't think it is possible a moral rev because of the generations which have passed.  The old people have been sassed, and the schools ok it.  How could you ever teach morals at this point, unless you put everyone in military camps?  Rick B. New Brunswick

Rick, I agree with you.    Look up the e-mail I sent to Ralph on this subject (partly).    The moral revolution is the one spearheaded by the far left liberals.    It has always been my intention to fight against these lie-mongers who are perverting our children and our society.    They are in the business of the wholesale destruction of families, of discrediting centuries of God's influence, and creating a Nihilistic madhouse to replace everything we hold dear.    We can only attempt to save those who are willing to be saved while we still have a choice in such matters.

 

472

Thank you so much for you take on the soy industry and soy in EVERYTHING.  This has been a life saver this morning because I have been taught for the last twenty years that soy bean oil and tofu ET. AL. is the best thing you could eat for protein.  It was to replace the dreaded animal protein and fat.  This is such an eye opener for me, as I have been sick for twenty years and fat.  I could not lose weight and now I see it's because I have been eating the wrong thing that is for sure.  I would appreciate any more comments you have on the SOY MYTH and any other MYTHS that have been drummed into us, as helpless victims of schools, magazines, feminists, and new age thought. Julie, Ariz

Julie, research everything for yourself.    You don't know me personally and I can't prove that I'm not just another rabble rouser, other than to give you links so you can more easily check these things out for yourself.    http://www.soyonlineservice.co.nz/   

 http://www.quantumbalancing.com/news/soy%20dangers.htm

http://ezinearticles.com/?The-Hazards-of-Feeding-Soy-to-Children&id=365518

http://www.mayanmajix.com/soy.html

    Read and weep.        Here is another website you might want to visit:

http://www.globalsweet.com/c/XB.html         Enjoy.

 

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I can't believe this thing on soybean oil.  I have been  told by everyone to "stick to soy"  so I have literally digested tons of tofu, miso, soy oil and every other thing for fifteen years.  And now you say it's just one more new age crap?  This is killing us?  I can't get over this.  Say more if you can, because I am literally choking with this insight.  It is SO AMAZING that butter and cheese and cream could actually be superior--the very thing we all love, but were told to hate--and that the substitute is LETHAL.  Dave, Wash DC 

Dave, go to the links I gave to Julie.    It tells it all.    It wasn't all that long ago that I thought that people who went down the grocery shopping isles actually reading the labels before they put something in their carts were really weird.    I was wrong then but I'm right now: soy anything is bad news for your body.    Do you have any enemies?    Give them all your soy supplies in your cupboard.    Once again, the AMA and FDA are right on top of thing$.

 

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I want you to know I have learned so much from this site for the last ten years.  It has been a life changer and the only other sites I read are those that confirm specific points.  Of late I really appreciate you getting into CANDIDA and now the "soy myth" that I was unaware of.  All you hear about is soybean this, soybean that.  I find it laughable that the crazy-ass feminists are probably behind this too.  I wouldn't doubt that they serve soy foods in school cafeterias--I'll just bet they do.  Atkins says NYSTATIN is the only way to rid Candida, and I agree--but I have one of the stupid doctors who REFUSES to prescribe it, saying Candida itself is a myth.  Among other maladies, Candida is CONSTIPATING.  I feel terrible, like "shit" when I have it.  I have learned to completely avoid sweets of any kind, even fruit, and starches.  Atkins says to avoid other "yeasty" foods like mushrooms and cheese--but I have never found them to create the Candida problem, never.  It is always, always sweets and starch.  Do you agree with this?  Kathleen G., Quebec 

Kathleen, never fear, help is near: 

 http://food-and-drink.become.com/beverages/nonalcoholic-beverages/smooth-move-tea

When Karen and I have an onset of candida you can actually see that your abdomen is bloated from it, and when we go through a course of Nystatin (twelve days, ten a day), the bloating goes away.    Sometimes you only have to take it a couple of days if you catch it early enough.    If candida is a myth then ask your doctor to prescribe something to get rid of the myth in your abdomen (duh?).    The link above will take care of your constipation.    I use the tea and it works.    If you want to avoid sweets, then find a good, healthy substitute:    http://www.globalsweet.com/c/XB.html 

I hope this stuff helps you somewhat.

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I am consternated about this soy thing.  Do you mean even ORGANIC TOFU is dangerous?  Or is that the same as ORGANIC WHEAT, which is bad?  I have been on soy for years now, because all the women's magazines recommend it for protein.  R. G. Boston

R.G., go to the links I sent to Julie.    The whole story is there.    I'm sure that there are also reams of stuff that are pro-soy by those who make money on it, but read it all and make up your own mind.    The science is there and the statistics of the last 35-40 years don't lie.    What's to decide?    Soy is bad news.   

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BG I really LOVE the new page on "fauna fasting" because I think that is the answer for me.  Otherwise, just stick to non-sweet fruits.  I also think the food industry adds sugar to sweet fruit, EVEN THOUGH IT IS NOT LISTED on the label, to addict us like you say.  I get very thin on low carb but sweet fruit starts a craving that I cannot control.  I get bloated.  It is not the answer for me, but meat works.  cheese and eggs work perfectly.  Just think of a dog or cat--they wouldn't want fruit, right?  And you say we have the metabolism of cats and dogs, so that is the perfect answer for me.  Incidentally, my girl friend is very into soy foods--can you comment on that? Steven 

Well cousin Steve, speaking of food, maybe I've found out one of the reasons why homosexuals are proliferating so rapido:  SOY in everything.  When a boy or man is truly genetically cheated by something that could have been prevented, I could see where he might want to believe that he is supposed to be that way.    After all, it's too late to change:

Male infants experience a testosterone surge during the first few months of life and produce androgens in amounts equal to those of adult men. So much testosterone at such a tender age is needed to program the body for puberty, the time when a male's sex organs should develop and he should begin to express male characteristics such as facial and pubic hair and a deep voice. If receptor sites intended for the hormone testosterone are occupied by soy estrogens, however, appropriate development may never take place.71-74 To date, most of the evidence damning soy formula can be found only in animal studies, because investigations in which humans' sex hormone levels are lowered experimentally cannot ethically be done. However, in the years since soy formula has been in the marketplace, parents and pediatricians have reported growing numbers of boys whose physical maturation is either delayed or does not occur at all. Breasts, underdeveloped gonads, undescended testicles (cryptorchidism), and steroid insufficiencies are increasingly common. Sperm counts are also falling.
http://www.quantumbalancing.com/news/soy%20dangers.htm    Talk about some scary stuff - this is it.   

The bottom line is that the safety of soy foods has yet to be proven, and that human beings have become guinea pigs in what Daniel M. Sheehan, formerly senior toxicologist with the FDA's National Center for Toxicological Research, has called a "large, uncontrolled and basically unmonitored human experiment."

    This is just the problems for the guys.    The girls have some scary stuff to deal with too, especially black girls.   

Soy now lurks in nearly 60 percent of the foods sold in supermarkets and natural food stores. Much of this is "hidden" in products where it wouldn't ordinarily be expected
Does anybody on this list eat anything at all with soy in it?    Maybe you should reconsider that.
 

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Hello BG.  I feel like I live in a mixed-up universe where bad is called "good" and good is called "bad".  It is so entirely mixed up that I feel I am losing my mind.  No one seems to have any values or ethics, let alone morals.  My kids are accepting of the most wicked awful and cruel things.  I love them but I do not LIKE them at all, in fact they make me sick.  I was brought up Baptist and never forgot my upbringing.  And yet, now, due to TV watching and the public schools, all these things are lost forever.   I really would prefer to live alone without these immoral idiots in my house.  I know they see pornography on their computers, I know they send nasty emails.  I have seen them.  I feel evil and dirtiness in my own home.  I think I could just live on my own income and be happy, maybe even attract a new man without these chumps here.  Please advise. Kathy, a divorcee. 

Luke 12:51- 53

 Do you think that I came here to give peace to the earth? No, I tell you, but rather division.    From now on, five in one household will be divided: three against two, and two against three.    They will be divided, father against son, son against father, mother against daughter, daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law, and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law."

Kathy, all of this was predicted by Jesus over two thousand years ago.    Your children are in the process of choosing the dark side.    It's up to you to show them a better way.    Who else is there with you that can do it?    Your biggest problem is the fact that you are outnumbered.    All the friends of your kids are doing the same stupid smutty things and getting away with it.    The government school system encourages everything that will undermine your authority as a parent.    They truly believe that they know much better what is best for kids than the parents do.    They see it as liberating the children from the old-fashioned ideas of their parents.    All this from the far left-wing liberals getting a lock on most colleges that turn out school teachers, years ago.    It will take a long, long time to turn this situation around, and personally I think it will get a lot worse before it comes to public attention through the media.    The liberal media will play it down because it will cause them untold embarrassment to the liberal party.    I have no sage advice to give you Kathy.    You were the one in the drivers seat that got your kids to this point and it's up to you to either fix it or eventually bail out.  

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Hello the Grahams.  I am looking forward to the next book because I know it will be about the moral revolution more than diet.  Or perhaps both?  I don't see the moral revolution as possibly occurring due to the breakdown over the last twenty years, but perhaps you will do some good.  The breakdown is worldwide and it is even worse in Europe.  The whole Western world is in the gutter.  I see the new conservative candidates "molting" into liberalism, again.  It's all a game.  The government doesn't rule, we are just their fool.  And the food--I think corn syrup and sugar is in just about everything, to addict us just as your other pages say.  You have to read all labels.  The food industry is a joke and most is from China--good nutrition is fables.  You really have to stay on top of things to stay healthy, so I congratulate you on this website which blends BOTH food and diet, with morality because in truth bad food LEADS to immorality, or the inability to think.  Thanks a lot for all your good efforts here.  My son, age 38, is a homosexual and I went along with it for 18 years, sort of looking the other way.  Now I see him differently too.  Just shows we're never too old to learn something or see things anew.  What matters most is God--I've given up on my son or family altogether.  We come in alone, and go out alone.  Ralph V. S Dakota

It has never been my intention to be the author of  "The Moral Revolution" but rather to give you the facts and God's truth concerning all the problems we have in common in this life.    I certainly don't "know it all" but I am fairly well versed in God's Word, with the experience of a long life, and the huge research engine called the Internet.    What I don't know is available either from God's Word or the Internet.    I'm sorry to hear about your son.    You probably know from reading this list that you will probably outlive him.    38 is a bit on the high side for most homosexuals to live.    I too (for other reasons) am estranged from my oldest son and step-daughter and it doesn't hurt any more.    My focus , like you, is our God and Father who has never disappointed me or you.    One of these days it will be over for us, but until that happens, stand up for God's truth which is absolute truth.    Right and wrong is not negotiable, it is absolute.    There are no shades of grey between good and evil.    What is according to God's Will is good, and what is against God's Will is evil.    There is no fence for the fence-sitters to sit on.    You are either on one side of the line or the other.    Looking the other way when a hard look at what is ugly makes you uncomfortable, is never a solution to anything.    You either deal with the truth now or wait until it gets much worse for you later, and then be forced to deal with it.    Hang in there Ralph and do the things that you can do now and don't fret over what might have been 

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The New tolerance says we must not just tolerate all things, we must endorse them as well.  My God what a smell: in a muddled down hell we dwell with leaders as an empty shell. G.D. LA

Like I've said at least once before G.D., these people don't want just equality, they want DOMINANCE and will eventually demand dominance.    They are not normal rational people. 

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I enjoyed the page on "fauna fasting" because I too have a terrible problem with Candida, as most of America does.  The more weight you lose on the low carb plan, the more uncomfortable Candida feels when it sets in again, and the potential seems to be always there.  I ate dates last week and BLOATED up like a couch.  OUCH.  I can't get a prescription for Nystatin, as most doctors are mistrusting of it and yet NOT of their other crazy, destructive drugs they so easily dispense.  The only thing I can do is STOP EATING immediately, begin to fast, and just pray it will leave.  A big protein no-sugar breakfast helps, then no food for the day.  Within a couple of days the bloat leaves.  The only problem is I crave fruit but that is just my Candida calling out for sugar.  Three days, sugar cravings are gone.  I feel like I have special information because all my friends eat starch, and won't accept it is just SUGAR and turns to sugar.   I thank you both for this mysterious and life-saving information.  Harold

Thank you Harold.    It's always good for people to add to our store of knowledge.     Karen told me that she also has a rough time getting  a doctor or even a dentist to prescribe Nystatin sometimes.    We haven't done the research yet but maybe it is available mail-order from Canada?  Dates are delicious but contain 60-70% sugar and they rapidly undergo fermentation.    That makes it candida candy for your stomach.    Without a course of Nystatin, you called it right and starved out the candida.    That was sort of hard on you though.    Live and learn.    Your friends belong to the herd and you obviously don't.    

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I am stunned that finally a woman is taking the husband's side in this continual relationship struggle brought on by feminism.  False feminism, that is.  Karen says on her website that feminism has brought on a continual nastiness or testiness in marriage, as women demand respect but are too arrogant to command respect.  They only demand it and bitch until they get it.  It is a continuous water-dropping of war and nastiness as women manipulate and snipe to get their way.  "Guilt-tripping and conformity to this world--that is their way."  I was amazed to know how universal this has become, across the western world but not, of course, in Muslim countries.  I am amazed to hear Karen a female actually take the male side in this discourse and it really does make sense that this IS the Christian way under male leadership.  I wish you would write more on this subject for I really do see the end of Marriage as we have known it and have seen it in our parents and esp. grandparents on back.  Kennedy G.L. Virginia

Kennedy, we respect those we admire and hold in high regard.    I do not admire micro managers.    I do not admire those who refuse to believe in the delegation of authority.    I do not hold in high regard those who belittle others as a means of imposing their will.    I can't stand those who put their own self-interest ahead of all others.    I despise those who prefer harsh words instead of kind words.    I will not associate myself with those who refuse to teach their children right from wrong.    I am repulsed by those who wallow in sexual impurity and other evils, and teach their precious children to do the same.    I am proud to attend to the necessary things in life, so my wife has the freedom to do the things she is very good at.    I am thankful that I have a good wife that takes care of all the things I am not good at or don't have the time to do myself.    My wife and I have a measure of freedom together that was not possible to us when we were apart.    Marriage is about freedom, being responsible, sharing, caring, loving, and above all loving and worshipping our God and trying to do His will in our lives.    Our belief in God is what binds us together in marriage.    What God has joined together will stay together if you keep your focus on Him instead of the stupidities of the world.    Who knows what is best in your life; You or God?    What is the answer to all the world's problems?    GOD.    The further a person gets from God, the more hell-like your life will be.    What do you choose for your life?

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It is interesting the article on "the problem with women" and the fact that Karen Kellock has just gotten married.  The bible says it is not good that man (nor woman) be alone.  This means celibacy and the single life is NOT the way, right?  Single celibacy is not the way, and married life is.  Male and female do complement each other, and it is a natural division of labor.  The new age says the opposite--that they're supposed to double up on jobs?  There is no more labor line and the females have confused everything possible there is to confuse.  And now you say they control what gets taught in the government schools?  This is despicable and unbelievable--they were not satisfied with destroying home life and married life, now they have to turn the boys and girls into gangsters and sluts, both illiterate.  How preposterous can this get, anyway?  What is the answer?  Vincent B. Idaho

Vincent, single and celibate is not a bad thing if you're mentally suited to it.    What the Catholics call priests are supposed to at least give the appearance of being single and celibate.    It all depends what you want to do in life.    In some circumstances having a wife is to hold you back from specific objectives in your life.    Also, single celibacy doesn't have to be for your whole life.    Personally, I am but half a person without my other half which is Karen.    Together we are complete, and we accomplish at least five times as much together, as separately going our own ways.     In science, there is no debate on the laws of physics and how things work.    You either get it right or things don't work.    Try inventing a machine to do something new without following all of the applicable laws of physics and it just won't work.    The generally accepted set of ethics and morals in our country that worked just fine from 1776 to 1976 were very instrumental in holding together the fabric of our culture and building the nation that we are today.    These ethics and morals were based on the Judeo-Christian heritage of our founding fathers.    The proponents of the "new morality" are claiming that all that has gone before is in error and that they are establishing something much superior to the old ways:  preference and tolerance is the new way and it is basically the idea that everyone makes their own rules as they go along.    Everything is allowed.    Also, instead of traditional teaching methods with reading, writing, & arithmetic, the kids get to sit around and watch movies in the classroom.    I can't imagine how they are testing these subjects (?) and/or grading them.    Of course sex ed. is the most popular subject in school.    I've heard stories where teachers have taken off their own clothes to demonstrate the various uses of certain body parts.    I didn't believe it at first but then I heard about the same (or similar) thing happening in another state.     Vincent, you know this is preposterous, because you have personal memories of how things were proper and right when you went to school.    You have standards with which to judge the actions of others.    All of these kids now are not going to have any such memories and they certainly won't have the basic knowledge and skills you graduated from High School with.    These kids are totally screwed when they try to enter adult society without any morals and personal integrity as well as being ignorant and illiterate.    Of course there will be many children that will make it OK in spite of all the obstacles, but the majority won't.    "What is the answer?"    I really do believe that things will continue to get worse in many areas of our society, and that this democracy that has been forced upon us will eventually collapse like all other democracies in history have.    Martial Law is inevitable in order to transition into something else.    The government continues to prepare for this while we continue to fumble along; fat dumb, and happy. 

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I agree totally with your article on "fauna fastarianism" because when I ate fruit I had Candida.  I'm not too into the non-sweet fruits like tomato.  I just eat the meat, cheese and eggs in "fauna-fasting".  I am just not able to metabolize anything else.  I believe that just meat-eating (inc eggs and cheese and milk) is the BASE of what is possible for man to digest, and if he hasn't become TOO screwed up from false diet dogmas THEN it is possible he can also digest fruit.  But in most cases of self-battering from wrong diet, the fruit will only THROW HIM OVER A CLIFF metabolically.  This I got from the Karen Kellock books and it has been the only thing in my library for five years.  Whenever I get screwed up, sure as shooting it's something I ate which ran counter to this  great and  grand and simple theory.  "Whenever in doubt,  return to meat.  Say No to fruit, it's the coffin you'll cheat".

"No to fruit", check out the links I put in "MR"s e-mail.    It might give you some ideas about expanding the the list of things you can eat OK.    Speaking of "False Diet Dogma's" how about; "fat makes you fat" - that's a lie;  high carb's & low fat - that's a lie; strictly vegetarian is the way to go - that's a lie;  Fruitarian (fruit only) is the king of diets - that's a lie; and it goes on and on and on - - - .Karen's dieting theories have been proven by many, many people and that we are a nation of fatso's is proof that all other kinky diet theories are junk.    Keep up the good work.

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Hello Brother Graham.  These emails remind me of my problem with my daughter who has become a lesbian.  She is actually proud of herself, saying "gay pride" all the time, or "I'm proud to be gay".  She says I am behind the times because I don't go "gay" and give up on finding a good husband.  She "struts her shit" (as she says it) in front of me, and I feel EVIL--AND I MEAN EVIL--in her.  I suddenly do not like my own daughter.  In fact, I hate her.  This is the only public forum I would say this in, and please leave my name out but kindly reply if you feel led to.  SF

 Titus 1:15
To the pure, everything is pure, but to those who are defiled and unbelieving nothing is pure; in fact, both their mind and conscience are defiled.
Romans 8:7

 For the mind-set of the flesh is hostile to God because it does not submit itself to God's law, for it is unable to do so.
Romans 1:28

 And because they did not think it worthwhile to have God in their knowledge, God delivered them over to a worthless mind to do what is morally wrong. 
    Led to, if your daughter is over 18, tell her to leave.    If not, forbid her to have any of her friends in your home and that she is to understand that se she gets of High School, she is leaving.    In your own home, civil law must support the fact that you make the rules and do not have to TOLERATE anything; most especially if she openly taunts you to your face about her evil choice and practices.    Make it very clear to her that if she can't be respectful of you and your set of ethics in your home, then she cannot expect any kind of cooperation from you and your wife; no money except minimum requirements, no rides anywhere, no borrowing the car, no gas money, no new clothes, no anything.    Let her clearly understand that she will not be allowed to shove her lesbianism down your throats whether you like it not.    For sure, not in your home where your set of ethics is the law.    Your do not have to bend to her school authorities who are encouraging the kids to be sluts and whore mongers.    Stand your ground and back her down at least in your own home.

 

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Hello Brother Graham.  This is about my Bear brother.  I now know that he goes to orgies, some in big cities with a hundred men to a room.  This is hardcore dirty filthy stuff he is involved in.  I am so thoroughly sure he is a lost man now.  I can't believe this could happen in my family.  My mother wants to be tolerant of this, to hold the family together.  I am really amazed at how devoid of morals my own mother is.  Is everyone crazy, or it just me?   I feel sick at my stomach that my own family could "digest" this crap.  I feel so sickened as if I am the one should be in a mental institution.  I feel as though I have no family, they only believe what the TV says they should believe, that everything goes. Marlow, Texas

Titus 1:15

To the pure, everything is pure, but to those who are defiled and unbelieving nothing is pure; in fact, both their mind and conscience are defiled.

Romans 8:7 For the mind-set of the flesh is hostile to God because it does not submit itself to God's law, for it is unable to do so.

Rom 1:28 And because they did not think it worthwhile to have God in their knowledge, God delivered them over to a worthless mind to do what is morally wrong.

    Marlow, this is what  God's Word says about those who defile themselves with wickedness and are inherently hostile to God and His Will for their lives.    That God Himself has "delivered them over to a worthless mind to do what is morally wrong" is to say that God will no longer try to save them from their own folly.    They are lost and will stay that way.    You and the rest of your family should reject your immoral brother utterly and wash him out of your mind.    He has stepped over that line of morality and should not be allowed to associate with decent people.    He made his choice, and now it's your turn to make your choice and stick with it.    Good and evil don't mix.    To compromise, like your mother wants to do, is to chose evil.    Nobody can have it both ways, because that's not God's way. 

 

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Hi Brother.  My wife thinks she is so smart, buying a pasta making machine and a bread maker. She uses "whole wheat" flours which are "organic" but can't put two and two together as to why she is fat.  She sees Atkins diet as pure hogwash, high in fat, and THAT IS THAT.  She refuses to listen to reason, only modern magazines and even the church channels are now chirping the party line about WHOLE GRAINS, fruits and vegetables.  In Champion Guides Book, the "forbidden seed" chapter shows how the ancient Egyptians died of the same modern diseases we have--and they had NO TEETH and also HEAVY OBESITY.  What a wonderful book.  Thank you so much. I feel I am privy to special information.  But how do I convince my wife?  I am no longer attracted to her because she looks like Pillsbury dough boy.  Simon, SF

Simon, believe it or not, I aim to buy a pasta making machine too.    However, I'm going to use nut flour, Xylitol for sweetening, butter & olive oil instead of vegetable oils, some honey, and a few other things that have no starches or bad carbohydrates.    If your wife doesn't believe Dr. Atkins' diet works, is she also a member of the flat earth society?    How was it possible for the entire country of Germany to believe in the Nazi way of life?    How could over half of the world have believed that Communism was the ideal way to live a happy harmonious life?    How could any sane, rational person believe that low fat and high starches in your diet could ever do other that what it has done to our country?    The United States and Australia are the two fattest countries in the world because of the lie that high carbohydrates and low fat leads to a slender, healthy body.    Tell your wife to get naked and look in the mirror and ask herself if she really believes that what she is eating is good for her.    If whole nations and empires can be convinced to believe in horrible gross lies that brought about their own downfall, can't she believe the evidence of her own eyes, that what she believes is wrong, and that all of the other obese people in our country are that way because they believe those same lies?    Follow the money trail.    All these fat people are making many, many people filthy rich.    If the truth were told and believed by everyone, there would be an even greater upheaval in our country than the present oil fiasco.    All baked goods using yeast would be severely affected, the prices of our thousands of acres of "waving grain" would drop like a rock.    There would be a massive switch from any kind of sugar to Xylitol, Stevia, and other sweeteners.    Our stock market would be in an uproar worse than what is happening now.    The AMA would be totally discredited and the FDA would become even more irrelevant than it is now.    Fat & obese is unhealthy.    The people who prattle that "people come in all sizes" don't realize that "most sick people come in large sizes".    Sugar is more addicting than alcohol or nicotine.    Alcohol is a  sugar in the blood stream, and sugar turns into alcohol in the blood stream esp. when eaten with baked goods as it ferments with the yeast which feeds Candida to give you a bloated stomach.    Candida is normally present in the intestines and is suppressed by a normal immune system.    Starch and sugar feeds Candida causing it proliferate which creates a craving for more starch and sugar, which raises insulin which lays on more and more fat.    The fatter you get, the less effective your immune system is.    In younger people they can get away with it for awhile, but the consequences will be the same eventually.    There is no getting around it - fat people are losers and obese people just don't realize that they are dying much faster than necessary.     The fatter people get the fear of fat increases and psychologically it drives people further into the lie that "fat makes you fat" and that low-fat and high carbohydrates will make you thin because it is low in calories.    Low calories is a strictly hunger diet.     If you flog your body into losing weight with a low calorie diet you gain it back because the hunger will never go away.    On a low carbohydrate, NO sugar diet you lose weight without ever going hungry and it easily stays off.    Hunger and exercise diets have failure built in and I, at the ripe old age of sixty-eight will be damned if I'm ever going to lock myself into a miserable cycle of frantic exercise and starvation just to maintain a healthy weight.    Karen's diet works which is why I've lost 27 lbs so far, without hunger, and I look better and feel fine.    This is not rocket science because even dummies like me can do it.    Tell your wife "I said hello".  

                                                                       

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I tried raising my kids right, until my wife decided to be "tolerant" of them and she thinks it is ok to have their boyfriends and girlfriends in their rooms with the door locked.  I agree with you that this should be PROHIBITED.  Do you really think this should be a house rule? My wife is a fool, NYC

Dear NYC, There is civil law, military law, church law, and family law.    Your minor children are subject to the rules that you, the parents, establish for your household with no recourse (no choice or appeal).    Family law cannot violate civil law and shouldn't violate God's law, otherwise you are in authority over your children and are obligated to lay down the law to them.    It is not your wife's place in the scheme of things to have the sole authority to arbitrarily decide it's OK for kids to behave in an immoral manner in your home.    I assume that you live in the same house with them.    You are supposed to be the head of your household and as such you are the tie-breaker when it comes to disagreements with your wife.    It's in your marriage contract.    If you are indifferent to the welfare of your children, or if you even hate them, then by all means let your wife have her way because she obviously hates them too.    The only other motive she can possibly have is the fact that she is simply stupid.

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I have enjoyed this site tremendously.  My diet has changed, dropping starch out, and thin in.  I feel a thousand times better and all other maladies have healed too.  This truly is a revelation and I thank you for it.  The weight loss was fantastic and simple--and pain free.  I am eating the foods I enjoy anyway--all the more because these are the foods I had deleted from my diet during my "low fat, high carb" era of listening to the "diet experts" which was pure folly. M. R., Michigan 

M.R., glad to know you're making progress.    Karen and I are going to start experimenting with a few things that will imitate some of the things we gave up by deleting starches (bad carbs.) from our diet.    The first thing we wanted was to find the best sugar substitute.    Most of the ones commonly known use chemicals that are questionable in my mind.    Dr. Atkins recommended "STEVIA" as an acceptable substitute.    The one that looks very promising right now is Xylitol powder http://www.globalsweet.com/c/XB.html .    Another thing is something to replace flour for making cookies, shortbread, etc. (nothing that requires yeast because that brings on candida - bloating).    The two possibilities we found were various nut flours and coconut flour, especially from brazilnuts, which is considered a superfood by many.    http://www.nuts4u.com/asp/s-type.asp?Category=8

http://www.purezing.com/living/food_articles/living_articles_coconutflour.htm    Honey is another thing that is OK to eat and we will probably experiment with Xylitol powder and honey in various recipes.    http://www.thriftyfun.com/tf25215414.tip.html    We will use olive oil and melted butter instead of any vegetable oils.    All of this talk about food is making me hungry so that's it for now

                                                                                                                                                                          

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You say that the prisons are owned commercially, incurring repeat offenders.  What about the school system, and the NEA?  If that is a business like the prisons, in what way would immorality and teaching perversity perpetuate the business?  Jack V Ph.D.

Jack, There is business for profit, like the prison industry, and there is the the kind of business where you only get paid in social coin.    When your goal is to make money by providing a service, then you do what is necessary to promote your trade.   In the case of prisons; more bodies = profit. 

When your goal is to achieve equality with a social mind-set that existed fifty years ago, you make your plans and use whatever tools you can control and bring to bear.    I'm talking of the cabal of feminists and homosexuals, who intermingle quite freely.    They have mutually supporting goals which are not just social equality, but clear dominance in our society.    The stepping stones to dominance are quite clear:    Dominance of the Media; Dominance of the school systems through the NEA; Dominance of Hollywood celebrities; eventual political dominance.     Did I leave anything out?    The NEA and our ruined school systems will bring that which is much more valuable than money:  POWER.    These idiots think that by creating a total Nihilistic society, where everything is allowed, they will achieve control.     When democracies fail, a dictatorship follows and it won't be led by feminists and homosexuals.    There aren't many of those in the military.    The best we can hope for is a benign rule under Martial Law for several years while we pick up the pieces and eventually have a facade of democracy under the One World Order.    NEA thinks they will profit and the school system is their chosen weapon against society.    The casualties are already enormous.

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I am absolutely disgusted with my teenagers, who are just like the emails you get.  They are blatantly perverted sexually, and the way they act is terrible.  They bring other teens here, close the door behind them, turn the music  on very loud (i hate that kind), and I just "know" what's happening in there.  I have lost much weight on karen's diet and I was starting to really get happy--and now this.  It is more disgusting to me than I can even describe.  Nicole B. NYC

Nicole, like I've told others, when you tell them to turn their music down and they don't, flip the circuit breaker to the power in their rooms off and put a padlock on it.    If they defy your rules in your home, let there be consequences.    Get their door knobs changed to closet-type door knobs - no lock.    You don't have to be disgusted.    You just have to demand that they follow your rules.    Don't let them have any friends over any more for a while until they can change their tune.     You talk as if you are at their mercy and can do nothing about it.    RESPONSIBILITY AND AUTHORITY GO HAND IN HAND.    You are responsible for your children so therefore you have authority over your children.    That's the law.    YOU DON'T HAVE TO TOLERATE ANYTHING YOU DON'T WANT TO.    If you don't exercise your authority, you won't have any authority.    I am totally disgusted with parents like YOU that bitch and moan about your kids, then refuse to do anything about it when you have the authority to do so.     Then to add insult to injury, you tell the world on this web-site of your gross incompetence as a parent.    Doesn't that embarrass you?

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I can't believe how fast EVERYONE seems to be getting fat.  It's like a bad nightmare, going out in society and leaving home.  I went to a college reunion and EVERYONE THERE WAS FAT.  I couldn't believe my eyes.  You guys are doing a good thing but how do we get you out there?  You must tell the truth.  Sue

Sue, one of Karen's friends went to her daughters baby shower with thirty other women.    She is 69 and a bit corpulent but not what I would call fat.    She said that she was easily the oldest person there but by far the slimmest.    Most of them outweighed her by 40+ pounds (approx.).    You are right, everyone is getting huge and most of the medical geniuses running the health care ship of state in our country doesn't have a clue.    Dr. Atkins, Dr. Kellock, and a few others got it right and people are losing weight with their recommendations but how does that help?    I'm surprised that some lawyer hotshot doesn't sue the health care gurus at the top under the RICO laws.    That's what they use to stop monopolies and racketeering.    Who benefits the most from all the ailments and problems that automatically comes with being obese.    Follow the money to catch the culprits. 

 

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I appreciate the thing on "wet brain" that karen put on this morning.  I have seen this in many of my drinking friends: the beginnings of wet brain.  They can't be relied on because of the lack of  short-term memory.  Even drinkers of "wine with dinner" demonstrate this short-term memory deletion and I'm sure it's a major reason for lay-offs.  Pornography, and drinking don't make good workers.  I have stopped drinking completely and now I have stopped watching TV, and I feel like a "kid in the fifties", very happy as new hobbies and interests open up, things I never would have been receptive to in the recent past due to drinking and TV.  I appreciate these multi-faceted new angles, because alcoholism is an epidemic, and thus wet-brain is epidemi--and does that not explain why we are now a third-world nation?  Irving G.

Irving, we are well on our way to becoming a third world nation for sure.    Excess in any form is bad for you whether it's alcohol, eating, TV, and other things.    Pornography is evil under any circumstances.    Life can be good when you're not overloading on something.    Why people set themselves up for failure is a mystery.    You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him think.

 

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Because of your marriage to Karen Kellock, it has started me thinking about marriage in general:  what it means, what it most NOT mean, and what is strictly prohibited and what is allowed.  We have been, I think, hypnotized by the new age counterfeit, concerning marriage as just one example.  What does marriage mean to you, personally--besides sex and a helpmate?  Sal M.

Sal, here's an excerpt from an essay I'm working on:

Context:  Hebrew and Christian laws and customs have always included the Lord our God as a third party to the Covenant of marriage.    The reference for this is from the book of Malachi 2:14 in which it states that God is acting as a witness to the union of a man and his wife in the covenant of marriage:  " - It is because the Lord is acting as the witness between you and the wife of your youth, - - she is your partner, the wife of your marriage covenant."    This ís confirmed by the Lord Jesus in the book of Mark 10:7-9  "But at the beginning of creation God made them male and female.    For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.    So they are no longer two, but one.    Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."    This is a clear admonishment to mankind that God is the principle witness and authenticator to the covenant of marriage.    God joins together, not man.    The Constitution of the United States clearly draws a line between church and state.    Nowhere in the Constitution does it indicate that a function of the State is to grant permission for a man and a woman to enter into the covenant of marriage.    Marriage is a strictly religious covenant before God.    The American government has usurped God's Authority by creating the fiction that only government can issue permits to marry and only be dissolved by government action.    This is in direct conflict with the scriptures quoted above from God's Word, the Bible.    In law where there is conflict, the original law prevails over the subsequent error. (end of excerpt)    The bible verses quoted above also lays to rest the idea that homosexuals can ever pretend to a covenant marriage before God.    The best they can do is a civil marriage authorized by man which I have shown here is unlawful according to God's covenant laws.    As far as what is prohibited and what is allowed, that depends wholly on the married couple.    To my knowledge, there are no biblical rules of conduct for what goes on behind closed bedroom doors.    As long as neither wife nor husband has any objections or twinges of conscience, what you do is your business.    What causes no harm is allowed in my opinion.    I do have a problem with people who want to discuss their marital activities with others    If what you do offends the ethics of others then you are giving offense to others.    Silence is golden.    Getting back to civil marriages verses covenant marriages, I believe that one of the reasons the divorce rate is so high is that by the government taking over marriage from the church, people do not take marriage nearly as seriously as they should.    Even those married with a "church wedding" have the same lax attitude toward marriage because the License to marry, marriage certificate, and the pastor's license to marry others has made marriage just another government contract to be dealt with as you wish.    Paying lip service to God during the wedding is a token effort to include God in your marriage, but is soon forgotten.    If God were the central figure in your life, the oath you took before Him to enter the covenant of marriage would motivate you to believe that your marriage is permanent and binding.    This only works if both of you believed the same.    I could go on and on but that will do it for now.

 

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I found this info on the prisons incredible.  Kickbacks to the judges?  Things are getting worse and worse.  This is unbelievable information--are you going to put this in a book?  It would be a best seller.  Judy, Nebraska

Judy, not kickbacks, it's legal funds distributed to retirement funds for the chief upholders of the law.    I'm not suggesting anything illegal is going on here.    So why is it always a mystery when judges rule harshly against one group of people and mildly for another?    Follow the money trail and it will tell the tale.    Who benefits and why is everyday law totally divorced from our Constitution?    This "matrix" has been building for 140 years and we are close to the end of the governments democracy.    This could not have happened if we were still a Republic governed by Constitutional law instead of our mob rule democracy.    Isn't all of this interesting?

 449

I found out my wife was "turning tricks" on the side.  It devastated me because I thought we were in love.  We had been married ten years.  People think men don't cry, nor have emotions.  This is not true.  I can't seem to get over this, because I work and I gave her an allowance.  Why did she have to do this?  I even heard from one of her ex-friends that she is a lesbian at times.  What has happened to my family?  Is this just because we weren't Christian?  I have morals even though I am not Christian.  Tom

Mat 7:24-27

"Therefore, everyone who hears these words of Mine and acts on them will be like a sensible man who built his house on the rock. The rain fell, the rivers rose, and the winds blew and pounded that house. Yet it didn't collapse, because its foundation was on the rock. The rain fell, the rivers rose, the winds blew and pounded that house, and it collapsed. And its collapse was great."

Tom, go to a doctor and get a blood test to insure your wife didn't pass any "gifts" to you.    Your personal welfare comes first here.    If you were married for ten years you probably have children, and if so, that's a tragedy.     The children always suffer the most in these situations and they often carry scars from a broken home for the rest of their lives.    However, you're in the middle of a mess and must deal with it the best you can.     This difference between Christians and non-Christians is simple in concept but difficult to explain.    When a child is born, it's little brain is practically empty of knowledge, it operates purely on hard-wired instinct.    The process of filling that brain takes a lifetime.    A persons mind is continually filling itself with information from the senses and intellect.    What happens when the mind receives erroneous and polluted information?    Your mind processes it and comes to erroneous conclusions.    What are erroneous & polluted information?    Pornography, lots of TV violence, portraying promiscuity as normal and acceptable, lies about reality and calling it tolerance and preference.    lies about morals/ethics/standards, and the idea that truth can be changed to suit yourself.     Your mind will fill itself with whatever you expose it to, like a computer;  trash in = trash out.    When people accept trash as reality and acceptable, they won't make good decisions in their lives, most definitely when those people are children and parents do nothing to protect the kids from filling their minds with trash and thereby acting like trash, and becoming trash.    Your wife obviously picked up an unhealthy dose of pure garbage to fill her mind with.     She convinced herself that turning tricks and involvement with lesbians was OK as long as she didn't get caught.    Well obviously she's caught and now you have to deal with her.    I could never believe that she would "turn over a new leaf" and permanently correct her ways.    For her to claim such would mean she would just be more careful to not get caught next time.    Some lines, when crossed, lead to a one way street and there is no turning back.    Getting back to Christians:  A person can be morally upright and have high standards/ethics whether or not they are Christians.    I have known many people on both sides and have observed non-Christians who acted in a more righteous manner than Christians.    That's not the way it is supposed to be, but that's the way it is.    Being a Christian will insure that your soul goes to be with God when you die, but it doesn't keep you from making dumb mistakes.    Ideally Christians are supposed to follow God's truth in their lives but the fact is that all of the trash and lies promoted in our society are strongly competing with all of the good things found in God's Word.   The problem is simply exposure.  

When people are exposed to trash and garbage 95% of the time and God's influence 5% of the time, what do you think will fill peoples minds most of the time.    What is happening is that the 95% is proclaimed to be normal and acceptable by the dirt-balls of the world, and God takes a back seat even in the minds of His people.    The fact that people don't see much of a difference between Christians and others is something that Christians everywhere should be ashamed of.    People who fill their minds with God's Truth instead of the lies of the world, are building their houses on a firm foundation of rock.    Your wife built your home on a foundation of sand, and the rain of lies came, the rivers of tolerance rose, and the winds of evil came and destroyed your home, and the destruction to your life and in your heart is great.    My heart goes out to you and I wish I had more to offer you.    The reason I am always making these long explanations is my belief that if people understand the different aspects of their problems and what led up to their problem, they are at least half-way to coping with and solving their problems.    When people are surrounded by the mess they are in, it's hard to be objective.    Good luck.

 

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My wife is a liberal feminist, and she believes in lesbianism.  She has been accusing me of abuse for five years but I have never hit her.   She picks fights constantly and nags me to death.  She says now she will be happier with a lesbian lover.  She acts disgusted with me and all men.  I don't see what I did to bring this on?  R. V. Dallas

R.V., you didn't do anything to bring this on.    She is purposely trying to provoke you into hitting her.    That you are heading to a divorce is obvious.    If you can be made out to be a batterer, then she will have it a lot easier to convince the judge to rule in her favor.    It's also obvious that she doesn't love you or deserve a decent man in her life.    Be very careful with her.    She is not above getting someone else to bang her around and then pin it on you.    In her mind the ideal situation is that you are forced to walk away and she remains with all of your funds and possessions.   You should separate yourself from her as soon as possible.    Good luck.

                                                                       

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I'm scared to death.  What happened on wall street in your perspective?  STEVE

Steve, if you will remember that a while ago I stated that some very large financial institutions will start to fail this year and continue into next year.    Well, it happened a little sooner than I expected.    I also said that the Dollar will take a dive and precious metals will "shoot up".    I don't think I said much about the DOW and the stock market but the value of the dollar is closely tied to the value of the stock market.    All large corporations that are based on finances instead of a marketable physical product are at risk and I wouldn't be surprised if some of these large insurance companies started to fail also.    This morning on the news I heard that AIG might be in trouble and we'll just have to wait and see how many more will falter and/or fail.    Do you remember the 9/11 twin towers attack?    The planes hit first, then internal stresses on the structures finally caused both structures to collapse.    Well, in the stock market, the planes have hit Wall Street, and the internal stresses on the whole economy will trickle down causing a snowballing effect of failures because everything is interdependent and when key components fail, everything down the line is at risk of failing also.    This phase of our economic decline started with the rush of sub prime mortgage lending.    Then the financial institutions had more fodder to put together even more financial bundles called derivatives.    So when a lot of these bad loans (sub prime loans) started to get into trouble because of the increase in interest rates to where people couldn't make their mortgage payments, the housing bubble burst which leads to the failures of these large financial institutions.     I really think that this is way past the governments ability to fix.    They are talking about combining all the government regulatory agencies into one.   That just means that when this super-agency makes even more mistakes, the effect will be worse.    The government continues to consolidate power into the hands of fewer and fewer people which will make it just that much easier to impliment Martial Law when the necessary disasters occur.    At this time, Wall Street might recover somewhat and continue to struggle on.    This is all no surprise to me.    I't's going to get worse.    The only thing unknown is the timing of it all.

 

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I think, I know, my wife is trying lesbian activities.  I really makes me feel at a loss.  I can't believe my wife of 19 years would be acting like this in her forties.  It started with over-closeness to her friends, and then I caught them kissing (French).  She said they were just close friends.  Then she started staying out late at night and she is beginning to look like a dike.  I confronted her--and she started crying like as if she was "in love" with her woman friend.  What can I do?  She refuses to have sex with me.  Rick, NJ

Rick, for every mistake we make in life there are consequences.    Sometimes when a loved one makes a mistake, you have to be the one to decide what those consequences are going to be and when it is going to happen.    This is not setting yourself up as her judge, jury, and executioner.    The fact is that God has already judged everyone who perverts the sanctity of marriage.    Your wife has made a choice which makes her unclean as far as you are concerned.    She refuses to be your wife and the only solution I can see for you is to remove her legally from your life.    Any continued contact with her will only cause you more heartbreak and misery.    For you to continue to live with, and support her is not what she deserves.    When a person steps over that line and enjoys anything that they find on the other side of the line, there is no turning back.    She might later claim that she was wrong and wants to get back with you, but you can't trust or believe that.    Her heart is soiled and her conscience is greatly diminished.    If you don't have any kids at home, I would change the locks to the house and not let her in.    She made her choice so let her go live with her choice.    Don't spend another night in the same house with her.    The life-changing mistake is hers therefore the consequences should be hers to put up with, not yours.    This might seem a harsh approach to you but the consequences are inevitable and you are better off to get through it sooner than later, prolonging your anguish. 

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I was a Sunday School teacher in one of the major churches in Houston.  I won't say which one.  I was accused of molesting a child and was brought up on charges by the parents. It is NOT TRUE.  I stopped going to the church and now I wish to say that I will NEVER, EVER be around a child again unchaperoned.  It is because this kind of thing happens very easily--the parents start getting together and talking, prodding the child to accuse the innocent, and that starts the ball rolling.  This has been a major stumbling block in my life and it has filled me with shame, even though I did nothing to deserve it. I happen to love children.  My wife wants to divorce me because even though she says she didn't believe me, the shame is contagious.  Please advise. Clarence

Clarence, there are two aspect to the accusation of child abuse.    The first is what actually happened.    The second is the emotional response to the accusation by everybody that hears of it.    This is a hot button that everybody is reacting to depending what kind of information about child abuse is stored away in their memories.     For those who were abused as a child, the emotional response is red hot.    For those with very little contact with children in their lives, they might be willing to first evaluate the facts before they react.    The emotional reaction is rarely actually connected with the actual facts of the accusation.    This is a primal response of parents protecting their young.    Unfortunately, this primal emotional response, shared by the great majority of adults, is strong enough to ruin your life.    The mere accusation is enough for too many people to automatically form an opinion of you as a person, regardless of the facts.    You are guilty until you can prove yourself to be innocent, which is many times impossible.    Your only defense, besides getting the children to tell the truth without interference from their parents, is your personal track record.    When you go into the military and they require a security clearance in order to do the job they want to train you for, they do a background check.    You fill out a form detailing your life; where you've lived, where you went to school, etc.    This is actually checked out to see if you are telling the truth or possibly hiding something.    The theory is that:  As you have honorably lived your life in the past, you will continue to live your life in the future.    People just don't suddenly switch from living an honorable life to one of evil.    If your wife doesn't know you well enough to believe in you according to the track record she lived with you every day, I can't believe that she really loved you all that much.    The same thing goes for your friends and other church members.    They know you and know your track record there in the church.    People don't just go from being a good guy into being a deviant jerk overnight.    In spite of your track record, there will always be those who are quick to believe the worst of you regardless of any other consideration. 

Matthew 5:44 "But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, - " 

Clarence, you got into this mess because of a false accusation and the wrongful knee-jerk emotional response of everyone involved.    It would be very normal and human for you to have an equal knee-jerk response to your persecutors and hate them and stay angry for years.    That is not the Christian way.    If you become equally hostile against them, then you become like them and that is the last thing you want to be, like them.    My prayer for those who have decided that I am their enemy is:  "Lord God may your Will be done in their lives according to Your mercy and justice" (and name them individually).    If those people are living according to God's Will, my prayer is a blessing.    If those people are not living according to God's Will, my prayer is a curse because; 

Romans 12:19   "Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, "Vengeance is Mine, I will repay," says the Lord.

Clear your mind of all hostility and hurt.    Deal with your present problems intellectually, not emotionally.    Put all the hurt and anger into a separate compartment of your mind and keep a lid on it until this is all over.    Don't doubt that you can do this, you can, even if you've never dealt with a problem this way before.    Seek God's Will in all things and He will give you what you need to get through this.    My prayers are with you Clarence.  

 

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Well, go to hell.  You smell.  This is ridiculous, putting down Wicca and gays and TV and every other known thing.  Who do you think you are?    Why don't you just mind your own business, live and let live, and let others mind theirs?   Wicca and gays have been around since the beginning and the most sophisticated people are into it.  There is no God, just the spiritual forces in the universe which man can manipulate.  There is nothing wrong with it, nor gays.  Go to hell.  R.F

R.F., I will start with your statement that "there is no God".    How interesting that you capitalized the "G" when you wrote the word God.    That is showing respect for Him.    Let's take a look at what there is in this world:  By number of species - 4260 mammals, 6787 reptiles, 9703 birds, 32000 fish, 80000 mollusks, one million insects (approx.).    Of course, another consideration is the fact that there are about 300000 species of plants.    That comes to a total of 1,432,750 separate living things on this earth that are large enough to actually see with our eyes, not including the millions of microbial forms of life on this earth.    All of this living on the earth with an atmosphere, and sunlight,  that is perfect enough that all of these life forms can not only survive but thrive.    It is more plausible to believe that the tooth fairy created all of this than to believe that the earth started as a lump of rock and through the passage of millions of years of time all of this came into being through a process you call evolution.     How can any reasonable, thinking person not believe that this was all purposely created according to a master plan by a loving God whose talents and genius are incomprehensible to us?    Just because you personally can't comprehend our all-powerful God, that has no relevance as to whether or not He exists.    You want proof that God is?    Look around you.    The evidence is everywhere you look.    Make up your own mind instead of just repeating the lies and stupidity of others.    The next thing you should believe in is Satan/Lucifer/the Devil.    The one who created the game of life gets to make the rules and God made the rules.    They can be found in His revealed Word called the Bible, or God's Word.    Whatever is in accordance with God's Will is righteous, good and approved by Him.    Whatever goes against God's Will is wrong, evil, sinful, and not approved by God.    Satan is the author of everything that is sinful and evil in the world.    According to God's Word, witchcraft/wicca is evil and promoted by Satan to serve his purposes, which is to bring you misery and an early death.    Homosexuality has also been declared evil in God's Word because it perverts the natural use of our bodies for procreation.    Homosexuals do Satan's will on many levels and has caused untold misery for millions of people.    "Who do I think I am?"    My allegiance and faith is in my God, and I serve His Son Jesus, my Savior and Lord.    My purpose in life is to tell you about God and His Son.    My earnest desire is that you come to love and worship Them like I do.    Most of what I write on this web-site has it's foundation in what I have learned from reading God's Word, the Bible.    I have no claim to wisdom other than to follow God's Will in my life.    That is Wisdom.    If only you could open your eyes and see the beauty of God all around you, you wouldn't wish for me to go live in hell with Satan, your master.      

 

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I was amazed at your witchcraft article, that God said they were to be killed.  This is an amazing revelation for me, that God actually took it that far.  But that is what the Puritans did.  This country started with killing witches who WEREN'T witches.  And now, due to the pagan invasion of the schools, everyone is into this type of voodoo, which goes along with homosexuality and every other ugly stinking thing common today.  Every little girl reading a book today, it's about witchcraft.  This is terrible.  What can be done?  Shirley

Shirley, one of the richest women in the world is the author of the Harry Potter series of books.    Satan richly rewards those who promote the occult and witchcraft.    I understand that the newest author of a vampire book series is well on her way to riches and fame also.    What can be done about things that are so popular?    Some things must run their course until their predictable end.    "The wages of sin is death" and "the love of money is the root of all evil".    I wonder where I read that before?

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This prison thing is unbelievable.  Privately owned?  I would like to know more about this situation because I just got out of prison and I do have tattoos which have limited me.  I can only stick close to my "own kind", which really isn't the truth because I did graduate from college.   One drunken night I went wrong, getting involved with buying drugs (meth) and I spent five  worst years of my life in  the pen. I never want to go back.  You seem to have a higher view.  I appreciate this--what else is privately owned, perpetuating itself?  This seems like a terrible crime on souls of men, incredible, horrible. I am thinking the reason this happened to me is so I could talk about it. Danny

Danny, just about every government function is run on a for profit commercial basis, including the courts.    They are all run as corporations registered on Dunn & Bradstreet.    They are all regulated and operated under the provisions of the Universal Commercial Code (UCC).    That is what is driving our prison population ever higher and higher.    A year or two ago, Governor Schwarzenegger proposed releasing a large percentage of prison inmates in order to reduce the budget expenses for the State of California.    That idea was immediately squelched and removed from the press as a news topic.    The people making the money from these prisons are people in positions of power and weren't about to let a mere Governor take any money out the their pockets.    Schwarzenegger obviously knew that he wouldn't be releasing a lot of criminals into society, just guys like you Danny, that got caught in our broken system.    In your experience, was it hard for the inmates to obtain tattooing supplies?    Wasn't it obvious to you that the prison officials and guards knew that this tattooing was going on all the time?    Don't you think that the more tattoos an inmate gets out of prison with, the more likely they are to get sent right back in to prison?    The weirder you look to the outside population, the less accepted you will be.    Less accepted means having trouble getting and keeping a good job to support yourself with.    Less accepted means that you will most likely get together with others who look and act like you.    These are the people who are most likely to get back into crime out of frustration because they can't get a good-paying job.    People who look like misfits are assumed to be misfits and are treated that way whether or not they deserve it.    Getting tattoos in prison greatly increases the likelihood of eventually going back to prison.    Prison officials know this and allow it because it's good for business.    More prisoners = more profits.

Try to find someone who can disprove anything I am writing to you.    Don't waste your time on people who don't want to believe any of this.    That doesn't change reality.    Get on the Internet and see what you can find listed on Dunn & Bradstreet.    Don't expect all of them to be actually named by the business they're in.    That might prove to be too embarrassing.    Good luck. 

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My wife is into witchcraft big-time.  She calls it "Wicca".  She goes to cat sacrifices (which I detest), she hangs out with witches, and her morality is "do whatever thou wilt" (if it doesn't hurt others, which is bull).  She started this after seeing Harry Potter movies.  That is when our marriage started to change, and she became "not quite clean" in housework and herself.  I started to notice things--the "not quite clean" thing came from the Harry Potter movies which to me were filth--moral dirt.  Adolescent "bathroom humor" is how I would phrase it.  She started saying things that made me think she had demons in her.  I do not like her--is this grounds for divorce? Henry C.

Henry, why are so many people so quick to get a divorce?    Divorce should always be the last resort.    It might solve your problem, but it won't solve her problem.    Right now you are still man and wife and the two of you together should try to solve your problems together.    When you're married it's our problems, not his problem and her separate problem.    First of all, drag out a copy of your marriage vows.    It is a covenant entered into by oath before God.    If you only had a civil wedding, it is a contract between the two of you that you both voluntarily entered into.    A civil wedding is easier to ethically get out of because you are not breaking your oath before God.    So, what kind of vows did you take with each other?    What did you promise to each other?    Can you at least sit down and talk this out?    Your wife is definitely going down a path that is neither wholesome nor appropriate for a mature woman.    The Harry Potter series does not profess to be anything else but a fantasy story.    For adult women to attempt to live out a few fantasies as if it were real, and taking the life of a cat, are actions of immature little girls who happened to have grown up.    I think your best response is ridicule.    They can call it Wicca or Witchcraft, but I call it stupid.    Get your wife to read the essay on Witchcraft on this web-site.    Witchcraft is real and real witches can perform magic, according to the Bible, but I doubt if your wife and friends have a clue about what they are doing.    If they did, they would be scared to death or truly the tools of Satan.    If your wife will not listen to God's Word, logic, or reasonable common sense, then by all means you are ethically justified to get a divorce.    Most especially if you are a Christian, which I hope you are.    By pursuing this Wicca crap, your wife has made herself unclean in God's sight and you do not have to remain tied to her.    The sin is on her head, not yours.

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This is impossible to believe.   How bad things have gotten.  How do we start a revolution to change all middle schools into army camps?  How do we bring the military in, to declare Martial law on the schools?  That is obviously the only way.  We need to declare martial law on schools, prisons and the city streets at night--that means all the gangs.  Anyone with a gang tatoo has to go to prison army camp and march all day long, and work in the fields.  They need this, or our country is lost.  I am retired Navy and so I know the ropes--and these are pure dopes.  Percy Hunsley, SD

Percy, I want to address just one thing that you mentioned here which is prisons.    Prisons are a business.    They are loosely government regulated, but they exist to make money.    Punishing crime is secondary.    If that were not so, they wouldn't make it so extremely difficult to not violate their parole when they get out.    If the prisons get them right back in, they make more money.    The government pays the prison (a corporation) X amount of dollars per prisoner.    It costs the prisons Y amount of dollars per prisoner to house and feed.    The difference between X & Y = profit.    Everybody has heard the stories how prisoners get out of prison and go home to shock their families because they have swastika's on their foreheads and other tattoos all over the place.    The chance of them getting a decent job is slim to none.    They are only accepted around other losers like themselves.    Because of this they inevitably get into more trouble with the law and back in prison they go.    The prison officials know this.    That's why they allow the necessary materials into the prisons so the inmates can crudely tattoo each other.    They know that when these prisoners get out of prison looking like a cross between circus freaks and the Hell's Angels, it won't be long before they see them back in there.    Prisons that are busting at the seams with inmates are making a fine profit for their owners/stockholders.    To add insult to injury, our school systems are turning out young people that are totally immoral, immature, illiterate, and conscience free.    The prison business will continue to boom in the future.    The United States has more prisoners per capita than any other country in the world.    And who is it that doesn't believe that our society is heading for a great fall?    Evil never succeeds in the end.

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Under Karen's advice, I got the DVD "Betty Broderick".  This was recommended to me because my wife was a shit, upon the advice of the feminist generation.  I learned something very important here:  that in these cases, it is MORE IMPORTANT TO THE WOMAN TO HURT THE MAN, THAN TO PERSERVE HER OWN WELFARE.  Betty Broderick is in jail for life, dirt poor.  It was more important to kill the man, than to live in a mansion with 10 grand a month coming in for life--that is what she could have had.  Like a moth to the flame, women hurt themselves, in order to hurt men.  Feminism has NOT helped women, only hurt them.  They want to be mean--but always lose in the process, but still they press on trying through witchcraft and various means to hurt men.  They will commit adultery right in his face, to hurt him, even though they will lose their shirt in divorce courts.  This is truly a stupid generation.  This happened to me--my wife hurt me badly, trying to destroy me.  She got a conservative judge who was rather (gladly) ruthless with her and she lost her shirt in the process.  I would have gladly given her more, but she chose that route (thinking all judges are liberals, against men) and lost badly.  I do not feel sorry for her.  I think this is happening all over this country--women making very unwise decisions and trying to hurt good men.  Thank you Karen for saying these things and recommending the movie to me.  I would like your comments BG, Ken  Wisconsin

Wow Ken, it looks like that you were really put through a wringer.    Here's what God's word says about your ex-wife: 

Job 4:8  "In my experience, those who plow injustice and those who sow trouble reap the same."     

    Truly, we all reap what we sow.    If your intentions are evil, the consequences to you will be evil.    Take a look at the "Golden Rule" and what it implies:    "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you".     The implication here is that:  Whatever you do to others, you can expect that to happen to you.    Whatever you wish upon another, may very well happen to you.    In the Lords Prayer it says:  "forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us" .   This also implies that:  If we can't find it in our hearts to forgive each other, can we really expect God to answer our prayers and forgive us our trespasses?    I know that your ex-wife hurt you very much, however, she also is a victim of our society and actually believed too much of that feminist crap and was dumb enough to think it was righteous and she was the victim of you (a man), her oppressor.    Worse things are happening in the government schools.    A close friend of mine went through pretty much the same thing as you.    After his divorce was over (also a conservative judge who ruled in his favor), my friend chose to send his ex-wife $90.- a month to her in addition to what the judge ordered him to pay in support.    He did this to show her that, even though he didn't ever want her in any part of his future life, he didn't hate her.    He hated what she tried to do to him, but he didn't hate her.    After about six months, he found out from a friend that she was still slandering him and putting him down whenever she could.    He promptly stopped sending her the extra money and has ignored any mention of her from anybody.    She is finally out of his life.    My friend did the right thing.    He was willing to let go of any feelings of hostility toward her and made a peace offering of sorts.    She rejected his peace offering, to her detriment, and is now permanently out of his life, mentally and ethically.    To hold on to hate is always a bad thing.    Do the right thing and live in peace.    The courts determine what you must pay, but not what you must feel.    Don't hate.    Don't become like those whose actions you detest, like her.   

For those people who do not know what a wringer is - washing machines used to have only an agitator inside the tub.    There was no spin cycle.    There was, however, two rollers on top that could be engaged to turn so that the clothes being washed could be manually fed through the wringer (between the two rollers) to remove excess water before they were hung out to dry on a clothes line (no dryers then).    If you weren't careful and got a finger or more caught in the wringer, that led to physical disaster.    That's where the phrase "put through a wringer" comes from (ouch).

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I really enjoyed your new page on TV Addiction.  It has gotten rotten and the commercials are taking over much louder.  It is entertainment for pea-brains.  The thing is, I never realized this before reading the page, because I was an addict myself.  How stupid it all is, and how greatly addicting.  Do we get addicted to the noise?  It makes you think you need it, but when you get into your OWN reality, you can clearly see how much more there is to YOUR LIFE, the life you can't get back.  I really appreciate this new life and I feel as though I have taken a euphoric drug, getting "off the stuff".  It is worse than drugs.  I think you oughta do a book on this, because it is rampant everywhere.  Even in bars, stores, etc.  They think that's what we want.  I will be looking for new pages of yours.  How do we stop others from pursuing this senseless, time-wasting addiction?  Richard S, Waterton

Richard, it logically follows that the more you sit in front of the TV, the less physically active you are.    Do overweight people watch a lot of TV?    Many overweight people are good at multitasking and have no problem with watching TV and at the same time loading up on high carbohydrate junk foods and high sugar-content drinks.    I wonder why the USA is the second-fattest country in the world?    Another thought is the fact that most people are fairly intelligent and their minds are at work all the time.    If you don't have the money to pursue hobbies, read, study, etc., what can a person do but look for something to occupy and fill in all that spare brain-power.    Channel surfing fills that need to be entertained with a large variety of "food for thought".    It fills in the in-between times that occurs between doing necessary things around the home, and going somewhere else to do other things (or going to bed).    Maybe "they" should put timers on the TVs.    When TV time exceeds 66% of your time awake during that day, it automatically shuts off the TV.    To each his own.

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I really like what you two are doing here.  I have gained so much from what I've lost--weight wise.  I know how to eat for life now--omelet for breakfast, salad or fruit for lunch, juices and a few nuts and then JUST SKIP DINNER.  I am so thin I had to buy a whole new wardrobe (smart wool of course) and my closet is now filled with ICELANDER, the only way to go.  I thank you so much for this valuable information.  It is more than valuable, it puts you at the top of the heap.  I also love your moral revolution pages, and wow--what an eye-opener, that these "gays" are actually dirty nasty boys and girls.  It is incomprehensible that women have done this to us.  I want you to know that your MARRIAGE is a valuable sign to the whole world, on the value of family and married life.  This was a shock at first, since Karen spoke on the values of celibacy, but this is better I'm sure for each of you.  I want to be married, but it sure is hell hard to find a suitable mate in this silly, perverted climate of women's libbers.  In the churches, they are fat.  Henry C. NYC

Henry,   One of these days you will hopefully meet that very woman you want to spend the rest of your life with.     Although you haven't even met her yet, wouldn't it be nice if she is choosing to remain celibate until she meets you sometime in the future?    If you are doing the same thing, remaining celibate, wouldn't you two eventually attract each other?    I would like to think so.    A young man who trusted me once, didn't know how to react to the obvious sexual knowledge that his new wife possessed.    My first thoughts were that "this woman must have slept with dozens of men before she met him".    What I actually told him was that traditionally the man is the more experienced sex partner in a first-time marriage, but it's not written in stone anywhere that the opposite can't be true and accepted.    I felt sorry for the guy because he realized that he was but the latest bed partner in a long line of bed partners she had.    Lots of premarital sex by, either or, both the man and woman before marriage greatly degrades the sweetness and spice of the wedding night.    Call me a terribly old-fashioned and romantic man, but that's just the way I feel.    Karen feels the same way as I.    Henry, I don't know how interested in furthering your education you are, but college night courses are a good way to meet eligible women who are trying to improve themselves.    Karen says that the best way to meet the right person is attraction.    Clean up your own act and purify your body, mind and soul, then trust in God to bring in your soul mate.    For all things seek God only.    I agree with her.  

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Hello Brother Graham.  My son is "gay" and makes a big deal out of it.  I am against it, and he knows it and I am accordingly a bigot.  Ok, he can't just leave it at that, however.  He has his "friends" over, and they deliberately kiss each other--with tongue in mouth--in front of me in my living room.  it makes me so sick, and they say I have to get over my intolerance.  I am ready to end it all.  Katherine C,  comments appreciated.

Katherine, Karen has patiently explained to me that after the "baby-boomers" from WWII came "generation X".    The 'boomers were influenced by the anti-establishment hippies and the budding growth of the feminist movement.    The 'Xs lived through the Clinton era with all the scandals that involved.    The attitude was "if it's OK for the President to get it on with 'Monika' in the White House, then it's OK for everybody.    The far-left liberals were also busy accumulating most of the media organizations and the homo-community was busy promoting their weird propaganda through the Hollywood crowd, etc.    If you spend enough time and money to glamorize anything, it will eventually be accepted (read "The Marketing of Evil").    Generation X was well on it's way to being totally brainwashed by the year 2000.    Now you, Katherine, are trying to raise a son in this current generation of kids that are being daily lied to in school about the world and how it works, and that the morals and ethics prevalent in this country from 1776 to 1976 is all wrong and old fashioned and bigoted.    The only problem with that is the embarrassing truth that for those two hundred years those morals and ethics were highly successful and the current concept of no morals or ethics at all is failing miserably.    What you described as going on in your own home is proof of that.    Homosexuality is a genetic dead end.    In Europe the native races of those countries are declining in numbers while the Muslim immigrants to those countries are growing by leaps and bounds.    France has already exceeded 20% Muslim in population.    They seriously considered legalizing polygamy as a means of boosting the native Frenchmen but gave that up when it occurred to someone that would also boost the Muslim population even more (duh?).  http://www.home60515.com/4.html   http://theroadtoemmaus.org/RdLb/22SxSo/PnSx/HSx/hosx_lifspn.htm  http://www.familyresearchinst.org/FRI_EduPamphlet4.htML
    Read these links and get your son to do the same.    If you are not over thirty years older than your son, you will probably outlive him.    I have stated over and over again that you, the parent, are in authority over your minor child.    YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE TOLERANT OF ANYTHING YOU DISAPPROVE OF IN YOUR OWN HOME....    For your son to purposely offend you with his actions is totally disrespectful to you and you don't have to put up with it.    I recommend that you don't allow him to have any "friends" in your home until he can act decently towards you.    What you are putting up with is sickening and despicable.    Your son is not doing anything that you are not allowing him to do in your home.    If he brings his friends home anyway after you forbid him to, call the police and report a "home invasion"    That is your right.    Your rights supersede those of your son.    Stand up for yourself.

 

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I really appreciate your page called "ELDERS".  I am 64 and felt really bad  about it, until I read this fantastic page.  Now is the time for me to spread my wisdom, not wither and die.  Now is the best time of my life, rather than the worst.  I love this page and have sent it to all my friends who are also bereathed over their age.  How ridiculous--this is the best part of our life, should be anyway.  Betty, Maine

Betty, do you remember where you were at mentally in your twenties?    Would you like to go back to being that person?    I don't know about you, but I did some fairly stupid things back then, and in my thirties, and in my forties.    Wisdom comes from experience and experience comes from making mistakes.    That's not saying that I don't make any mistakes these days, but I don't blunder about as badly as I remember in the past.    Think about this:  A parent with a fifteen year old daughter has trouble with the daughter believing that her parent knows better than she what is best for her.    So the parent sits her down and asks her if the daughter at ten years old was capable of making all her own decisions compared to her present age of fifteen?    Obviously, the daughter realizes that she knows a lot more now, with five more years of experience, than she did at age ten, so she tells her mother "no".    Then the mother then reminds her that she, the mother, is thirty-five years old and has twenty years more experience and knowledge about life than her daughter and that's why she cannot and will not treat her daughter as an equal when it comes to decisions about morality and ethics in the daughter's activities.    The mother is responsible for her minor child and knows that she must enforce her authority as a parent in order to safeguard her child from making choices in her teen aged years that she will bitterly regret later.    Betty, you are 49 years older than this hypothetical girl and 29 years older that this hypothetical mother.    You have much more hard-gained experience and knowledge to offer to the members of your family and others.    The problems you will encounter trying to impart this wisdom are possible to overcome.    Us folks in our sixties tend to be a bit long-winded.    Get right to the point and then explain further after you have made your point.    You have a lifetime of personal experiences to draw from.    True wisdom is learning from the mistakes of others instead of repeating someone else's mistakes.    Do freely admit to mistakes you made in the past.    You have nothing to lose and your listeners have a lot to gain.    If you could relive your life with what you know now, you might make even worse/different mistakes and not even be alive now.    Be happy where and when you are at right now and enjoy life as it is.    You successfully made it this far.  

 

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HAH.  TV ADDICTION IS LIKE GOING INTO A MADHOUSE, with scattered voices in confusion and yelling and gibberish.  Thank you, Matt